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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:41 pm 
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I sniffed out the seduction community sometime back in 2012. Then, being the good Keyboard Jockey and Nerd I was, I started out by collecting every piece of material I could find on the internet. I read Ross Jeffries, Mystery, Gunwitch, 60 YOC, and every little bit of shiznit on seduction that you could afford for free online.
(which IS a lot, trust Me)

Fast forward 7 months and I was still sitting on my ass reading. Here, PUAhate, Simplepickup, you name it, I've (probably, :mrgreen: ) read it.

I did a few approaches, one here, two there, And after a pretty rough run in with somebody who was probably a local thug, things stopped due to my balls not being big enough to drag me on forwards.

In other words, I WAS A PUSSY

And I'm talking the hairy, juicy and fucking Mangina version.


After a few more months in Mangina land, I decided to do an approach last week. I found out to my utter embarrassment that there was an even bigger hole where my balls were which prevented me from even going 10 feet near a chick..

OUCH!

All the pussying out out and excuses had worked. I had become by dictionary definition and my whole being, an A+ grade PUSSYWHACKED bag of SHIT. SO, I decided to polish the rust off my spear,(pun intended) and start anew. This will be my journal, and I am going to start small.



I am 16 years old and I've never
1.had female acquaintances.
2.had a girlfriend.
3.kissed a girl.
4.had a sexual conversation with a girl.
5.gotten a girl's number the legit way.

I am socially awkward, bad with words, and also the greatest call of duty player in my area. (Typical fucked up geek syndrome alarms going off)

And now I will be a new man by 2014. I will update weekly, so please feel free to add in your own two cents. I am going to present my goals and how I did with them every time I make an entry. If I pussyied out, you'll get it in Silver Dollars, if I manned up, you'll also get that. i will post my daily activity on the field. You guys will get to read both my pussying outs and victories. (RAW and UNEDITED) All help will be welcome. It's gonna be a fucking bumpy ride so please be kind enough to put on your seat belts for me gentlemen..

Oh, and if you're wondering, here's the approach that I talked about earlier: ( The gangsta VS. Nightblade)
:http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/cold-approached-an-ice-queen-vt135197.html

Goal for week one: Talk to at least 5 girls.

Cheerio!


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:31 pm 
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Alright, I got on a chat site yesterday night and number closed a girl with great feedback. Five or six messages and a legit number close. It was night time and she texted me good night. But I was already asleep and couldn't reply her. So anyways I get up today morning and send her a good morning text along the lines of "Good morning sleepy head, rise and shine! wakey wakey!"

No replies, and I send in another text around 6 o'clock in the evening. something along "Hey if you didn't get my last message... blah blah blah".

Then,

BOOM!

She sends me a text at 2 a.m in the morning with a new number. It goes something like this:

Internet Babe: Hi!
Nightblade: Hi! I seem to have lost your number, who are you again?
IB: Don't worry dear, It's Paradize. (that was her nickname)
Nightblade: Oh, Hi! So what about (IB's name here)? I think I kinda liked that more.
IB: Oh! I don't like that! Just forget that name!
NB: Oh, Imma call you Sisi.

Then, the convo dragged out for a few more texts. Me asking about her favourite color and any sports she played and some other stuff too.. Sometime after that,

NB: So are you on Facebook?
IB: Yeah look me up.

So I look her up, and it's an account with nothing. No names, no numbers, no history, nothing except for one friend. It also had a photo of that girl Bella from the Twilight movies as a profile pic. By this point I'm completely freaked out. What is she trying to pull? I then start asking her a couple of questions.

NB: Where are u from?
IB: I'm from earth. Where are you from?
NB: I'm your neighbor. lol..
IB: Blah Blah Blah
NB: So anyways, care to tell me what you're doing for your A/L s?
IB: Maths! What 'bout You?
NB: I haven't decided yet! ( I'm completely honest here guys)

Then she keeps saying some shit, and I go along with the flow. She says she studies at a school in Kegalle and that her favorite color is black. She says she likes to play chess and also says that she plays scrabble. I gave her some shifty answers coz I didn't trust her. I mean no profile pic and no history? Weird as fuck. And then she starts returning the favor. I think that's where I screwed up. :oops:

Anyways, I was bored as fuck and made a shitty move.

