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Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  The Importance of showing her some attention

Now, I had a nice little :idea: that went on in my head two weeks ago. Sure, I get laid, but I always struggled with keeping them around. Then I found out that I sucked at keeping in touch with girls and well you know what happens, they find some other chump to fill their "void".

This is especially important after sex and related to the whole idea of striking while the iron is hot. If she digs you, and you dig her, drop the whole "I gotta have her keep chasing me" shit. It's retarded and will hurt you in the long run. Just send her a text, talk to her on the phone for 10 minutes, facetime, snapchat her. Make yourself a part of her weekly routine. She will drop her guard down and get used to you. This also results in minimal flakes and less buyers remorse. If you don't like her like that, then obviously don't do what I just said.


You lose girls a lot by thinking in the mindset of "oh she gotta text me first or I might end up looking like a bitch". Just show the damn girl some attention, she is probably being the same thing and being a girl by being passive about it. Some girls will contact you out of their own free will if your game is tight, but try to get a small convo going to keep the fire alive.


And for the dudes that like one night stands or getting to know the chick, this won't apply to you.

Author:  JackZero [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Importance of showing her some attention

It's funny how using common sense makes your whole life easier. Most guys are obsessed with keeping their frame that they will lose more girls that would stick around for months.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Importance of showing her some attention

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It's funny how using common sense makes your whole life easier. Most guys are obsessed with keeping their frame that they will lose more girls that would stick around for months.

Common sense is a lost art for many people. I am not sure how this other complicated advice is regurgitated and passed on to the masses.

Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Mon Feb 20, 2017 3:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Importance of showing her some attention

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Now, I had a nice little :idea: that went on in my head two weeks ago. Sure, I get laid, but I always struggled with keeping them around. Then I found out that I sucked at keeping in touch with girls and well you know what happens, they find some other chump to fill their "void".

This is especially important after sex and related to the whole idea of striking while the iron is hot. If she digs you, and you dig her, drop the whole "I gotta have her keep chasing me" shit. It's retarded and will hurt you in the long run. Just send her a text, talk to her on the phone for 10 minutes, facetime, snapchat her. Make yourself a part of her weekly routine. She will drop her guard down and get used to you. This also results in minimal flakes and less buyers remorse. If you don't like her like that, then obviously don't do what I just said.


You lose girls a lot by thinking in the mindset of "oh she gotta text me first or I might end up looking like a bitch". Just show the damn girl some attention, she is probably being the same thing and being a girl by being passive about it. Some girls will contact you out of their own free will if your game is tight, but try to get a small convo going to keep the fire alive.


And for the dudes that like one night stands or getting to know the chick, this won't apply to you.
The problem is that a lot of guys haven't hit that hook point where the girl is actually attracted, or don't know how to properly judge it - so the keeping in touch thing is just a waste of time.

There's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with a girl that likes you, but it is a massive time suck to try and "friend" your way into a girl, especially when she's fine with you being a friend.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Feb 20, 2017 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Importance of showing her some attention

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Now, I had a nice little :idea: that went on in my head two weeks ago. Sure, I get laid, but I always struggled with keeping them around. Then I found out that I sucked at keeping in touch with girls and well you know what happens, they find some other chump to fill their "void".

This is especially important after sex and related to the whole idea of striking while the iron is hot. If she digs you, and you dig her, drop the whole "I gotta have her keep chasing me" shit. It's retarded and will hurt you in the long run. Just send her a text, talk to her on the phone for 10 minutes, facetime, snapchat her. Make yourself a part of her weekly routine. She will drop her guard down and get used to you. This also results in minimal flakes and less buyers remorse. If you don't like her like that, then obviously don't do what I just said.


You lose girls a lot by thinking in the mindset of "oh she gotta text me first or I might end up looking like a bitch". Just show the damn girl some attention, she is probably being the same thing and being a girl by being passive about it. Some girls will contact you out of their own free will if your game is tight, but try to get a small convo going to keep the fire alive.


And for the dudes that like one night stands or getting to know the chick, this won't apply to you.
The problem is that a lot of guys haven't hit that hook point where the girl is actually attracted, or don't know how to properly judge it - so the keeping in touch thing is just a waste of time.

There's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with a girl that likes you, but it is a massive time suck to try and "friend" your way into a girl, especially when she's fine with you being a friend.


In that case your job is to have her have attraction spikes until she imagines a date with you to be fun and worth the adventure

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