@Pumpington.
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what is now the context on this? did she really enjoy the sitting outside with you the most? is that what she showed you with actions, or is that what she says?
After a half-hour dancing session, I told her I wanted to get some fresh air. That's when we've headed to the beach, I've cuddled her since it was getting cold and that's when I started to get to know her better, showed her I was genuinely interested in her. She was clearly enjoying the time, telling me I was cute and all. We had a good connection.
@Kasabi.
Glad my humble stories makes you smile!
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2. Still intrigued to as why men treat business deals as romantic love affairs and affairs as business deals. Dudes drink and talk about pussy, sports, share hugs, chat about family, hobbies, passions, and then shake hands over multi-million deals but when it comes to romance, all of the sudden they start taking notes? "So you want this and that but you promised this and that and I can give you this and that so the deal is this and that and this and that." - "As you can clearly see, I am very open minded about all of this!" - Dude, you are French! Please give the rest of us clueless men some hope and live up to your Global stereotype and at least pretend to be romantic! This poor girl traveled to all the way to Spain and all she got was a bodily fluid exchange and a "Let's Dance."
I gave her a nice time that night. I mean it. I've treated her like the stereotyped French you're describing would have treated her. I was this funny social guy, life of the party who brought her into my crazy life. Dancing, laughing to talking and cuddling her on the beach. Her friends were jealous. It was my A-Game. Everything went as I wanted it to happen. I might have been lazy in the end, I might have thought "I don't have the logistics, I'm tired... let's leave this here... she's into me, I'll see her again and see what I do". I was sure about it, until I received that confusing message the very next day. I didn't understand what she was telling me... The very next day she talked to me like a stranger and rejected me. I reacted poorly as a matter of fact. I'm not playing the "poor little Daniel here" but I clearly didn't see that coming.
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3. Hey... This is a pick up forum. So when members ask about advice on one particular girl, most members advocate learning about pick up in general. But you KNOW a lot about pick up. It would be nice to see your 'areas for improvement' focus a little more on HER. It would at least demonstrate that you are listening...
She's a 18 year-old hot girl who allowed herself to have a great moment with me. I've made my best to make her feel comfortable, making her enjoy the moment... and I think I did a good job (statement she agrees with). Yet, I was not expecting a message the very next day disarming everything I put in place: "we live in 2 different worlds", "don't be mad at me"... It was almost like she was breaking up with me! I actually asked myself if I hadn't been too nice with her, too reassuring... She didn't really seem like she needed to be reassured when I read that message...
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4. Nobody who has dealt with over 2 girls or who has hung out in this forum for over a month should believe that a girl who he's made out with at a club or bar should offer you a business-like contract the following day. If she's contacting you with any sort of bullshit the following day, she wants to make a deal. It's your job to draw the contract out in a way she can easily understand, and sell it in a way that is clearly desirable to her. Some call this 'romance'.
I wasn't there to sell long-term romance or a relationship of any kind either. But I did fail to reply to her message in a clear way: I simply didn't understand her message at all.
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5. Your post reminds me of a German girl I once met in Chamonix... Regardless of whether it's good, bad, funny, weird, terrible, etc... Every memory of a girl you've fucked is much better than those you have not.
In that case, it sounds a lot like she would have regretted it if something happened... but the more I look at it, the more I realize how naive I am. I went myself to Chamonix when I was young, you're not the only one who have remembrances there.
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6. The dude who is in the room next to mine I think just ordered a hooker. Interesting "conversation" developing now. This is a fun life filled with all sorts of interesting people... You might as well as pay attention to what they have to say. Do you get what I am saying here Daniel?
I've spent the last months meeting people... at work, in pub crawls... in France, in Spain... and a few months earlier in Brasil or Argentina... I've listened to them in English, French, Portuguese and Spanish. I've built value from listening to various guys' non-interesting stories at parties, repeating to me what they heard on TV most of the time or delivering the same random small talk. I confess it's been a while since I've been genuinely inspired by anyone. This German girl was interesting though... she grew up without a mother. Do I get what you're saying? Well I'm not sure.