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Little Panda | PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 1:06 pm | |
Offline | PUA Forum Leader | | Joined: Sun Mar 22, 2009 4:38 pm Posts: 1430 | Hey. I'm new to all this, and after reading The Game and The Mystery Method, I decided to try some things out in the field.
LOCATION: School.
TARGET: HB 8, stranger (never talked nor seen her)
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ME: Hey, I just talked to my friend over there about a problem, and I need a woman's opinion on this.
HER: On what?
ME: Well. If you were dating a guy and he did not want you to be friends with your best guy friend, how would you react?
HER: ....I don't know.
(Silence. She was totally boring)
ME: Well.. How about if you and your friend used to be dating? Would you understand why your current date reacted the way he did?
HER: Depends. Not sure.
(This is when I realized that I did something wrong, but I didn't know what...)
ME: Alright.. Thanks for the help anyway.
HER: Yeah.
THE END.
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What the hell went wrong here...?!
Tell me what YOU would do in this situation.
Thanks!
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frostedbutts | PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:26 pm | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Oct 23, 2008 10:40 am Posts: 28 | you didnt handle the conversation to your advantage. Think of it as 90/10 rule. you handle 90% of the convo and she responds with only 10%. You did day game, so the girl has something she is trying to go/somewhere to go and you interupted her. So, you have to lead this convo on. Basically when she said "I dont know" you should respond with "Really? Thats too bad, because I think its not reasonable for the other guy to be so jealous if he just met this girl. Now, tell me this, (ask same question a different way or something, or go to a related story)" This shows some DHV early in the game. If she doesnt comply with you, neg her, tease her, whatever. If your question isnt answered, tease her some. When she does respond positivly/laugh or giggle at the negs and stuff, then your good to go.
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Little Panda | PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:44 pm | |
Offline | PUA Forum Leader | | Joined: Sun Mar 22, 2009 4:38 pm Posts: 1430 | Wow, that was a great answer. I didn't think of it like that.
Thanks for the advice! Since I'm new to this, I'm not sure what DHV is. Somebody tell me?
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THFuran | PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 10:40 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Mar 16, 2009 1:46 am Posts: 43 | Demonstration of Higher Value
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Orion456 | PostPosted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 10:35 am | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Aug 21, 2008 11:28 am Posts: 29 Location: Manchester, England | Yeah frostedbutts sumed it up well.
To me it sounds like your taking a survey.
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speed-bird | PostPosted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 5:59 am | |
Offline | THIS IS SPARTA!!! | | Joined: Thu Nov 29, 2007 5:48 am Posts: 300 Location: San Francisco, CA | The bigger the bitch shield, the more you have to neg. I didn't see any negs in there, so you were giving her the upper hand.
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Agent Whore 32 | PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 3:44 am | |
Offline | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Aug 28, 2008 10:52 am Posts: 172 AOL: Lceberg032 Location: The Bronx, New York | ok dont forget False Time Constraint, i always forget it and they seem like they are in a rush to get the hell out, so if you say ,"im in a rush and cant stick around too long but i need to get a quick opinion..."
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ricardo11 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 11:25 am | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Apr 07, 2009 12:50 pm Posts: 13 Location: England | Too many "yes/no" answerable questions. Orion456 had it right, sounds a bit like a survey.
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