Important note: This post may change you for the better and force you to improve for real.

Ever asked about a witty comeback or a way to act alpha?
Guess what, you are starting in the wrong end.

You wanna talk tough, you wanna act cool, you wanna act like the prize, yeah, I totally get that, just remember that you shouldnt play with more than you are prepared to lose.

If you for example tell a girl that "You and me are never gonna work" and expect her to say oooh, nooo, we so will, be prepared that she might say "oh, ok, fine".

If you neg a girl for whatever, like "thats not your real haircolor", be prepared that she may say stuff like "yeah, and youre bald" if you are.

If you dish it out, you gotta be able to take it too. If you act tough, you gotta be tough! If you play hard to get, you will do well to keep in mind that she may just lose interest. Same thing with a freezeout.

I see so many posts where people have acted like assholes and the girl have responded in a bad way to that. Now they are back to ask what to do about the situation they put themselves in. The obvious answer is, dont put yourself in that situation next time. If you tell her that you arent into her, dont be surprised if she finds someone else who is.

If you wanna act like she doesnt matter and be the prize who has a million girls waiting their turn, make sure that you actually do, or you are gonna be very disappointed when they say, "ah ok sure have a nice life".

Basically what I am saying, if you arent 100% honest, she may call your bluff. And when she does, you are in for pain.

Second thing I wanna say. If you are planning to use techniques that you havent fully mastered, do NOT use them on "that" one girl. If she is important to you, dont play a game you cannot handle. I see so many posts about "that" one girl, who people have been in love with since forever. And now they start out with PUA and suddenly have so much material and enough confidence to approach that one girl.

And what do they do? Neg neg neg, freezeout, neg, push pull, cocky funny, alpha male behaviour etc etc.
You see how this is not working unless you know what you are doing. One day nice and then suddenly, boom. You act all tough and start acting like an asshole. I dont know why she stopped talking to me, I was just being really sexual, rubbing my cock on her leg while acting alpha and punched her in the boob while telling her that her shoes look stupid and Id rather fuck her sister than her. Gee, I wonder why she isnt that interested anymore.

So people, dont let your game write checks that your heart cant cash.

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Good post. No, great post! This should be a reminder to people. I can relate to this in some way. I think most people who are for a while into PU, had experiences with this. It's also something you have to experience and to go through. If you're getting dissed back for being an asshole, it puts a mirror in front of you. you will start to wonder: "is it something I said?". In time, you'll figure out, and you will know the dangers of acting like an asshole (especially if you're actualy not one).
I think: let people make their mistakes, as long as they learn from it. But it's never bad to be warned in advance.

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Ezo, This post is hilarious because it is 100% true. Great post, I hope a lot of people take something from it. Lord knows I have.

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Excellent! calibration is such an important part of the game..

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Nice points on congruence, very important.

I can totally relate to that,i've reached a point in my life that i need someone to love me ,but every girl that i meet i behave automatically as an asshole: neg,push,pull,doggy moron ``alpha'' behaviour until the girl is pissed and left me alone as the dog that i truly am.....i deserve it but im starting to get really tired......

I agree, man. It's one mistake I wasnt' making originally, but tons of guys just use negs, c/f which ends up just sounding like arrogance, because those are the two "simplest" concepts. Half the time it seems to turn into guys just insulting women or making fun of them then wondering why they got turned down. All that shit is so far down the proverbial totem pole. No girl will throw herself at you because you were a rude asshole.

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Sticky this bitch!

Honesty is the best policy. There's just something about your inner game, when being honest, that is stable as fuck! And gives great vibes to women.

I agree with Ezo. I can see why there are forums like puahate b/c of constantly negging/freezing out/etc.

I use to be the guy who would neg and what not... it worked every now and then. Lots of women thought I was just rude and probably had little social intuition. I use to be a tool for this crap.

I think it's safe to say that I'm a natural, and man... is it a hell lot better to live in the moment rather than trying to analyze every bit of info.

And I don't want to be a keyboard jockey so I'ma be honest with you. I don't get pussy everytime I go out. I'm still a pelican that's spreading its wings. Let me fly, hoe. But I tell you this much... the response I've been getting from women ever since I've been "living in the moment" has been much better than "analyzing the moment".

Guys like SimplePickUp is a great example of "Living In The Moment".

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Skip to 5:50. My homie Pumper describes the majority of people on this forum lol

YES. HONESTY FTW.

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Absolutely correct.

This comes down to Inner Game, as does everything in life.

You must have the correct frame when going into these situations. The Mystery Method is just that, a METHOD. If you nail the method (negs, kino, DHV, etc.) but are fearful, doubtful, hesitant or all of the above when executing it, it WILL come off contrived and needy.

My mentor, Arash Dibazar, always says (he may have gotten this from HIS mentor James Matador) that the girl or the set is a reflection of your inner game. If you are scared, nervous or what not, expect the appropriate reaction. If you are confident, nonreactive, comfortable and playful, expect the appropriate reaction.

All the other subtleties lie atop the foundation of your inner game. So, as the OP said, if you are dishing it hard, you sure as hell better have a powerful frame (aka, have the balls) to do so.

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"dont let your game write checks that your heart cant cash." Patent this. It will we be used in a movie someday!

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