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Author:  skills360 [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 2:43 am ]
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Hey guys there is a guru name cobi(he is really good warped mindless follows a lot of his stuff) anyway here is his rule on time wasters, very similar to my approach:
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I next any who commit any 2, or more, of the following :

1) Fails the sex talk twice or more - as in doesn't want to discuss anything remotely flirty/sexual

2) Fails the meet test twice or more - i.e. flaky when i bring up meet logistics

3) Poor investment- during texting or initial meet.

4) Only offering "safe" date options - e.g. coffee shop/lunch dates.


There are many details which are hidden within each section, but that's a brief summary.

My near 100% first date lay-rate is directly attributed to sticking to the above check-list.

I just do not keep a girl who violates those, especially the top two.

Depending on the severity of her fail, i may even tell her not to "contact me again".

As i found some girls keep contacting you as a source of entertainment.

I am savage with those types, i just can't stand them!

Author:  skills360 [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 6:25 pm ]
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Hey guys i did a field report on a "Church type girl" for those of you who think this can not work with "nice girls" still debating if i want to fuck her or not, since she is 22, my cut off age is 24 and i know, based on experience that she will be a clinger in the making, and she is kind of a pain in the ass... But who knows i may fuck her...


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Author:  lucifer7 [ Sun May 26, 2013 8:20 pm ]
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It's a great guide skills, always liked your work on the club game.

I've only so often tried with sexting with mixed results.
I think one should also be aware of the disadvantages, which in my opinion are:

1.
Maniac risk
If no attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is established, there's a high danger of coming off as a maniac.
The danger is still high if connection is there and doesn't completely disappear not even when attraction is present.

2.
High risk
Even when attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is there, this is still high reward and... High risk.
I think that "attraction" is much more important than connection.
How many personal encounters with possibly great girls that are not yet that attracted to you you might be missing by going all out via text?

Also one danger is that you make a girl horny right there right now, but... You know that attraction has an expiration date. She might go out that same evening and find another guy to appease her desires.

Or she might slot you as a text buddy.

Anyway, if you don't have time, if you're only looking for a certain kind of sexual encounter, if you don't mind about burning a lot of leads, then fine, otherwise one should be aware of the dangers.

3.
How much does it really boost your chances?
You might burn a lot of leads, but there are upsides: that you are much more likely to sleep with the girl you are going to meet and quickly weed out the non interested. Great.
But if you're good enough once in person and chances are high that you will sleep with the girl you're going with anyway, sexting only raises your chances by a little bit.

4.
Who do you get, who does it work best with?
Do you mainly (note: I say mainly, not only) get "party girls", disinhibited girls and cougars with sexting, risking to burn the bridges with shyer, "sunday girls"?
Possibly so.
I'm not say it won't work on "sunday girls", or that they are less sexual, and obviously not saying that they're better than "party girls", just that the hit rate with them might be much lower with sexting than with a "normal" "let's go out" approach.

5.
Better suited for some guys than for others
I would say that it works best with guys that already give off sexy vibes.
While you don't need to be super sexy or muscular to give off sexy vibes, it certainly helps.

As an example, take me: short, thin (proudly slim fit :D), glasses and well dressed. While I can do manage at times to pull off the sexy guy, sexting would definitely work better for a big body builder. A girl can imagine this kind of guy to slam her against the wall if he tells her so (and maybe she does even without him telling anything).
Unless she's really small and lightweight, it would be a bit more of a stretch to imagine me doing that :) (but it would work well if I wanted to screen for creative/imaginative girls :D :lol: )




All said, if you fit the bill with attraction, are quick to move on if no meet in sight, want to be 100% sure of having sex upon meet up, don't mind the high risk of losing many girls (and possibly that one you really like)... Then by all means you can go for it :).

Author:  skills360 [ Sun May 26, 2013 9:24 pm ]
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Lucifer all great observations and valid points i will break it down here:
Quote:
It's a great guide skills, always liked your work on the club game.