NB: You know, I had a friend called Tanya (this is her friend's name from facebook)
IB: So?
NB: Well, she was beautiful, Funny but also boring as hell to text with. I don't know about the first two, but you're getting pretty good at the last one. Care to turn that around?

AND THE LINE GOES DEAD!


I'm thinking of apologizing tomorrow and making up... But in a fit of misguided rage, I also deleted her contact details from my phone.

:(

First note to self: Being an asshole doesn't get you the girl. I know I fucked up but I am not asking for a pat-on-the back here guys... Just gimme your opinions and things I could improve on.


Now, onto the next bad news.


I couldn't get in a single daygame approach today. I went out early and walked around for about an hour. I had some stuff that I needed to buy and I thought, why not get an approach over with? And suddenly everything went blank. I bought the goodies and came home, my tail between my legs and my balls shriveling as fast as a pair of balls could shrivel on a fine Tuesday morning.

I go out all hyped and come back all fucked.. Now as I'm sitting here, I get all the good things that could have happened today flashing through my mind. :cry:

Life Is Fucking Unfair. But I'm Gonna Grab that shit BY THE FUCKING BALLS!!!! :twisted:


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 Post subject: Re: Nightblade:-Opening
PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:45 pm 
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I think you suffer from major AA. Not just with girls, but in general. Start chatting to strangers (young, old, female, male... any kind of stranger) on the train, while waiting for something, greet people, look them in the eyes. When you're comfortable with talking to complete strangers, go to the next level and talk to girls you might want to sarge, but DO NOT TRY to do this. You might get lucky, but just don't do it with the intention of sarging them. Just become comfortable with approaching girls you don't know yet. Once you are, start gaming.

I personally think you should try improv theatre, I've been doing it for three years now and I basically have no AA at all. I'm not a shy person in general though, but it definitely helps you to open up more. Also, depending on the kind of improv you do, your ability to come up with witty comebacks on the spot will improve greatly. Give it a shot.

And you're right, life IS unfair, like a referee. But in most cases, life can't send you off the pitch. Go for it bro, I'm sure you'll succeed.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:55 pm 
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crackbrained wrote:
I think you suffer from major AA. Not just with girls, but in general. Start chatting to strangers (young, old, female, male... any kind of stranger) on the train, while waiting for something, greet people, look them in the eyes. When you're comfortable with talking to complete strangers, go to the next level and talk to girls you might want to sarge, but DO NOT TRY to do this. You might get lucky, but just don't do it with the intention of sarging them. Just become comfortable with approaching girls you don't know yet. Once you are, start gaming.

I personally think you should try improv theatre, I've been doing it for three years now and I basically have no AA at all. I'm not a shy person in general though, but it definitely helps you to open up more. Also, depending on the kind of improv you do, your ability to come up with witty comebacks on the spot will improve greatly. Give it a shot.

And you're right, life IS unfair, like a referee. But in most cases, life can't send you off the pitch. Go for it bro, I'm sure you'll succeed.


Thanks Bro. Will keep that in mind.

New Goal: Start Approaching Strangers


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Beats Approach Anxiety / Compels You To Approach

+ 1.Sexual Desire / lust / want to get laid
+2. The Approaching Ladder / Social Lubrication
+3. You change your state to “snap” into approaching
+4 10 approaches
+5. The environment – is it generally friendly, are the girls beautiful and open.
+6 A promise you made to yourself or others
+7 For “Practice”


Increases Approach Anxiety/ Stops You From Approaching

-1 Fear of rejection
-2 Social Pressure
-3 Fear of real world repercussions if you do e.g. beating up etc
-4 Poor reference experiences (may be caused by +6 or +7)
-5 Satisfied with what you have
-6 Morals e.g with another girl
-7 “She is not hot enough”


Hi all!

I went out today and approached a girl that was standing in the bus stop and asked for directions. She didn't know where the place I wanted to go to was, but she pointed me towards some guys and told me to ask from them. I thanked her and ejected. I felt good and it lasted for a while.

