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PostPosted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 11:04 am 
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So it is true, some of my old friends have already welcomed me and I am now confirming, it is true, Slywalker is back on the forum! I decided to come back, not because I miss picking up girls but because I feel I still have a lot to bring to the community and I really enjoy talking to you guys!

In this post I will bring up a problem, a mistake that probably 99% of the members of this forum are making, and it is time for it to stop.

Take a second and think about all the skills and talents that you have developed over the years. Not only as a pick up artist but everything that you are good at or every area that you can show off in. As an example I'll give you my list: I am a good bartender, I can ski, I have fought in full contact kick boxing, I am a good mountain climber, I can surf, I am a personal trainer with a ripped body, I speak several languages, and the list goes on. Now, give me a common denominator from all of these skills/attributes.

Did you get it? No? Ok it is simple, it all gives me bragging rights, they are all skills that women find hot in a guy they just met and want to brag to their friends about. And this is how you get women to sleep with you, get them to be proud of who they met, if they can brag to their friends about you and their friends are jealous, they will sleep with you, this is a fact! My life is a proof of it!

Subconsciously, every guy out there is constantly collecting these skills/attributes/bragging rights.

Now, here is the big problem; what happens after they told all their friends? What happens after they have heard all of your cool stories? I'll tell you what, they will stop sleeping with you and find another guy with cool attributes to start bragging all over again!

Now, I may have all of these skills, but since I have been married for a year and a half, they don't do shit for me now. Back in the day, I used to get laid whenever I wanted to, but now, if I want to impress my wife, none of these skills will work because she is so used to my unnecessary talents that if I want her to put on that special piece of lingerie and be extra naughty I have to think outside the box.

The problem is that we spend so much time on learning cool skills and gaining sexy attributes that we are all just cool for a brief moment, we turn in to short trailers rather than long movies if that makes sense.
If I had spent half the time I did on being a cool date and the other half on being a cool boyfriend I would have had much better relationships in the past, I would have had much better retention with previous girls and had much more sex! Now as a husband, I couldn't just let my wife lose interest in me like all of my previous relationships, I had to make a change, but the answer is not to gain new skills or attributes, the answer is to not let the old ones play out.

Even if you are planning to stay with a girl for two weeks, two months or for a life time, it doesn't matter, you have to work on it! Having sex with a girl once is the easiest thing in the world, talk to me if you have problems with that. But retention and getting more and more from girls, wilder sex, and never losing interest even years down the line takes a lot more work.

The trick is to never stop gaming her, never get too comfortable, this is why guys get dumped or cheated on, because you are no longer challenging her!
Never ask her for sex, never assume sex, game her every night, make a game our of gaming her, see if you can pull a new trick every single night!

When you are out picking up girls, it isn't actually the orgasm that is the goal of the night, orgasms are easy to achieve, all you need is a paper tissue, your right hand and a porno mag. What you really are after is the thrill, the thrill of actually picking a girl up, breaking her shield and fucking her in the hottest position possible, if you achieve that you couldn't care less about a fucking orgasm!

My point is that no matter how long you have been in a relationship it is never too late to seek the thrills. And both you and her will be a lot happier, you will be more of a man and she will feel like a wild girl again and that's really what all girls want. And all you want is for sex to be thrilling again.

Spend a little less time on studying routines and magic tricks and a little more time on how to thrill your women. Study smooth moves from movies, crazy positions from pornos, ask a friend, watch Oprah, whatever you need to do, don't ever lose the ability to thrill someone, a long term relationship does not mean game over, it means game on!

So for the guys who have been seeing the same girl for a while, try a new seduction routine on her, something you would normally only try the first night, and trust me, she will love it!

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Awesome post, right on the spot.
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When you are out picking up girls, it isn't actually the orgasm that is the goal of the night, orgasms are easy to achieve, all you need is a paper tissue, your right hand and a porno mag. What you really are after is the thrill, the thrill of actually picking a girl up, breaking her shield and fucking her in the hottest position possible, if you achieve that you couldn't care less about a fucking orgasm!
It's true. I'd rather get five girls home and sleep with none than get one home and sleep with her. I've come to like the 'foreplay', so to say, more than the sex itself.



