The Real Reason Why We Love Bad Boys, Toxic Partners and Emo



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 12:08 pm 
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http://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi ... lable-men/

Quite the interesting article that briefly mentions the effects that PUA gaming can have on a girl's brain.
If you're wondering why girls tend to be captivated by asshole jerks, and have an aversion to "nice guys" then have a read.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2017 10:39 am 
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Interesting.

Still though, just be a chill dude to her. Practice the golden rule. Have a fucking edge. She'll get the same feelings and you won't have to be a raging asshole. That way you both win.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:34 pm 
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I agree. I should have mentioned that I do not advocate this type of behavior, but I think it is important for people to understand.


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PostPosted: Mon May 01, 2017 2:38 am 
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I've always felt like bad boys get girls despite being bad, not because of it. I mean there are only so many good guys out there and most are taken...those that have anything to offer anyway. So a lot of women go for bad boys because they are all that's left aside from AFC's. And there are tons of bad boys that are lonely losers too, so simply being bad isn't doing much for them. The ones that do well with women are probably decent looking guys with high self confidence who just happen to live bad lifestyles. They'd probably get even more high quality chicks if they cleaned their lives up.

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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2017 2:17 am 
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Although her handle on psychology/neurochemistry is a bit questionable, I think she's right that unpredictability is playing a role, when someone you admire doesn't totally validate you, you become addicted to them like a drug.

But I also think bad boys are so appealing because they make their own rules and live according to their own values (even though they are often fucked up) People are magnetically drawn to those qualities even if the person is toxic in many ways.

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