After I reviewed the interaction I saw these points.
1) I went in with nothing.
2) I didn't actually feel afraid.
3) I didn't spend anytime planning the thing (It was sudden).
4) And it worked out much better than most of the approaches I did with a backup plan.

So from tomorrow on, I'm just gonna approach everybody I see with something. Directions, Direct openers, Opinion openers, Questions... Whateva. Imma start opening for the sake of the opening. After I break through the AA of course. :mrgreen:

But sadly, that was the only approach I could get in for today. But I arranged a date with a wing tomorrow and we'll be going out. Hopefully, I'll be able to catch more conversations tomorrow. I'm planning to go direct. I'll keep you guys posted!


Goals achieved:
Talk to 5 girls (1)
Talk to 10 Strangers (1)


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Today, I approached a girl on the bus. This probably doesn't seem much to all of you Pickup-Geniuses out there. But it's a big one for me. She had a tattoo with indian ink. We call them Mehendi. I used it to open. I was scared shitless but managed to open after standing around about 15 minutes..The wing date didn't go too well though....

Nightingale: Hi, Is that Mehendi?
Girl: (Nod)
Nightingale: Well, do you know what it means? Because I don't. And I wanted to. :D
Girl: (No headshake)
Nightingale: (Smiles) You know, I was standing around here all this time, afraid to talk to you. I was afraid that if I talked to you, you might hit me on the head or something.
Girl: (Sheepish Smile)
Nightingale: Anyways, My stop is coming up.. And it was nice talking to you.
Girl:(Looks away)

I know, I know, I should've pushed further. But that sinking feeling in my gut fucked it.After that, I got off the bus and came home.. It kinda felt good though.I also found a guy to wing with. This guy's quite the man to hang out with. He's down to game. And I need a wing to push me further. The guy who I hung out with last time, too negative. But this guy shows promise. I want to improve and he wants in. I also do way better with somebody pushing me.

That's all for today guys.. hope I could've had better results.

Talk to 5 girls (2)
Talk to 10 Strangers (2)


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 8:12 pm 
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I think you're doing just fine. Start out slow, especially if you are naturally shy. People (especially girls!) will notice that you are nervous and not very comfortable with the situation. Pushing yourself is good, but don't force it. Set your goals (just like you did already), try to achieve them, if you fail, try again, but don't get upset. Don't try to force-develop into something you are not yet.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 4:52 pm 
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I approached another girl today. I didn't go get amazing results or anything, it was just one approach. And that concludes my first week in this thing.

Me: Hi, Do you know where Sarasavi Bookshop is?
Girl: Mmm.. The one on King's street?
Me: No, the other one. We already went there and it was a no-go.
Girl: Mmmm.. (Thinking) I think..
Me: Do you live in Kandy?
Girl: Um.. Yup. (and then gave me some directions)
Me: Oh, Okay thanks. Nice meeting you.

I felt a bi better after the first approach and was all pumped up. Then the wingman said he couldn't do his approach. We just sat around like a bunch of idiots for about an hour. It screwed with my mindset. So anyways, He also approached and I was proud of the guy. We walked all over Kandy. Other than not approaching big time, I had a nice time.

And after seeing This:
90-day-porn-challenge-vt155204.html?hilit=masturbation

I decided to go no fap for a month and see how it'd turn out. I'm starting today by deleting all the porn I've got on my hard drive. So, that will be the new goal.

Piece and Peace.

Talk to 5 girls: (3)
Talk to 10 Strangers: (3)
Go No fap for 30 Days: (1)


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It's great that you decided to actually come out of your comfort zone and do something. A lot of guys just have an endless well of excuses to not improve their social lives. I also think it is great to keep a journal, because this will allow you to track your progress. As for your goals, I can maybe give you some tips. Do with them as you like of course.

