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Sure, I may have some drinks with friends and family while at their place, but not at the bars/clubs. I got into a fight the other night and one of their friends jumped in. My wing just stood there.
That's the watered down version but it really boils down to alcohol. I have been going out with this one wing and all he wants to do is drink and pick up girls. Problem is we wind up getting wasted and broke by the end of the night. He did get some numbers but he doesn't remember what they look like but are most likely buffaloes.
I know this is not anything new, but I am here to make a vow. No more drinking+nightgame.
I'm not encouraging you to drink (alcohol can be dangerous) but I think there are some issues you need to tackle as to why this kind of stuff happens when you drink.
I was always more of a pothead, but that is out of the question with my job and all, so I drink now. I think my wing may be an alcoholic or he feels he needs alcohol to have a good time. He is excellent at cold approaches but when he's drunk, he becomes oblivious to his surroundings. That night, this guy was talking mess to him and I felt he was in danger. The guy was really thuggish and totally out of place. Even if I was sober, I'm not sure I would have been able to avoid the conflict. However, maybe the conflict could have been resolved peacefully if we all weren't drunk and maybe my wing would have been more careful about the initial interaction.
Also, if I wouldn't have been so drunk, I could have handled myself better in the fight. I was stumbling around and missing as one would expect a drunk guy to fight. It eats me up inside and I cannot let this happen again.