This is question most guys in the community don't take a moment to answer seriously, and it's part of the reason why a lot of guys hit a plateau within a couple months of starting to go out.
You're going to experience a lot of emotional pain by approaching women, anxiety, self-doubt, you're ego is going to get smacked around. You're going to trigger neurotic, self-defeating thoughts, you're going to get rejected many, many times (if you actually do game lol).
Really ask yourself, am I willing to go out several times a week (if not more) and do something I'm uncomfortable with every time I go out?
This is question most guys in the community don't take a moment to answer seriously, and it's part of the reason why a lot of guys hit a plateau within a couple months of starting to go out.
You're going to experience a lot of emotional pain by approaching women, anxiety, self-doubt, you're ego is going to get smacked around. You're going to trigger neurotic, self-defeating thoughts, you're going to get rejected many, many times (if you actually do game lol).
Really ask yourself, am I willing to go out several times a week (if not more) and do something I'm uncomfortable with every time I go out?
If the answer's no, you're not going to be able to make consistent progress, it's as simple as that.
But here's the tough part, we all have a gut reaction to say, "yes, I'm willing." But, if you trust your initial response you're not being honest with yourself, you really have to be willing to question yourself on this, to weight the pros and cons (hell, you can even make a pro/con chart and weight each collumn)
It's okay if the answer's no, the only thing that's going to hurt you is a wishy-washy answer, just dipping your toes in the water. And that's what most guys do, they tell themselves they want to get this area of this life handled, but they don't want to go through the struggle, so they watch the videos and go out and approach a girl here and there, but never make real progress.
I've been going out for years, this is 90% of guys- don't focus so much on what you want to get out of game, focus on what you're willing to give up, that's where the magic is. Once you can answer that, your goal is real, it's meaningful, and it's going to catalyze real change. _________________ High-quality PUA blog: http://averyhayden.net/
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