Firstly, you did not meet your goals for the week. Why is that? Are they perhaps too hard? I would suggest cutting down the number of approaches for now. You should start out with goals that you can achieve, and then make them progressively harder. You can maybe also improve your motivation. A good way to attain goals is to deny yourself something you like, then reward yourself with this only if you succeed. Thirdly, I do not think your goals are specific enough. Buy some bread in a bakery and there's a good chance you're talking to someone who is both a girl and a stranger. I would advice you to make the goals much more specific with regard to the interaction. This also helps you in the conversation, because you know what you want out of it instead of 'getting rid of approach anxiety'. Granted, it will make your goals a little harder, but if you lessen the amount of conversations, the goal will feel much less overwhelming. Lastly, I think you could benefit from making some longer-term goals that are more meaningful than not masturbating.

I would suggest the following changes:

For next week:
- Begin a talk about the weather with three strangers
- Give someone you know a meaningful and heartfelt compliment
- Smile at a beautiful girl without making her uncomfortable

Medium-term:
- Only play Call of Duty if you met your weekly goals
- Make a female friend by introduction through a mutual friend
- Get invited to a party where there are also girls your age
- Learn a girl's secret

Long-term:
- [I cannot fill this in for you, you have to do this yourself. Clearly, at least one of them is a romantic goal. From these long-term goals, all your shorter-term goals follow.]

Good luck!

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2013 10:28 am 
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Hey guys, thanks for all the support. I've got a confession to make. It's happening again.

I'm losing motivation day by day. I've been away from the community for 3 days and I lost that (Spark?). The thirst for adventure. I got a PM from a guy in my area and I came back on site to see what it was about.

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Hi niteblade

I'm in sri lanka too. I enjoyed reading your posts. Hope you get better and achieve all your goals.

me


This kicked me back into action. I observed that if I post daily, I have more motivation and commitment. So, I'm gonna ditch the weekly plan and post daily.

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Firstly, you did not meet your goals for the week. Why is that? Are they perhaps too hard? I would suggest cutting down the number of approaches for now. You should start out with goals that you can achieve, and then make them progressively harder. You can maybe also improve your motivation. A good way to attain goals is to deny yourself something you like, then reward yourself with this only if you succeed. Thirdly, I do not think your goals are specific enough. Buy some bread in a bakery and there's a good chance you're talking to someone who is both a girl and a stranger. I would advice you to make the goals much more specific with regard to the interaction. This also helps you in the conversation, because you know what you want out of it instead of 'getting rid of approach anxiety'. Granted, it will make your goals a little harder, but if you lessen the amount of conversations, the goal will feel much less overwhelming. Lastly, I think you could benefit from making some longer-term goals that are more meaningful than not masturbating.

I would suggest the following changes:

For next week:
- Begin a talk about the weather with three strangers
- Give someone you know a meaningful and heartfelt compliment
- Smile at a beautiful girl without making her uncomfortable

Medium-term:
- Only play Call of Duty if you met your weekly goals
- Make a female friend by introduction through a mutual friend
- Get invited to a party where there are also girls your age
- Learn a girl's secret

Long-term:
- [I cannot fill this in for you, you have to do this yourself. Clearly, at least one of them is a romantic goal. From these long-term goals, all your shorter-term goals follow.]


Thanks man. I needed that. I'm gonna turn my goals around with your structure.

Short term: (within the week)
Have a conversation with 5 strangers. ( I can do 2 better)
Give 3 heartfelt compliments.
Cold approach and have a conversation with a girl.

Mid term:
Lose that 5 kilos I've always wanted to.
Go to Kung-Fu Class.

Long term:
Get a girlfriend.


I just re-read that and understood how pathetic the last goal sounds. All the more reason for me to ace it Quicker. :mrgreen:



My new motto: Give me Pussy or Give Me death!
Peace and Piece.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2013 8:46 pm 
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Nightblade wrote:
My new motto: Give me Pussy or Give Me death!


That's exactly what I don't really like about PUArtistry. In my opinion, PUA helps you to become a great socialiser, it can help you overcome AA, shyness or other issues and eventually builds up confidence. Only then can you really be good at picking up women... PUAristry is a school rather than a technique. You cannot use canned routines all day long! You'll eventually end up being a shallow person lacking personality and identity. It does help out when you lack experience though.

