I've been posting and reading a lot on this board and a lot of guys seem to not be getting any results outside of normal things that any basic socialized human being gets. A woman touching you, laughing with you, even giving you a number means little. You are paying money for these courses to get laid, to have sex, to get your dick into a pussy, and to do it with desirable women you want. You're not getting it. You're letting your head hold you back. So, the thirty day challenge is to shut off your brain, get rid of your fear of rejection, get rid of your fear of talking to women, get rid of the programming of being an MPUA, and work on getting laid.
The 30 Day Challenge is a simple method that will forever eliminate 90% of your approach anxiety, it will get rid of your worries of rejection, you will no longer struggle with what to say, you will get phone numbers, you will get dates, AND YOU WILL GET LAID.
So here's the challenge, for 30 days, shower every day, shave, dress well, and approach 3 to 4 women every day, say hi, compliment them, tell them you think they're cute, introduce yourself (while shaking hands, tap them lightly for two or three seconds above the elbow) tell them you have to get going but would love to have coffee sometime, and SUGGEST (don't ask) for her number. A large percent of women will say no, but most will say it gracefully. The other percent that say yes most likely won't flake. Go out for coffee.
During Coffee, remember all that's necessary for a woman to do anything for you, Attention, Understanding, Acceptance, Affection. You want to escalate with your touching, as long as she's comfortable keep escalating, and keep talking, and find out if she's doing anything or if she'd like to check something out at your place, or if you can check something out at her place. Remember, you want to get laid, you're not trying to get a girlfriend, you're not trying to make a friend, you want her to know where you stand, and she can come with you, or leave you. (Try for coffee after work, instead of a lunch... get touchy, but don't get too suggestive, and suggest that you meet up at night and just hang out).
If you need some help with flirting techniques, get "The Flirting Bible," "Leil Lowndes How To Talk to Anyone" "Leil Lowndes How to Connect With Anyone" "Steve Cohen Win The Crowd"
Getting women is not about learning a new skill but tearing down the barriers that are blocking you from just going for it and taking your own life in your hands. Yes, you can become a better communicator, you can become the life of the party, you can get a higher class of woman because of that, but, right now, worry about getting your dick wet, know that any month you can go out and get laid, get dates, meet women that you are attracted to, and learn that some women will not be attracted to you no matter who you are, so it's nothing about you, it's nothing about who you are as a person, you just don't meet their criteria. And some women will be ready to hop in bed because you meet their criteria. Once you learn this as a fact, experience it with the most base approach, soon, it becomes easy to expand your approach, and start going for some women that you have to actually work at.
It's simple, it's not easy, but it's simple. And once you've gotten over the fear of rejection, once you've gotten over the fear of approaching, once sex is no longer a priority, then you can afford to be very picky with the women you go for, you can afford to hunt for the 10, when you know you have a 6 or 7 or 8 (or all three) that can be called if you strike out for the night.
And hell, if you find the girl interesting date her, if you like her, don't try and fuck her unless she wants to. A lot of you guys just want to meet a special woman. This'll help you do that too.
This turns the whole world into a speed dating forum.
Also, if you have crippling anxiety, don't think you could approach and get rejected so much. This is what you're going to do. Post in the field reports that you're going to try out my nutty insane and bullshit methods, just to disprove it, show that Raiden2k2 is an asshole and a moron and doesn't know shit. And you're going to keep notes. Now think of every approach as having nothing to do with you, but simply as an experiment to see if she can be attracted to you as the asshole Raiden2k2 says. Keep that frame of mind and the anxiety should vanish.
Enjoy and Have A Good Time.
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