I've only so often tried with sexting with mixed results.
I think one should also be aware of the disadvantages, which in my opinion are:

1.
Maniac risk
If no attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is established, there's a high danger of coming off as a maniac.
The danger is still high if connection is there and doesn't completely disappear not even when attraction is present.

I would not say maniac, but as a creepy, uncalibrated, pervert... If you come across like that, you are not doing it right... If you notice i say numbers do not mean anything, unless strong chemestry, vibe and sexual escalation/makeout. I only get numbers from women that are heavily into me, and i had done tons of stuff with them at the club in my case. I am super heavy on screening, and i have about 5 post on screening.
Quote:
2.
High risk
Even when attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is there, this is still high reward and... High risk.
I think that "attraction" is much more important than connection.
How many personal encounters with possibly great girls that are not yet that attracted to you you might be missing by going all out via text?

Also one danger is that you make a girl horny right there right now, but... You know that attraction has an expiration date. She might go out that same evening and find another guy to appease her desires.

Or she might slot you as a text buddy.

Anyway, if you don't have time, if you're only looking for a certain kind of sexual encounter, if you don't mind about burning a lot of leads, then fine, otherwise one should be aware of the dangers.

I focus on arousal and i believe arousal creates attraction, i do not care about connecting much, since all i am doing is screening for down to fuck through text and selling myself as a fun, not judgmental lover... Some of the girls get so hooked kind of addicted to your text if you do it right.
Quote:
3.
How much does it really boost your chances?
You might burn a lot of leads, but there are upsides: that you are much more likely to sleep with the girl you are going to meet and quickly weed out the non interested. Great.
But if you're good enough once in person and chances are high that you will sleep with the girl you're going with anyway, sexting only raises your chances by a little bit.
Again i am screening for down to fuckness, and for having sex. Yes ideally some guys like my friend warped mindless do exactly what you just said, i do not want to take the chance of not fucking in person. Let me explain, i want her to know that the next encounter will be 100% a sexual encounter, even if we do some stupid shit like renting a movie, i do not want ANY room for error. By the way i actually enjoy texting for me is a form of self amuzement and entertainment... So if you notice i could just go for the meet right away, but i am screening for personality of the girl, i want to get to know her as a women, and i want to open up to me sexually.
Quote:
4.
Who do you get?
Do you mainly (note: I say mainly, not only) get "party girls" with sexting, risking to burn the bridges with shyer, "sunday girls"?
Possibly so.
I'm not say it won't work on "sunday girls", and obviously not saying that they're better than "party girls", just that the hit rate with them might be much much lower with sexting than with a "normal" approach.
All types of girls, from all professions. I did a post on church girl, look for it. The idea in your head that some women are "party girls" and others are "Different" is a myth all women are the same "Sexual", they just put on a show for "Society". Read my post on secret society
http://www.theskillsmethod.com/exposing ... n-insider/

Quote:
5.
Better suited for some guys than for others
I would say that it works best with guys that already give off sexy vibes.
While you don't need to be super sexy or muscular to give off sexy vibes, it certainly helps.


As an example, take me: short, thin (proudly slim fit ), glasses and well dressed. While I can do manage at times to pull off the sexy guy, sexting would definitely work better for a big body builder. A girl can imagine this kind of guy to slam her against the wall if he tells her so (and maybe she does even without him telling anything).
Unless she's really small and lightweight, it would be a bit more of a stretch to imagine me doing that (but it would work well if I wanted to screen for creative/imaginative girls )




All said, if you fit the bill with attraction, are quick to move on if no meet in sight, want to be 100% sure of having sex upon meet up, don't mind the high risk of losing many girls (and possibly that one you really like)... Then by all means you can go for it .
^ I disagree there is a dude name teevester who is the king of sexual talk, he is not muscular at all, this i a limiting belief. Most women do not like body builders.

Author:  lucifer7 [ Mon May 27, 2013 12:56 am ]
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Lucifer all great observations and valid points i will break it down here:
Quote:
It's a great guide skills, always liked your work on the club game.