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I'm gonna use this if you don't mind ;)

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I'd really love a post then on how to thrill them.
Seriously, I can't even find movie clips of smooth moves but I'd really like to learn from them.


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Cool post. Makes sense.

Can you elaborate on thrilling? Examples or sources?


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What titanman says

just a note... I wouldn't want my mindset in a serious relationship to be "I have to game her." I feel so PUA. I want to be the real me. My mindset, not the pua mindset... Feel me?


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I'd really love a post then on how to thrill them.
Seriously, I can't even find movie clips of smooth moves but I'd really like to learn from them.
I'll keep that in mind, I suppose that should be my next post!

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What titanman says

just a note... I wouldn't want my mindset in a serious relationship to be "I have to game her." I feel so PUA. I want to be the real me. My mindset, not the pua mindset... Feel me?
Ah, but here is your problem, if you aren't yourself in your PUA mindset you won't be very successful. The whole reason you should read books, study forums and practice in field (etc) is to improve yourself rather than your PUA self. You should grow bigger balls and become a better womanizer, not create a creepy alter ego super hero that picks up women and potentially fights crime in a spandex suit.

The point of this post is that you shouldn't make temporary improvements on yourself that will get a girl to like you over a weekend, instead you should improve yourself in a way that a girl should be excited to be with her for as long as you want her around. Now if you don't want to call that gaming that's a different story, but I personally don't see the difference, you are still using your skills to seduce and excite a woman.

And as I have already promised, I will shortly write a post on how to thrill women and make their life more exciting.

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Yeah...I just want the orgasm. And a pussy feels better than my hand.

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So it is true, some of my old friends have already welcomed me and I am now confirming, it is true, Slywalker is back on the forum! I decided to come back, not because I miss picking up girls but because I feel I still have a lot to bring to the community and I really enjoy talking to you guys!

In this post I will bring up a problem, a mistake that probably 99% of the members of this forum are making, and it is time for it to stop.

Take a second and think about all the skills and talents that you have developed over the years. Not only as a pick up artist but everything that you are good at or every area that you can show off in. As an example I'll give you my list: I am a good bartender, I can ski, I have fought in full contact kick boxing, I am a good mountain climber, I can surf, I am a personal trainer with a ripped body, I speak several languages, and the list goes on. Now, give me a common denominator from all of these skills/attributes.

Did you get it? No? Ok it is simple, it all gives me bragging rights, they are all skills that women find hot in a guy they just met and want to brag to their friends about. And this is how you get women to sleep with you, get them to be proud of who they met, if they can brag to their friends about you and their friends are jealous, they will sleep with you, this is a fact! My life is a proof of it!

Subconsciously, every guy out there is constantly collecting these skills/attributes/bragging rights.

Now, here is the big problem; what happens after they told all their friends? What happens after they have heard all of your cool stories? I'll tell you what, they will stop sleeping with you and find another guy with cool attributes to start bragging all over again!

Now, I may have all of these skills, but since I have been married for a year and a half, they don't do shit for me now. Back in the day, I used to get laid whenever I wanted to, but now, if I want to impress my wife, none of these skills will work because she is so used to my unnecessary talents that if I want her to put on that special piece of lingerie and be extra naughty I have to think outside the box.

The problem is that we spend so much time on learning cool skills and gaining sexy attributes that we are all just cool for a brief moment, we turn in to short trailers rather than long movies if that makes sense.
If I had spent half the time I did on being a cool date and the other half on being a cool boyfriend I would have had much better relationships in the past, I would have had much better retention with previous girls and had much more sex! Now as a husband, I couldn't just let my wife lose interest in me like all of my previous relationships, I had to make a change, but the answer is not to gain new skills or attributes, the answer is to not let the old ones play out.

Even if you are planning to stay with a girl for two weeks, two months or for a life time, it doesn't matter, you have to work on it! Having sex with a girl once is the easiest thing in the world, talk to me if you have problems with that. But retention and getting more and more from girls, wilder sex, and never losing interest even years down the line takes a lot more work.

The trick is to never stop gaming her, never get too comfortable, this is why guys get dumped or cheated on, because you are no longer challenging her!
Never ask her for sex, never assume sex, game her every night, make a game our of gaming her, see if you can pull a new trick every single night!

