Primarily how people develop fake personalities and think that being an alpha male means being an asshole
This I agree with to an extent. No ones truly happy if their not comfortable especialy with themselves , you cannot be truely comfortable with yourself if you know your a "fake
However I strongly believe in Fake it till you make it
Going back to basic psychology every behaviour is learned. If you need to fake who you are to gain experience then by all means do it , Sure it may take time before your comfortable with who you are and are "a natural" so to say, but you will develop your own flow and rthym.
Faking and trying to pick up these "key skills" like being " alpha" allows you to gain entry into socail situations with a different light shon on them allowing you to learn basic traits , handle some situations better and repeat behaviours that where more favourable to you in a specific situation.
Dont even get me started on being a Man , some guys on this Forum realy need to reality check themselves . i just hope that the guys on this forum will eventually " step up " to being a man and settle down and have kids.
My 2 cents anyways