I've only so often tried with sexting with mixed results.
I think one should also be aware of the disadvantages, which in my opinion are:

1.
Maniac risk
If no attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is established, there's a high danger of coming off as a maniac.
The danger is still high if connection is there and doesn't completely disappear not even when attraction is present.

I would not say maniac, but as a creepy, uncalibrated, pervert... If you come across like that, you are not doing it right... If you notice i say numbers do not mean anything, unless strong chemestry, vibe and sexual escalation/makeout. I only get numbers from women that are heavily into me, and i had done tons of stuff with them at the club in my case. I am super heavy on screening, and i have about 5 post on screening.
Quote:
2.
High risk
Even when attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is there, this is still high reward and... High risk.
I think that "attraction" is much more important than connection.
How many personal encounters with possibly great girls that are not yet that attracted to you you might be missing by going all out via text?

Also one danger is that you make a girl horny right there right now, but... You know that attraction has an expiration date. She might go out that same evening and find another guy to appease her desires.

Or she might slot you as a text buddy.

Anyway, if you don't have time, if you're only looking for a certain kind of sexual encounter, if you don't mind about burning a lot of leads, then fine, otherwise one should be aware of the dangers.

I focus on arousal and i believe arousal creates attraction, i do not care about connecting much, since all i am doing is screening for down to fuck through text and selling myself as a fun, not judgmental lover... Some of the girls get so hooked kind of addicted to your text if you do it right.
Quote:
3.
How much does it really boost your chances?
You might burn a lot of leads, but there are upsides: that you are much more likely to sleep with the girl you are going to meet and quickly weed out the non interested. Great.
But if you're good enough once in person and chances are high that you will sleep with the girl you're going with anyway, sexting only raises your chances by a little bit.
Again i am screening for down to fuckness, and for having sex. Yes ideally some guys like my friend warped mindless do exactly what you just said, i do not want to take the chance of not fucking in person. Let me explain, i want her to know that the next encounter will be 100% a sexual encounter, even if we do some stupid shit like renting a movie, i do not want ANY room for error. By the way i actually enjoy texting for me is a form of self amuzement and entertainment... So if you notice i could just go for the meet right away, but i am screening for personality of the girl, i want to get to know her as a women, and i want to open up to me sexually.
Quote:
4.
Who do you get?
Do you mainly (note: I say mainly, not only) get "party girls" with sexting, risking to burn the bridges with shyer, "sunday girls"?
Possibly so.
I'm not say it won't work on "sunday girls", and obviously not saying that they're better than "party girls", just that the hit rate with them might be much much lower with sexting than with a "normal" approach.
All types of girls, from all professions. I did a post on church girl, look for it. The idea in your head that some women are "party girls" and others are "Different" is a my all women are the same "Sexual", they just put on a show for "Society". Read my post on secret society
http://www.theskillsmethod.com/exposing ... n-insider/

Quote:
5.
Better suited for some guys than for others
I would say that it works best with guys that already give off sexy vibes.
While you don't need to be super sexy or muscular to give off sexy vibes, it certainly helps.


As an example, take me: short, thin (proudly slim fit ), glasses and well dressed. While I can do manage at times to pull off the sexy guy, sexting would definitely work better for a big body builder. A girl can imagine this kind of guy to slam her against the wall if he tells her so (and maybe she does even without him telling anything).
Unless she's really small and lightweight, it would be a bit more of a stretch to imagine me doing that (but it would work well if I wanted to screen for creative/imaginative girls )




All said, if you fit the bill with attraction, are quick to move on if no meet in sight, want to be 100% sure of having sex upon meet up, don't mind the high risk of losing many girls (and possibly that one you really like)... Then by all means you can go for it .
^ I disagree there is a dude name teevester who is the king of sexual talk, he is not muscular at all, this i a limiting belief. Most women do not like body builders.
OK, I understand now, let's say then that you mostly use this technique after club encounters where oftentimes there's been physical contact of some sorts.

