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Author:  socialinception [ Fri May 12, 2017 2:43 am ]
Post subject:  The Vicious Cycle (That stops pua's from getting hot girls)

Each month that goes by in which you don’t successfully date an attractive woman, the notion that you’re not good enough for one is being reinforced.

This self-fulfilling prophecy becomes even more ruthless because the belief that you don’t deserve beautiful women will be reflected in your behavior around them. Your negative beliefs are going to make you uncomfortable around women you’re attracted to, which will lead you to act doubtful and anxious in their company. As a result, attractive women will feel uncomfortable around you.

You will notice that attractive women are uncomfortable around you, and that they clearly don’t find you attractive. You will conclude (naturally) that these high-quality women don’t find you attractive because you lack high-status or traditional good looks; when in reality, they’re not attracted to you because of you act doubtful and anxious in their company.

Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri May 12, 2017 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Vicious Cycle (That stops pua's from getting hot gir

Unless you don't assume that a month without a hot girl is due to some failure. This post is coming from an awful point of view regarding a need for external validation. Pickup is a hobby.

Author:  puaninja [ Sat May 13, 2017 3:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The Vicious Cycle (That stops pua's from getting hot gir

It's basically what they call in the hunting world "buck fever". You get all nervous around the trophy and can't perform right.

A self-limiting belief like that is particularly toxic because it may just be that your game is only partly effective on some women, irrespective of their hotness level. And when you strike out on HB9s and 10s you assume its because they are out of your league, however, you might actually bag the next one that comes along if you stay positive and keep gaming. Guys like that probably strike out a lot on 6s and 7s too but don't really notice or care. They only get in their heads when it involves the trophy girls. The reality is probably that you have flaws in your game, and has nothing to do with 9s and 10s specifically.

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