I feel like I just took a massive step forward. I didn't get any big action but my mentality was amazing yesterday.
So I got to Toronto at 9pm to meet the wingman I met online. Except I never heard from him
so here I am an hour away from home in a city I barely know all alone. From 9 until 10 I just drove around hoping I'd hear from him. Nothing. I'm being a little bitch trying to make excuses not to park my car but I realize what I'm doing. Finally park somewhere and we can get this night going.
For a full hour I'm just trying to get into state. Just asking people where the night life is/ What they were doing. No expectations just 10 to 30 second conversations. When I got to the club I immediately made 2 groups of friends and was talking to anyone I passed by either making jokes or just commenting on something.
When I got into the club I open 3 sets right away. Didn't leave anytime in between interactions got blown out once and decided to leave and come back for the other 2 later.
When I say I was in state I mean I was in state I met 20 some people in 30 minutes guys and girls. By the end of the night I couldn't walk 5 steps without someone saying "LC!" And start talking to me. If I saw a set I liked I opened. Met half the staff at the club and they'd ask me if I knew anyone who wanted booths. I felt like the man. Everyone I had met where offering me drinks people were introducing me to their friends. If I didn't have to drive I could have been plastered for free.
BUT. I only got 3 numbers in 3 hours. I could have gotten a few more but I wasn't interested. I could have made out with some 6s or 7s I met but I just wasn't. That's the next road block I faced. Not matter how social I was and how many people approached me I couldn't FINISH! Which was disappointing:( I was always in the moment but I was taking that last step. Hopefully someone has some advice for that.
It's 130 am the clubs packed and I as always I feel uncomfortable when it's overly packed so I head out.
I fucking love street game! I wasn't done yet I had 6 blocks to walk to my car and I approached every girl without a second thought approached a three set buying street meat got a hb 8s number and they bought me 2 hotdogs. Keep walking until I met someone who really pushed me.
Jenna. 32 yo Hb 8.5
Approached her on the street with a playful compliment followed by a few negs. A lot of Kino which she liked. She wanted to go to an after hours club and me being someone who genuinely loves adventure I was down. Except it was half way across the city and she wanted me to pay the cab and the cover... umm no. After refusing I had to play catch Up and here's where I learnt the most valuable lesson of the night.
Stand your ground!
We continued talking and some kino but she was walking away. I knew she was interested so everytime she started to walk away on her own I stopped and stood there. She'd slow down and look at me then walk back like a good little girl. She denied the kiss twice. Each time she start to walk away or pull me I wouldn't move forcing her to come back to me until finally I got the K close. Logistics weren't good so I grab her number and told her she was going to wingman me next weekend. She was down and from the way she triple checked to make sure her number was right and texted herself I'm think she might become my first lay from IRL pickup and a good pivot for the future.
What'd I learn?
- it's not that people want to buy me stuff it's that they're actually good people. If you bring something to their night IE good conversation they'll treat you good
- open open open build momentum get numbers on your side. She's not interested? Perfect she just became a pivot. Whenever I met someone new I could lead her to other girls build social proof and move forward
- DON'T CHASE! I felt like the man if she wants to leave she can go. If not she follows me. Don't jump through hoops!
- I need to either plow my sets or pay more attention for K close opportunities. So much could have happened if I just went for it.
Another long as post :/ but between this post and my first post I think it's well deserved. My first post was all about AA while this post showed that's no longer my issue now I need to figure out Mid game who know maybe once I get mid game down I'll have another long ass post getting ready to takle end game.
- LC