Then in those cases my post is less relevant.
What I was mostly referring to were, say, contacts you've taken after daytime where not much (sexual) physical contact has taken place (which is what I'm mostly doing at the moment, and just gave it another try asking a girl who wanted to meet to send pics and she declined dammit it :D).

Agree that many night club contacts without connection/attraction are not worth much (even though I often take them anyway if I like the person, a text or a message only costs me 10 seconds).

Yes, I agree that all (or almost all, there are some frigids too) women have a (more or less pronounced) sexual side, but still either because of society rules (if you are in, say, Saudi Arabia) or upbringings or personal traits sexting might still put them off rather than bringing that side up, and especially so if you haven't had previous strong physical contact (again, not much applicable once you screen like you do, that's not likely to be the case for girls you grind with in a night club).


Anyway, good stuff, I will be certainly going to try again this thing the next time I'll manage to be grinding/making out with someone in some clubs.

Author:  skills360 [ Mon May 27, 2013 1:45 am ]
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OK, I understand now, let's say then that you mostly use this technique after club encounters where oftentimes there's been physical contact of some sorts.

Then in those cases my post is less relevant.
What I was mostly referring to were, say, contacts you've taken after daytime where not much (sexual) physical contact has taken place (which is what I'm mostly doing at the moment, and just gave it another try asking a girl who wanted to meet to send pics and she declined dammit it :D).

Agree that many night club contacts without connection/attraction are not worth much (even though I often take them anyway if I like the person, a text or a message only costs me 10 seconds).

Yes, I agree that all (or almost all, there are some frigids too) women have a (more or less pronounced) sexual side, but still either because of society rules (if you are in, say, Saudi Arabia) or upbringings or personal traits sexting might still put them off rather than bringing that side up, and especially so if you haven't had previous strong physical contact (again, not much applicable once you screen like you do, that's not likely to be the case for girls you grind with in a night club).


Anyway, good stuff, I will be certainly going to try again this thing the next time I'll manage to be grinding/making out with someone in some clubs.
If you meet them on the daytime you can pitch for the meet, or you can have them open up sexually as well, it is whatever works for you.... Sexaddict "dream" sample on the first page, was a girl he met on the day time, and got her number fast. The same with slipknot he met the girl on the gas station during day time.

Author:  17yrold [ Mon May 27, 2013 2:18 pm ]
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Would the "penetrate my dreams" work on a girl who's nearly friend Zoned me?

Author:  lucifer7 [ Mon May 27, 2013 2:36 pm ]
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If you meet them on the daytime you can pitch for the meet, or you can have them open up sexually as well, it is whatever works for you.... Sexaddict "dream" sample on the first page, was a girl he met on the day time, and got her number fast. The same with slipknot he met the girl on the gas station during day time.
True, it's certainly very possible and if you feel the good vibes worth a try.
Just less likely, in my opinion, and nobody writes lay reports about the beautiful girls who didn't reply or told them they don't wanna have anything to do with creepy guys :).

And again to stress the importance of screening, Slipknot met a divorced cougar, a good target more likely to be receptive to this kind of approach.

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Would the "penetrate my dreams" work on a girl who's nearly friend Zoned me?
17yrold, truth is, it's very hard to answer this question reliably if one knows you and her, let alone from Internet.

If she's part of your group and you see her often, think twice about it as the downside risk is pretty steep and if she's not a nice person she might even tell to common friends of how she creeped out was (even if she wasn't really creeped out but flattered she might just say that anyway to brag and keep up appearances)

But if you don't mind or she's not that close, go on, give it a try and let us know :).

Author:  skills360 [ Mon May 27, 2013 4:34 pm ]
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Would the "penetrate my dreams" work on a girl who's nearly friend Zoned me?


Probably not, since she does not see you as a sexual dude/seducer, but as a "nice guy"/afc...


Follow my opinion on how to get out of the friendzone(based on what i did on my now 7 years gf):

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/how-to-g ... al-tampon/

Author:  skills360 [ Mon May 27, 2013 4:41 pm ]
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@ Lucifer:
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True, it's certainly very possible and if you feel the good vibes worth a try.
Just less likely, in my opinion, and nobody writes lay reports about the beautiful girls who didn't reply or told them they don't wanna have anything to do with creepy guys .