Just my 2 cents.

Nightblade, I believe you are trying to combat your shyness and general AA. You chose PUA as your way (out of many that would be possible!), which is not inherently wrong. Considering that there is literature on the topic, a community and a very real goal, it is actually a great choice. But do yourself a favour and focus on your on development rather than solely on your development concerning interaction with the opposite sex. If you force yourself to approach girls but you are not growing personally, you are not going to meet any of your goals.
Approaching strangers is a great way to overcome AA and shyness, but do not see it as necessary practice. Appreciate every conversation, however short it may be. Don't just approach for the sake of approaching, be genuinely interested in your targets....

I hope I could help you broaden your horizon. If you have any questions, feel free to get back to me ;)


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crackbrained wrote:
Nightblade wrote:
My new motto: Give me Pussy or Give Me death!


That's exactly what I don't really like about PUArtistry. In my opinion, PUA helps you to become a great socialiser, it can help you overcome AA, shyness or other issues and eventually builds up confidence. Only then can you really be good at picking up women... PUAristry is a school rather than a technique. You cannot use canned routines all day long! You'll eventually end up being a shallow person lacking personality and identity. It does help out when you lack experience though.

Just my 2 cents.

Nightblade, I believe you are trying to combat your shyness and general AA. You chose PUA as your way (out of many that would be possible!), which is not inherently wrong. Considering that there is literature on the topic, a community and a very real goal, it is actually a great choice. But do yourself a favour and focus on your on development rather than solely on your development concerning interaction with the opposite sex. If you force yourself to approach girls but you are not growing personally, you are not going to meet any of your goals.
Approaching strangers is a great way to overcome AA and shyness, but do not see it as necessary practice. Appreciate every conversation, however short it may be. Don't just approach for the sake of approaching, be genuinely interested in your targets....

I hope I could help you broaden your horizon. If you have any questions, feel free to get back to me ;)



That is me to a T. But when you get a chocolate cake. you kinda tend to focus on the cherry at the top... Especially if that cherry happens to be pussy.


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Hi all..!
I've got a ton of questions.. About Social circle game and stuff. It's gonna be Field Report+ Questions. I'll post another one in general questions and I look forward to getting a lot of answers from all the helpful PUAs. And Aspire-rs as well. On here, the questions will be highlighted in red. The Dialogues are in Blue

I wanna do a little background on the venue first, It's my A/L chemistry class. I'm gonna have to keep going to it for the next 2 years, So I definitely don't need to screw up my social proof and end up looking like a retard. Anyways, the class is socially broken into 3 clans or gangs.

Rajans(Rns): These dudes are power in numbers. About half of the whole class belongs to this clan. All because they all go to the same school. 3 Geeks, 2 Nerds, couple of Jocks, but they rollin' like they rulin.
Nightblade's Crew(NBCs): Yep, the loners, social retards and the Goofers all packed into one tight bunch. And I can say that I lead this group. We are the badasses! (Under the Mushy, Gooey exteriors)
And the Girls(HBs): Well you Know this one. :wink:


So anyways, here goes.

I went out extra early today.. Coz it was tuition Sunday and The professor told us to come in super early to teach stuff about the atomic spectrum. I'm gonna post the whole day here because even though I didn't open a target.. I think I had massive success with the social side of it. Hoping to hear from you guys on things like which my goals and short term plans should be.

So anyways i go to class super early in the morning and find out that nobody's there. I tried to open the classroom. But it was locked and I had to get the key from the receptionist. So I stroll on down there and chit chat a bit before getting the key and drop a quick thanks on the way back.

Then I met one of my boys from school and we had some chit chat there too. He asked me why I wasn't coming for the boxing practices. (Yes, I BOX). And had a good chat before going into the classroom with the keys I got.

I go in and since nobody was there, open the shades and turn the fan on. I was in a good state. Just all chilled and shit. Ready to open.Then this girl came in. She sat down and gave me a glance and a smile. And she did that flip hair over the ear thing.. IOI?