When you are out picking up girls, it isn't actually the orgasm that is the goal of the night, orgasms are easy to achieve, all you need is a paper tissue, your right hand and a porno mag. What you really are after is the thrill, the thrill of actually picking a girl up, breaking her shield and fucking her in the hottest position possible, if you achieve that you couldn't care less about a fucking orgasm!

My point is that no matter how long you have been in a relationship it is never too late to seek the thrills. And both you and her will be a lot happier, you will be more of a man and she will feel like a wild girl again and that's really what all girls want. And all you want is for sex to be thrilling again.

Spend a little less time on studying routines and magic tricks and a little more time on how to thrill your women. Study smooth moves from movies, crazy positions from pornos, ask a friend, watch Oprah, whatever you need to do, don't ever lose the ability to thrill someone, a long term relationship does not mean game over, it means game on!

So for the guys who have been seeing the same girl for a while, try a new seduction routine on her, something you would normally only try the first night, and trust me, she will love it!

I would love to hear opinion of someone who was/is for 5+ years in an exclusive relationship with one woman and whether or not it worked out well for him.(well meaning there is still passion in relationship and etc)


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Screw it, I am just going to explain the "thrills" here, it is so simple that it isn't worth a separate thread.

I think I made it sound more complicated than it really is, it is all about keeping that original magic that all relationships have in the beginning, most relationships end because the magic goes away.

To break it down, it works like this: Men are simple, women are complicated, but if men do complicated thing, women become really simple.

So like I said, men are simple, they like easy routines, such as; Go to work, come home, she makes dinner, watch TV, have sex, go to bed. This is basically all a man needs to be happy. This is why it is so easy for men to get stuck in routines and their women become bored with them and replaces sex with nagging. So to avoid this situation you simple have to entertain your girlfriends a little better, keep them on their toes and not lose the original magic you had in the relationship.

How do you do that? Easy!

In the beginning of the relationship everything was new and everything was exciting, so every minute of the relationship was a thrill for her, for both of you I should say, and you were both really happy!
Once you get stuck in that routine where everything is predictable, the thrill is gone and soon the relationship is over.

So simply try to never get stuck in the routine, always mix things up, because if you put in the extra effort to make her happy, I can promise you that you will be a lot happier!

So start with the little things, pick her up after work/school and take her out, bring her flowers, do new things together, learn something together, go new places, meet new people.

Like I said, this is very simple, always mix things up and be unpredictable. And if you can't keep up with this, it is ok to keep a little note book of ideas or to program your phone to remind you of things you can do for her on certain days.

If you put more effort in to making the relationship fun, and to keep her on her toes, the magic will never disappear, you will have better sex, and more laughs and you will be a happier man!

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I would love to hear opinion of someone who was/is for 5+ years in an exclusive relationship with one woman and whether or not it worked out well for him.(well meaning there is still passion in relationship and etc)
Volunteer here. Slywalker got it all right. It's simply awesome!

I started having great sex again with my ex after more than +5 years of a downhill relationship. The reason? Girls started taking an interest in me, and frustrated with the crappy SPAM I was getting from the ex, I obliged and fucked them all-- well, not all, but those I've seduced with a non-PUA method at least.

She became excited again and gave me great sex every time. She started cooking me great new meals too rather than the usual crap food I get.

Slywalker is THE REAL DEAL. My relationship with the ex could have been much better or maybe I would have been able to keep it, IF ONLY, I kept the thrill of the chase alive-- that she had to compete with other women. :twisted:

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I think of myself as relatively creative individual...but I fail to imagine how to surprise or be original or keep things new for years. You gotta have incredible imagination for that.


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I think of myself as relatively creative individual...but I fail to imagine how to surprise or be original or keep things new for years. You gotta have incredible imagination for that.
Not really, it is all about doing things you haven't done before and google is your friend for ideas, there are always new adventures to explore just a google search away.

And also, watch some chick flicks, there is a reason girls huddle up with a tissue box and a glass of wine and cry themselves happy to super cliche romantic stories. All girls want to experience the chick flick romance, you can always gather some great ideas from movies.

Like I said, this shit is actually really easy, you just have to do something and not just sit on your ass and wait for her to get bored of you

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