This is my first post ever on any PUA/seduction forum ever. I’m pretty excited. I’ve been a long-time lurker and learned soooo much over the past 10 years. This is not my first lay, and I am very experienced. I just really want to write about “sugar” encounters since it’s so different from other kinds. I can talk more about history in another post. Onto the report…
This is my first lay of an HB I met from a sugar daddy site back in August 2014 (I have more LRs, but one at a time). I met HBBlackSoul on seekingarrangement. She was a curvy white girl whose body reminded me of Sofia Vergara (but she’s white). Big tits, big ass, skinny waist. I call her “BlackSoul” because she is going to law school, and lawyers are evil. We had a laugh about it one time. She is very smart and is into some nerdy stuff I would later find out.
Little background on me: I’m in my 30s. I have a high-paying office job. I am tall and white. I spent about $25 total on all of our encounters, which did not last beyond 3 weeks. I think she decided that if a real sugar daddy came along, she would drop me. Fine by me. I am really fascinated with converting women looking for sugar daddies into normal relationships. And, I don’t have any expectations. I suck at conversions at the moment, but I am enjoying the sex while I learn.
We exchanged a few messages on the website and she likened me to a wizard. Then, we started texting. I like to do lots of texting to build comfort before a first date. Here is the transcript leading up to the first date:
[08/24/2014 5:50 PM] Me: Merlin likes his slaves discreet, so he likes that you're a lady too.
[08/24/2014 5:56 PM] Me: This is me on my off day today so you know I'm not a catfish. <MMS>
[08/24/2014 6:10 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha! Formidable evidence. Let me prove my existence as well.
[08/24/2014 6:27 PM] Me: Please do
[08/24/2014 6:28 PM] HBBlackSoul: I know it looks like I was attacked by a werewolf on my neck but I'm just weird and scratch myself in my sleep sometimes. <MMS>
[08/24/2014 6:30 PM] Me: haha you sound like such a dude... scratching yourself in your sleep. Come on catfish... Show me the rock n roll sign like you're headbanging to Metallica.
[08/24/2014 6:31 PM] Me: To prove you're real.
[08/24/2014 6:33 PM] HBBlackSoul: Will a picture of me eating the rock n roll sign suffice? <MMS>
[08/24/2014 6:34 PM] HBBlackSoul: And does this mean I get to make requests? If so I'm gonna need to see a picture of you running your fingers through your hair in a highly dramatic fashion.
[08/24/2014 6:37 PM] Me: That's good. Looks like you want to eat something. Sure this is fun. <MMS>
[08/24/2014 6:41 PM] HBBlackSoul: Not quite enough drama but I guess I'll take it.
[08/24/2014 6:42 PM] Me: That's my best duck face btw
[08/24/2014 6:51 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahahaha
[08/24/2014 6:54 PM] Me: Haha yeah I'm not the most dramatic person
[08/24/2014 6:54 PM] HBBlackSoul: Definitely better than the typical hot white bitch duck face :p
[08/24/2014 6:55 PM] Me: I bet you won a Tony for your dramatic faces. :-O
[08/24/2014 7:01 PM] HBBlackSoul: Clearly <MMS>
[08/24/2014 7:03 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha.
[08/24/2014 7:09 PM] HBBlackSoul: So where's your neck of the woods?
[08/24/2014 7:10 PM] Me: That's some daytime tv quality there.
[08/24/2014 7:10 PM] HBBlackSoul: ...just now realizing how unattractive that picture is.
[08/24/2014 7:11 PM] Me: At a friends house for dinner. Try not to send too many sexy pics.
[08/24/2014 7:12 PM] Me: [my area of town]
[08/24/2014 7:12 PM] HBBlackSoul: Oh no. If you weren't technically a stranger I would make it rain with the tit pics just to embarrass you.
[08/24/2014 7:24 PM] Me: Oh god
[08/24/2014 7:51 PM] HBBlackSoul: But I am merciful.
[08/25/2014 1:08 PM] Me: Hey.
Good for tomorrow at 830? Let's do [bar] in [my part of town].
[08/25/2014 1:21 PM] HBBlackSoul: So...we're stripping...in [my part of town]?
[08/25/2014 1:21 PM] HBBlackSoul: Just kidding. That works for me.
[08/25/2014 1:49 PM] Me: I like how your mind works.
cool.
[08/25/2014 2:00 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha well thanks.
[08/25/2014 2:04 PM] Me: When's the last time you stripped for someone?
[08/25/2014 2:06 PM] HBBlackSoul: I can't say that I have ever stripped for someone.