I got into my head and kept thinking about all the ways I could open and I slipped the opportunity. So anyways... lass started and I was still a fucking heap of Jello. So I thought about social momentum, And started acting all goofish. Bantering with the teacher, Making underhand jokes, that type of stuff... (I know, pathetic right?)

So anyways, I bullshitted the teacher pretty good. He goes into a story telling us how he used to goof around when he was our age and screwed up his exams. (Was that a THREAT? BITCH???)

Anyways, towards the end of class, this weird thing happens. I'm kinda like a initiative machine these days, Taking the initiative, Just pushing myself to do something.

OK, On to the weird thing:

It's near the end of the class and I'm just so fucking bored of staying in one place. Finally, the teacher tells us to pack our things. The guys, Rns and NBCs just keep nudging each other to get up first and walk towards the door. I get tired of the bullshit and start storming.... DOOR----->NOW!

I take about 3 or 4 steps and the whole class falls silent around me. Even the teacher's looking at me with these crazy eyes. Everybody's eyes are on me. It was just like I broke some kind of invisible spell or something. I just turn towards the teacher and say in my most sincerest voice:

"I'm sleepy sir..."
The teacher's OK. And gives me a smile.

A few cold stares and a laugh here or there from the class. I turn towards them and one girl gives me a BIG smile. (Again, is this an IOI?).

The teacher's saying: "Well, are y'all waiting for me to go?"
The class's like "Yeah"
Teacher:"Well, I am not going out straight away 'cause I've got another class in 30"
NB:(In a "You heard the man tone of voice") Come on guys, or do I have to drag all of you out here?(exits room & everybody follows)



I'd appreciate it if you gave me your opinion on that last one...

I go with my crew to grab a bite. We eat and talk and just have a good time. Then I'm off to my Physics class. I'm taking this with the Rns, No NBCs whatever. (Except for yours truly).

I go to physics class and this dude,(He's like the [B]ig [B]ad [B]oss [R]ajan: hereafter Lovingly referred to as BBBR) starts talking funny to me.

BBBR: Hey,NB found the place right? (I had a hard time finding the place last time I went there)
NB: (Smiles and shakes it off)
BBBR: Yeah.. Don't stand there man. People do need to walk around here.
NB: (Moves away)
BBBR: About the Chemistry class... You shouldn't play with the professor dude.. He gets his casket blown pretty quick. He'll probably kick you outta the class.


I don't care and I go in and sit down. Class starts and I don't mess around that much because I'm getting sleepy. More Funny talk. Here's a few phrases I remember:

1) "When NB talks, you can hear it from the other side of the room."
2) "You look crazy"
3) *This is more of an action* Ignoring me when I talk.



:?:
SO anyways, I finish up physics class. I'm polite and tell everybody their goodbyes.
And on the way to the bus stop, i smile at a cute girl and get a smile back! Nailed it Crackbrained!



Question TimE:

Apart from the questions highlighted in red above,
1-How can I turn the NBCs into the alphas of the class?
2-How can I use my progress so far (mentioned above) to my advantage?
3-How should I deal with the Rajans?
4-How should I progress with the role of class clown?
5-Should I try a different type of game on these girls? (Not the high energy, exciting kind)
6-Should I take his advice and act neutral (non-existent, boring, amoeba-like)?
7-What did I miss?


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:05 pm 
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Nightblade wrote:
I go in and since nobody was there, open the shades and turn the fan on. I was in a good state. Just all chilled and shit. Ready to open.Then this girl came in. She sat down and gave me a glance and a smile. And she did that flip hair over the ear thing.. IOI?


Could be, you should've talked to her. No need to use an opener, you already share the class background, it wouldn't have been awkward. Keep that in mind for the next time ;)

Nightblade wrote:
So anyways, I bullshitted the teacher pretty good. He goes into a story telling us how he used to goof around when he was our age and screwed up his exams. (Was that a THREAT? BITCH???)


Whoa mate, chill. Your teacher is most probably right, I had a very similar attitude not long ago (I'm only turning 20). As a matter of fact, most things authorities or your parents tell you are right to some extent.

