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PostPosted: Sat Oct 19, 2013 1:05 am 
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I am no stranger to going through my frustrating moments with women and it has gotten me down before. The lack of success with women would make me depressed and really kill my self-esteem. Sometimes I would end up going online venting and when I read some articles by Manosphere authors, which made me become somewhat of a misogynist. Yet I knew that is not what I wanted to be, I knew that is not the right thing, and so I decided to take a different approach and one that picked me up.

Take out a sheet of paper, a pen, and get away from your computer right now.

Now, settle in, think a bit, learn to recall your past memories AND think about all of the good things women (outside of your family) have done for you in the past 2 years.

Start small!!!

What about that girl who held the door open for you?
What about the girl who smiled at you?
What about the girl who brought you something?
What about the girl that tried to pick you up when you were down?
What about the girl you had a nice conversation with?

Now work your way up!!!

What about the girl you were about to go places with but due to lack of game and stuff you failed?
What about the girl who showed SOME interest in you but you just failed to pick up on it?


Truth is.

Lack of success with women can make a man frustrated to the point he turns into a woman hater and says all this misogynistic nonsense. We concentrate so much on the negative that it beats us down without ever focusing on the better parts like when a woman did do something good for us. Us these positive thoughts.

Don't tell yourself "Oh I don't have a 9/10 face, women hate me, all women are shallow, I am screwed".

Tell yourself "I had a chance, I blew it, she never got the see the best version of me but the next lucky lady WILL!"

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 19, 2013 1:18 am 
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I am no stranger to going through my frustrating moments with women and it has gotten me down before. The lack of success with women would make me depressed and really kill my self-esteem. Sometimes I would end up going online venting and when I read some articles by Manosphere authors, which made me become somewhat of a misogynist. Yet I knew that is not what I wanted to be, I knew that is not the right thing, and so I decided to take a different approach and one that picked me up.

Take out a sheet of paper, a pen, and get away from your computer right now.

Now, settle in, think a bit, learn to recall your past memories AND think about all of the good things women (outside of your family) have done for you in the past 2 years.

Start small!!!

What about that girl who held the door open for you?
What about the girl who smiled at you?
What about the girl who brought you something?
What about the girl that tried to pick you up when you were down?
What about the girl you had a nice conversation with?

Now work your way up!!!

What about the girl you were about to go places with but due to lack of game and stuff you failed?
What about the girl who showed SOME interest in you but you just failed to pick up on it?


Truth is.

Lack of success with women can make a man frustrated to the point he turns into a woman hater and says all this misogynistic nonsense. We concentrate so much on the negative that it beats us down without ever focusing on the better parts like when a woman did do something good for us. Us these positive thoughts.

Don't tell yourself "Oh I don't have a 9/10 face, women hate me, all women are shallow, I am screwed".

Tell yourself "I had a chance, I blew it, she never got the see the best version of me but the next lucky lady WILL!"
Good post man. Instead of guys venting and being angry about girls they should focus their energy in a positive direction. You can't make someone like you. everyone has free will.


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