And again to stress the importance of screening, Slipknot met a divorced cougar, a good target more likely to be receptive to this kind of approach.

Well first i write many field reports were i show failure, and others do too as well but not in this forum, in another forum is called "fucked up report" I may tell chief to impliment that, but in my opinion why, many dudes in their journals here talk about failures....

About the "separated" i think she was still married cougar. You are totally right that makes her dtf.

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17yrold, truth is, it's very hard to answer this question reliably if one knows you and her, let alone from Internet.

If she's part of your group and you see her often, think twice about it as the downside risk is pretty steep and if she's not a nice person she might even tell to common friends of how she creeped out was (even if she wasn't really creeped out but flattered she might just say that anyway to brag and keep up appearances)

But if you don't mind or she's not that close, go on, give it a try and let us know .

^ totally agree, I ADVISE AGAINST SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME, i am an advocate of COLD APPROACH PICK UP(gaming total strangers). Finally, if she is getting "creeped out" you are doing something wrong, or not calibrating right.

Author:  Paramount21 [ Wed May 29, 2013 10:26 pm ]
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I'm amazed at the sheer speed the internals of our body work.

Let's say you want to move your arm. Your brain sends a signal to a neuron, the signal travels the length of the neuron, which can be up to a meter long, via electro-chemical signaling process whereby ions (such as chlorine, sodium, potassium, and calcium) are moved into/out of the cell. The neuron comes to a synaptic gap where it ends and another neuron, or muscle cell, begins. Again, electro-chemical signaling processes result in the release and uptake of various ions and neurotransmitters in the synaptic gap which in turn cause the release and uptake of ions in the muscle cell.

The muscle cell reaches it's action potential and releases calcium from the sarcoplasmic reticulum, the calcium binds to troponin, which causes a conformational change in the tropomyosin, which exposes the myosin binding sites on the actin. The myosin heads can now metabolize the ATP to undergo myosin-actin cross-bridging, literally pulling themselves along the actin, which contracts the muscle cell. Repeat this thousands and thousands of times for a single muscle.

Then, when it's done contracting, the myosin releases the actin, the ADP gets recycled into ATP, the calcium is released from the troponin, the tropomyosin goes back to it's previous position, the calcium is reabsorbed by the sarcoplasmic reticulum, the sodium, potassium, chlorine, and calcium levels in the cell and interstitial space return to normal via many ion channels (regulated by voltage, other ions, neurotransmitters, hormones, etc...) and the muscle is ready to contract again.

All this is done in a fraction of a second.

Author:  skills360 [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 8:55 pm ]
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Hey guys the poke and joke method for facebook, not sexually strong for me but just for fun: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/453462

Also pump trolling texting( i posted a lot of my stuff there, lay/field reports, and will keep posting(the reason is that all of them follow the same format, so there is nothing really new to learn, and not worth doing a lay report over the same method over and over and over), but a lot of you can check it out here:

giant-text-logs-of-doom-texting-inside-vt166765.html

Author:  skills360 [ Fri Sep 11, 2015 3:23 am ]
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Hey guys i am bumping this post... Cause this post have helped many many guys in this forum, other forums, my blog etc... To directly GET LAID FROM THE ADVICE....(you can see couple of guys here that tried it and it worked)

You are more than welcome, to field test the advice giving here, i am more than willing to provide Proof on live unedited lay reports, (many that i have in my google voice, pictures etc...)

The reason i am doing this is cause this post was created By the help of my good friend sexaddict911, for no reason whatsoever, his main post (that help many people got locked).




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Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Wed May 10, 2017 9:04 pm ]
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Damn I forgot how great this text game post was...

SexAddict911 's ability to calibrate, penetrate, is so astounding... love it man.

Author:  PolakMode20 [ Mon May 29, 2017 6:19 pm ]
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Dude, same wave length, good post.

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