Nightblade wrote:
Anyways, towards the end of class, this weird thing happens. I'm kinda like a initiative machine these days, Taking the initiative, Just pushing myself to do something.


Way to go! Keep it up!

Nightblade wrote:
A few cold stares and a laugh here or there from the class. I turn towards them and one girl gives me a BIG smile. (Again, is this an IOI?).

The teacher's saying: "Well, are y'all waiting for me to go?"
The class's like "Yeah"
Teacher:"Well, I am not going out straight away 'cause I've got another class in 30"
NB:(In a "You heard the man tone of voice") Come on guys, or do I have to drag all of you out here?(exits room & everybody follows)



I'd appreciate it if you gave me your opinion on that last one...


Don't interpret that too much. I wasn't there, so I cannot tell whether she was smiling at you or laughing at you. If she laughed at you, that's not bad, she'll forget about it within a day or two. If she smiled at you, well done, you put yourself on the spot and earned social proof.

Nightblade wrote:
I don't care and I go in and sit down. Class starts and I don't mess around that much because I'm getting sleepy. More Funny talk. Here's a few phrases I remember:

1) "When NB talks, you can hear it from the other side of the room."
2) "You look crazy"
3) *This is more of an action* Ignoring me when I talk.



:?:
SO anyways, I finish up physics class. I'm polite and tell everybody their goodbyes.
And on the way to the bus stop, i smile at a cute girl and get a smile back! Nailed it Crackbrained!


Concerning the funny talk: 1) is perfectly cool. I get exactly the same, when I speak, I speak up and the crowd goes silent. Of course, this goes hand in hand with body language. I learned that from presenting at school and uni and from compèring shows. You might want to read up on that stuff, lots of transferable info (or shoot me a message, I can give you a brief summary).
I wouldn't mind 2).
3) is actually quite bad, bud can be solved by learning what I mentioned above.

Oh, and congrats on the bus girl ;) If you are comfortable with it, make the approach if you get that again. But if you're not, keep it at that. You'll want to push yourself a bit, but not force the entire interaction. Given the fact that she responded to you, you wouldn't have had to put great effort in the approach, just introduce yourself and ask open questions that will get her talking.

Nightblade wrote:
Question TimE:

Apart from the questions highlighted in red above,
1-How can I turn the NBCs into the alphas of the class?
2-How can I use my progress so far (mentioned above) to my advantage?
3-How should I deal with the Rajans?
4-How should I progress with the role of class clown?
5-Should I try a different type of game on these girls? (Not the high energy, exciting kind)
6-Should I take his advice and act neutral (non-existent, boring, amoeba-like)?
7-What did I miss?


1: Don't try that. Become alpha yourself, gain the respect of the Rajans, but stay with your group. This conveys a sense of loyalty alongside the alphaness. Plus you'll seem more alpha in a group of betas. Don't just ignore the betaness of your friends, but there's no need to train them (which is your intention, judging from the question).
2: Just keep going, your progress will turn itself into an advantage.
3: Like I said, gain their respect. Don't be submissive though, but seek verbal (!) confrontation. Not in terms of insulting. When they throw something at you, go with their flow and turn around their slur. Practice witty comebacks. I wish I could link you to a site I have in mind, but it's in German. Follow this example: "OMG you're so fat! - It's quite an advantage in the shower, you know, your feet don't get wet."
4: Keep on doing what you do. Being a class clown is cool, I'm that guy in most of my social circles. Humour is an incredibly attractive quality!
5: You shouldn't bend over backwards just to game. See, some people might not seem to be responsive to that exciting kind of game, but having somebody like that around them brings out just that. On the other hand, if she stays unresponsive, forget about her. You're not going to be happy with someone who doesn't respond to your natural personality.
6: Two words: FUCK NO. You might want to refrain from playing with the prof though, that could backfire.
7: Not quite sure if I understand that question. Can you be more specific?


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7: Not quite sure if I understand that question. Can you be more specific?


Thanks for the input man. And ^^^
What else could I do? How should I operate next?

And about the FRs, Nothing today guys. I just stayed inside like a pussy. And felt like that too.


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