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Author:  GFRESH2DEF [ Mon Jul 31, 2017 11:51 am ]
Post subject:  Absolute Rules Of The Game That Should NEVER EVER Be Broken!

These are a list of absolute don't do's in game when it comes to picking up girls. I was just thinking about this the other day, and how these rules of the game are very important to build a solid foundation from. Obiding by these rules will give you an advantage, when it comes to competing against average codes in the field. And i've been operating from these fundamental rules, along the course of my progression in the game. So here is my post explaining those rules.


I believe about 7 out of 10 times, a negative result will come out of breaking any of these rules. I'm not saying that you will lose the girl if you break them, but you will definitely lower your value in her eyes should you break any of these rules. I feel like the "What to do's" is regurgitated alot in this forum and in pickup in general. It's probably more important to know more about the "What not to do's" (that i believe carry more of the dire consequences & repercussions if guys don't know what they are) that might help them alot more to succeed in the game. I feel like Guys who either don't know the rules of the game (because they just approach girls without the concrete knowledge and awareness of social dynamics between a man and a woman), they are newbies to pickup, or they have one of these rules as a blind spot or sticking point in their own game. Knowingly or unknowingly, they break these rules and it harms their results with women in the field.


These rules are listed randomly, i have not listed them in order of importance.


1) Do Not buy a girl a drink that you just met at the bar, if she hasn't shown you any investment first. If she hasn't shown any genuine interest in you..you will buy her the drink, she will say "Thanks for the drink", and bam! She peaces out. Leaving you all alone at the bar with your dick in your hand.


2) Do Not come to a girl's job to visit her..especially if you both aren't in an official relationship yet. If you just show up to her job, and you and her are not even in a serious relationship with each other..your actions will come across as being way out of left field. And you will send out massive creeper stalker vibes, to her and her co-workers. Don't be surprized if you stop receiving calls and texts from her after this little stunt that you just pulled. Now if you just so happen to be there, because you went there for another reason and the reason wasn't to see her..and you happen to run into her, then that's fine. You have to be on your purpose, don't make the girl your purpose.


3) Do Not take a girl that you like but still haven't banged yet..to the club for a date. Because you haven't fucked her yet, she doesn't have an emotional attachment to you yet (sex usually makes a girl feel an emotional attachment only to the guy that she's having sex with) and she may end up being swept away by another dude who will fuck your girl. You will go into the club with her, but you may end up leaving the club by yourself.


4) Do Not just stand there and wait for that random chick that you just met at a packed bar or club, to return back to you, when she tells you "Wait here, i'll be right back". Because 9 times out of 10, she never comes back. If you wait and wait and wait for her to come back..your state will drop as you're waiting for her. In that moment..you know that she's not coming back. But you want it to work because you invested your time and effort into her, so you will wait for her to come back to you anyway. You have to accept that you lost her at this point. Move on, approach other girls, and maybe re-approach her later on if she's still around. You gotta have that abundance mentality in this type of situation.


5) Do Not over-accommodate or qualify yourself to a girl on a Day-2 (or even on Day-1 for that matter)..ie being too "approval seeking", because each time you do that..she will lose more and more attraction for you. And i can promise you that you will not get laid by that girl, if you are demonstrating to her that type of approval seeking behavior. She may not even want to give you a kiss at the end of the night. Instead..be a little bit of a dick, un-apologetic, and not needing her approval. This little bit of douchy behavior will be what spikes up attraction in the girl..not the approval seeking, nice guy behavior.


6) Do Not send paragraphs to girls, when running text game. This is needy behavior, and she will text you back less and less every time you text her. Your lines of text should mirror her lines of text length-wise. Or better yet..even be shorter than her text to you. Also, wait for her to text you back, before you send her another text. If she doesn't text you back after 5 days..i have a system in place to specifically deal with that (routines/flakey-girl-text-game-the-stri ... 99420.html)


7) Do Not give a girl your phone number, without getting hers first..thinking that she will call or text you. Because she won't. If you give her your phone number without getting hers..9 times out of 10 she will flake on you. You have to be the one to take the lead and follow-up with her first. Girls do not like taking the lead or making the first move. So stop being lazy..expecting girls to do the work for you! Man up and take the lead! You have to be the one to get her number, hit her up later, and set up the Day-2 or meetup.


8 ) Do Not put all your focus and attention into just one girl. Talk to multiple girls at the same time to give yourself multiple options..to refrain from you coming down with "one-itis". Once again..Abundance!


9) Do Not fuck a girl raw. If you don't plan on being in a long-term relationship with her, don't want an STD, or if paying child support to some random chick isn't a financial investment that you plan on making in the near future..then put on a fucking condom man! If you don't like the feel of a condom like i don't, then walk around with a small tube of lubrication in your pocket. That's what i do. So that when you do fuck her with the condom on your dick, it will almost feel like you're fucking her raw, and the sex will still feel awesome.


I follow these rules almost religiously. Lol


Now these are the absolute rules of the game that i came up with. They are based on my own experience in the game, and as long as i obided by them..i saved myself from suffering alot of unnecessary pain, heartache, and emotional distress. I believe that each one of the rules that i listed should NEVER..EVER be broken if you plan on making it far in this game. Or making it at all for that matter.


If you guys have more absolute rules of the game, to add that i did not mention here..feel free to throw in your rules.


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Author:  oceanx [ Tue Aug 01, 2017 9:06 am ]
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Seconded.

Author:  R.C [ Fri Aug 04, 2017 1:18 pm ]
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Good post.

Inb4 Arch comes in and calls you weak and needy.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Aug 04, 2017 6:14 pm ]
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Great post G-dog

10. Do not stake ANY claim until you'd had regular sex for a while, and she brings it up. Just because you said 'hey' to a girl on tinder doesn't mean you're in a relationship.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Aug 04, 2017 7:01 pm ]
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Quote:
Good post.

