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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2015 12:42 am 
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I was thinking today, another reason for my AA and some of my anxiety is about well, what my wants and needs are.. I'm non-monogamous, which for most women is instant rejection and in some cases(from online dating) the women freaked outed when I mentioned it(I would put it on the table before meeting)


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Why is it you think there aren't women out there who just want to fuck you and throw you away like a dirty paper towel? And since women are mood creatures many times they have the mood to do just such a thing with some guy they would bang but not date.

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Why are you speaking about your "non monogamy" before the conversation about "entering a relationship" has been introduced. Neither part if monogamous at the beginning of the relationship. You're free to date who you want and the girl is free to date who she wants. It is not until one of the two decided to escalate the "dating" into a relationship that a conversation about monogamy is introduced.

You ever hear of a friends with benefits? Or a fuck buddy? That sounds like exactly what you are looking for.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2015 12:22 am 
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Why is it you think there aren't women out there who just want to fuck you and throw you away like a dirty paper towel? And since women are mood creatures many times they have the mood to do just such a thing with some guy they would bang but not date.
I've had that happen to me a few times... Would have been nice if they were upfront about it:p...

@Eddie Fews, its more complex then that, however friends with benefits would be more ideal for me, but that does not go over to well with most women I have encounted either. It kinda makes me second guess approaching women...


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2015 1:54 pm 
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I was thinking today, another reason for my AA and some of my anxiety is about well, what my wants and needs are.. I'm non-monogamous, which for most women is instant rejection and in some cases(from online dating) the women freaked outed when I mentioned it(I would put it on the table before meeting)

Stop thinking of excuses. And it's cool to be upfront but don't be up front immediately. Wait till they get to know you and the time comes. Some women are ok with the fwb type deal. And who knows maybe you'll meet a girl you want all to yourself


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