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PostPosted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 6:28 pm 
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Gotcha... thanks.

what about shit like joking about you're a child molester, or saying your mum helped you buy your wardrobe, or that you're into midget porn. I mean shit that she KNOWS is obviously bullshit... but you say it for the laugh.

Something to tone down?

Any feedback is appreciated, thanks.
Yeah, if that is your normal type of humor, I'd say go with it. For me, I am always trying to make everything I am talking about leading towards something.

So like the small penis thing is to get her talking about more sexual topics and have her thinking about having sex with me and what my dick looks like.

You can get a laugh out of the child molester thing or midget porn too, but make sure it is leading the interaction in the right direction.

Sounds like you are using it for humor. It gets her laughing, attracted, and engaged in the argument. From there, think about the direction you want to take it. Can you use that humor to convey other qualities like being a leader, taking what you want, dominance... Or try to build in some physicality into the jokes...

It's like killing two birds with one stone.

Make sense?

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yes yes.

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Assuming that it doesn't come from a position of neediness or desperation, does a man's expression of pure and uninhibited desire for the woman he is interacting with emotionally transfer to her own feelings, causing her to essentially feel the same way about him? The chapter about "The Rake" in Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction seems to suggest something like this, as does the teachings of Zan Perrion. The way I'm understanding this concept is that "direct game," or a man expressing his own sexual desire and intent, flips a certain attraction switch in a woman that causes her to desire him, too. Am I on the right track here?

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Yeah definitely, like the NLP term goes... You go first.

Lead her into a sexual direction. You can be just chatting a girl, but start thinking about her sexually, giving her the "bedroom eyes" and the interaction will just naturally evolve in a sexual direction.

A lot of it is that easy. But to be congruent, you can't be holding back things like getting physical, that should go hand in hand with escalating the interaction in a sexual way.

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