Inb4 Arch comes in and calls you weak and needy.
Why? I agree with all of it.

Author:  R.C [ Fri Aug 04, 2017 8:43 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Good post.

Inb4 Arch comes in and calls you weak and needy.
Why? I agree with all of it.
Don't know. It doesn't take much for you to do so.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Aug 04, 2017 8:49 pm ]
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Some days I have too much coffee.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun Aug 06, 2017 2:32 am ]
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Pretty good standard rules. I think the bit about staying when she tells you to stay is a good thing to adopt. I'd definitely roam around if my good friends told me to stay. I will stay in the vicinity, but I will be doing something other than twiddling my thumbs. Good post.

Author:  GFRESH2DEF [ Sun Aug 06, 2017 12:22 pm ]
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Pretty good standard rules. I think the bit about staying when she tells you to stay is a good thing to adopt. I'd definitely roam around if my good friends told me to stay. I will stay in the vicinity, but I will be doing something other than twiddling my thumbs. Good post.
Thank you. I thought long and hard about these rules. No pun intended.


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Author:  jonblake [ Sun Aug 27, 2017 5:03 pm ]
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5) Do Not over-accommodate or qualify yourself to a girl .... EVER
I've seen times once you've been with a girl for a while they tend to try and control you and tell you what to do. You like her and you start accommodating her bitchy-ness and seeking her approval. or you may become emotional and suddenly find yourself doing things to seek her approval and prolong the relationship. What it took to get her will take to keep her. Don't let these broads domesticate you. Use the push and pull, or "hot and cold" method if you find yourself in this situation after several weeks or months of dating.

6) Do Not send paragraphs to girls, when running text game.....UNLESS THE SITUATION DICTATES IT
This is def needy behavior. i've had girls show me text from their other fuckboys and boyfriends where they texted super long paragraphs and how she made fun and didn't even read it. AND YES she will respond less and less. If you're sending paragraphs and she's sending 2 word responses, or a short sentence thats an indicator you're going down the wrong path. Use your best judgement to type a paragraph like when you're having to explain something or maybe you too are in an argument etc., sometimes its warranted. And yes...ALWAYS wait for her to text you back. Don't go on and on and on.

Author:  GFRESH2DEF [ Mon Aug 28, 2017 11:52 pm ]
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5) Do Not over-accommodate or qualify yourself to a girl .... EVER
I've seen times once you've been with a girl for a while they tend to try and control you and tell you what to do. You like her and you start accommodating her bitchy-ness and seeking her approval. or you may become emotional and suddenly find yourself doing things to seek her approval and prolong the relationship. What it took to get her will take to keep her. Don't let these broads domesticate you. Use the push and pull, or "hot and cold" method if you find yourself in this situation after several weeks or months of dating.

6) Do Not send paragraphs to girls, when running text game.....UNLESS THE SITUATION DICTATES IT
This is def needy behavior. i've had girls show me text from their other fuckboys and boyfriends where they texted super long paragraphs and how she made fun and didn't even read it. AND YES she will respond less and less. If you're sending paragraphs and she's sending 2 word responses, or a short sentence thats an indicator you're going down the wrong path. Use your best judgement to type a paragraph like when you're having to explain something or maybe you too are in an argument etc., sometimes its warranted. And yes...ALWAYS wait for her to text you back. Don't go on and on and on.

Author:  GFRESH2DEF [ Tue Aug 29, 2017 12:31 am ]
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Quote:
5) Do Not over-accommodate or qualify yourself to a girl .... EVER
I've seen times once you've been with a girl for a while they tend to try and control you and tell you what to do. You like her and you start accommodating her bitchy-ness and seeking her approval. or you may become emotional and suddenly find yourself doing things to seek her approval and prolong the relationship. What it took to get her will take to keep her. Don't let these broads domesticate you. Use the push and pull, or "hot and cold" method if you find yourself in this situation after several weeks or months of dating.

6) Do Not send paragraphs to girls, when running text game.....UNLESS THE SITUATION DICTATES IT
This is def needy behavior. i've had girls show me text from their other fuckboys and boyfriends where they texted super long paragraphs and how she made fun and didn't even read it. AND YES she will respond less and less. If you're sending paragraphs and she's sending 2 word responses, or a short sentence thats an indicator you're going down the wrong path. Use your best judgement to type a paragraph like when you're having to explain something or maybe you too are in an argument etc., sometimes its warranted. And yes...ALWAYS wait for her to text you back. Don't go on and on and on.
I agree with you 100% jonblake.


To anybody reading this who is guilty of these behaviors that we all have highlighted in this thread..especially if you're doing it chronically, it's probably destroying your life and you may not even know it. It sounds a little bit extreme for me to say this, but it's true. I've experienced the consequences and repercussions on my own life first hand, from doing these behaviors.


This is a forum for picking up women..yes that's true..but this is self-development as well. Skills that will not just help you improve with women, but to help you improve in your life overall as well. When you are putting your needy approval-seeking behavior out there into the environment around you, you're not just turning off women. Your friends are turned off by it, your roommates are turned off by it, your neighbors are turned off by it, people that you talk to in the different places that you go to while running errands are turned off by it, members of your own family are turned off by it, hell..your pets might even be turned off by it. Lol


And the worst part about it is..they will never tell you to your face. They will just kinda distance themselves from you.


So the sooner that you can nix this needy approval-seeking behavior from your system, the better off your life will be overall. Of course there are other self-sabotaging behaviors that you want to eliminate from your system..but neediness & approval-seeking is a good place to start.


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