[08/25/2014 2:08 PM] Me: Me neither except for a birthday one time. Was fun.
[08/25/2014 2:09 PM] HBBlackSoul: Was this for a lady?
[08/25/2014 2:09 PM] Me: No for an elderly couple.
[08/25/2014 2:10 PM] Me: Kidding. Yes a lady.
[08/25/2014 2:14 PM] HBBlackSoul: ...I would have been more impressed if it was for an elderly couple.
[08/25/2014 2:16 PM] HBBlackSoul: It is fan fucking gorgeous today. I just want to go swim in creek or roll around on some grass.
[08/25/2014 2:16 PM] Me: Aww poor baby...
I've gotten hit on by a few grandmas. So flattering.
[08/25/2014 2:19 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha. Grandma's are great for flattery. I know an old lady that gives me all of her designer clothes from the early 80's and I love her so much for keeping me styling.
[08/25/2014 2:20 PM] Me: Show me. Yeah it's gorgeous outside. I forgot what an 80s bikini looks like...
[08/25/2014 2:23 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha no designer bikinis but there is this brilliantly patterned two piece.
[08/25/2014 2:23 PM] HBBlackSoul: <MMS>
[08/25/2014 2:25 PM] Me: Classic. I think I see shoulder pads there. I'm a designer's piece from the 80s now that I think about it.
[08/25/2014 2:25 PM] HBBlackSoul: Well the only appropriate response to that is can I, in fact, wear you?
[08/25/2014 2:26 PM] Me: No but you could be a nice accessory to me. 😉
[08/25/2014 2:27 PM] HBBlackSoul: Being a designer piece from the 90's, I can accept that prospect.
[08/25/2014 2:30 PM] Me: Yeah those two decades loved each other.
[08/25/2014 2:32 PM] HBBlackSoul: What year were you birthed?
[08/25/2014 2:33 PM] Me: 1984. By Tommy Hilfigger.
you?
[08/25/2014 2:35 PM] HBBlackSoul: 1991 by Calvin Klein
[08/25/2014 2:37 PM] Me: Nice. Lol Were you purchased retail or custom?
[08/25/2014 2:37 PM] HBBlackSoul: Custom biatch!
[08/25/2014 2:38 PM] HBBlackSoul: Just kidding. I was born to two very normal non designer individuals. One is a practically a hobbit.
[08/25/2014 2:39 PM] Me: Haha. Oh no will we have a height problem? This might not work out if you're like a child to me.
[08/25/2014 2:40 PM] HBBlackSoul: Well my mother is actually an elf and luckily I took after her in the height department.
[08/25/2014 2:42 PM] Me: Cool. I'm an elf too. Do we have the same pointy ears and have a love of bows and arrows?
[08/25/2014 2:43 PM] HBBlackSoul: No...my ears are kind of...small. but bows and arrows are cool!
[08/25/2014 2:44 PM] Me: Lol. I liked Orlando Bloom in Lord of the Rings. Very elfish.
[08/25/2014 2:47 PM] HBBlackSoul: I like him in almost anything. Nothing even.
[08/25/2014 2:48 PM] HBBlackSoul: Badum tissss
[08/25/2014 2:48 PM] Me: Haha I hear he's a cutie. Very feminine looking to me.
[08/25/2014 2:50 PM] HBBlackSoul: Indeed. Are you a more feminine looking elf yourself?
[08/25/2014 2:51 PM] Me: Some say yes, and some say no. Inside I'm more of a Gandalf... with my magical wand.
[08/25/2014 2:54 PM] HBBlackSoul: More of a staff, really.
[08/25/2014 2:56 PM] Me: Getting forgetful in my old age. Either way, still magical.
[08/25/2014 2:58 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahahaha
[08/25/2014 2:58 PM] HBBlackSoul: How tall are you?
[08/25/2014 2:59 PM] Me: 6'3" but 7'8" if I use the magic.
[08/25/2014 2:59 PM] HBBlackSoul: 0_0
[08/25/2014 3:01 PM] Me: Just wear heals, no worries.
[08/25/2014 3:01 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha. I mean... I'm 5'10, and I like somebody that makes me feel normal sized. A lot.
[08/25/2014 3:04 PM] Me:
I'd also make you feel tiny in bed. Hope you're okay with that.
[08/25/2014 3:05 PM] HBBlackSoul: Yes. Quite alright indeed.
