hey guys, thought id make a post about my situation in the gym today. theres this girl in there who comes about once or twice a week. last week i managed to approach and chat to her after she had a little bit of trouble on the running machine (she almost tripped while opening the window next to where she was). we hit it off well and there well a couple of ioi's, stupidly i didnt number close.
she was in again today, and heres the story...this is the story copied just moments ago from msn, of me telling big dave my situation about today, and how once again i was a twat not to number close. i apologise on its length, but please read and help if you can, id like to think there might be a chance this girl could be the once i have all my first experiences with.
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
oi oi
Daniel says:
hey dude
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
how you doing?
Daniel says:
yeh im ok, annoyed with myself once again lol
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
talk me through it
Daniel says:
ok, so im on the running machine and eventually she comes in, she doesnt say hello to me and goes in front of me and onto the bike..
then after she finishes she looks at me , smiles and waves, and then i do the same
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
good start
Daniel says:
she goes on this machine that exercises ur legs, then i finish and go over to her and to say hello. i made a joke about i didnt see her come in, although i obviosuly did. she asked what id been doing in the gym, talked about that, then asked how her weekend was, she said she went to some parties, i told her about going to the zoo, we joked and laughed etc,
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
seems good so far
Daniel says:
then she was finished on the machine and said she was gonna get back to exercising, i said yeh sure and i went to do situps, eventually she went on the running machine by the window again like last time and eventually i went to the bike next to her and through a neg saying dont fall off again, she laughed
then from there that was sorta it, i think she kept looking at me i couldnt be sure, i tried to ignore her for a push/pull effect, eventually i went on a running machine behind her and after she was finished she walked passed me smiles again, i smile back, but im also heavily running on my machine, and she goes and i didnt get to say goodbye or properly number close. i tried to catch her before she went, but again missed my chance on a close.
all of this in a space on a hr
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
whats mixed bout that, sounds all good to me
Daniel says:
i dont know, like obviously she was doing her workout so she wanted to get on with it and i wanted to get on with mine. but our chats are too short and i cant work out if shes interested in me and if i should get a number close
Big Dave - The man of a thousand words. says:
i'd say go for it
use personality test or 5 q's
Daniel says:
i dunno, might be a bit far from that now, i dont wanna seem like im chasing her, maybe i should through a neg and say, something like she should be asking me questions or chasing me for a chat lol
any help?? what do i do, how do i do it?? im still a newbie, i need all the advice i can get, thx.
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