Now, I had a nice little
that went on in my head two weeks ago. Sure, I get laid, but I always struggled with keeping them around. Then I found out that I sucked at keeping in touch with girls and well you know what happens, they find some other chump to fill their "void".
This is especially important after sex and related to the whole idea of striking while the iron is hot. If she digs you, and you dig her, drop the whole "I gotta have her keep chasing me" shit. It's retarded and will hurt you in the long run. Just send her a text, talk to her on the phone for 10 minutes, facetime, snapchat her. Make yourself a part of her weekly routine. She will drop her guard down and get used to you. This also results in minimal flakes and less buyers remorse. If you don't like her like that, then obviously don't do what I just said.
You lose girls a lot by thinking in the mindset of "oh she gotta text me first or I might end up looking like a bitch". Just show the damn girl some attention, she is probably being the same thing and being a girl by being passive about it. Some girls will contact you out of their own free will if your game is tight, but try to get a small convo going to keep the fire alive.
And for the dudes that like one night stands or getting to know the chick, this won't apply to you.