[08/25/2014 3:06 PM] Me:
[08/25/2014 3:06 PM] HBBlackSoul: Though I guess I should tell you, I'm not just tall...I'm pretty curvy. Not fat. Just. Not... petite. Hahaha.
[08/25/2014 3:07 PM] HBBlackSoul: I mean I can send you a picture to give you an idea. Nothing explicit.
[08/25/2014 3:07 PM] Me: You just made my day. Curvy is great! Please do and I'll keep the phone to myself.
[08/25/2014 3:08 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha hokay.
[08/25/2014 3:09 PM] HBBlackSoul: <MMS>
[08/25/2014 3:09 PM] HBBlackSoul: <MMS>
[08/25/2014 3:11 PM] HBBlackSoul: ...should I also go ahead and put it out there that I have a few hidden piercings? Some guys are really vanilla.
[08/25/2014 3:12 PM] Me: You are just my type. Looks like Calvin Klein makes some nice workout clothes. I like all piercings, and yeah I know what you mean.
[08/25/2014 3:13 PM] HBBlackSoul: We are going to get along just fine then.
[08/25/2014 3:14 PM] Me: I wouldn't call myself a dungeon master either.
[08/25/2014 3:16 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha! That's okay. I'm not a seasoned slave.
[08/25/2014 3:19 PM] Me: That's fine. So far I'm liking you, and I'll see how our quick drinks go tomorrow. But so far, I would be honored to grab a fistful of your hair and use you like my personal sex toy.
[08/25/2014 3:23 PM] HBBlackSoul: That would uh yeah be what I words don't have brzzzz yessssssssir.
[08/25/2014 3:24 PM] Me: ☺ biggest smile on my face right now
[08/25/2014 3:26 PM] HBBlackSoul: Biggest dilemma trying to concentrate on work after that.
[08/25/2014 3:27 PM] Me: Biggest strain in my pants.
[08/25/2014 3:27 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahahahahaha
[08/25/2014 3:33 PM] HBBlackSoul: Lady boners are a thing.
[08/26/2014 4:04 PM] Me: Left work early and going to have a nice long dinner. See you at 830?
[08/26/2014 4:43 PM] HBBlackSoul: Yessir.
[08/26/2014 8:41 PM] Me: I'm here at the bar.
[08/26/2014 8:41 PM] HBBlackSoul: I'm running a liiiiittle late but I'll be there soon.
The first date went fantastically. When a woman is into you before you’ve even met, then it feels absolutely amazing. Instead of going on a date where you have to do a little “work” to get her comfortable with you, HBBlackSoul showed up very interested and very comfortable with me. I just sat back and enjoyed talking with her about law school, wizards, pool parties, and my work. It was 95% friendly banter. After 10-15 minutes, I started kino’ing her more on her arm and thigh. She was very receptive, and we stayed close and touched the whole time.
I paid for the date and mentioned that I had to go. So, we left with a very tight, pro-longed hug, and I started walking home. On my way home, we had this text exchange:
[08/26/2014 9:49 PM] HBBlackSoul: I...am very lost in the parking deck.
[08/26/2014 9:52 PM] Me: Oh no!
[08/26/2014 9:53 PM] HBBlackSoul: I wasn't kidding about the directionally challenged thing.
[08/26/2014 9:53 PM] Me: You'll need a lot of direction in bed.
[08/26/2014 9:54 PM] HBBlackSoul: If I'm not raped and murdered in this parking deck first.
[08/26/2014 9:55 PM] Me: Come visit me and look for it later.
[08/26/2014 9:55 PM] HBBlackSoul: Hahaha! Where are you? You left me kind of abruptly, you know.
[08/26/2014 9:56 PM] Me: Early start tomorrow. I'm at the apartments next to [bar].
[08/26/2014 9:56 PM] HBBlackSoul: You're weird
[08/26/2014 9:57 PM] HBBlackSoul: I can't say I'll be able to stay out too late but if you wanna hang out some more mister weirdo, you better tell me now.
[08/26/2014 9:58 PM] Me: I'm here at home. I would enjoy you for a little more tonight.
[08/26/2014 9:59 PM] HBBlackSoul: Fair enough. Meet me in front of where you live.
[08/26/2014 10:00 PM] HBBlackSoul: I can't find my car anyway.
[08/26/2014 10:00 PM] Me: K. Just walk towards the front of [place]. I'll meet you there.
[08/26/2014 10:08 PM] HBBlackSoul: I feel like a streetwalker. And I'm here.
Then, we sealed the deal. She had a fantaaaaastic booty. I draped her over some furniture and stood back to admire it. No LMR, no issues… just awesome.