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Thanks guys. I generally like going out with friends only because of the social aspects (eg. when there are no really interesting people to talk to).
Exactly, now you know what I mean. You have certain people in
life that you like to be around with for the social value for example.
To me, if my friend(s) don't keep in contact, aren't social anymore
or like the same idea of fun as me, then I'll show them the door.
Seriously. Who need's people in their lives that don't give / add value
to others? It's like harvesting friends just for
sake of saying "oh look at me I have over 100 friends"
but in your reality you only speak to 3 of them, the
rest are just aquaintences. Take an hour or so and
assess which friends you can really relate or
hang out with on regular basis...and the
rest...fuck them, if their value is worth
shit why give them the time of day I say.
Go solo from here on in man, it'll be way more constructive
doing this in your own time and on your terms of when you
choose to go or stay then doing it with your friends and
making you look over your shoulder to see if THEIR
coming or going! Go for it and never look back brother.