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Author: | NextStep [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 7:23 pm ] |
Post subject: | HB9 at Work |
Greetings mates, So i've been triying to engage with a girl in my work. . . but things are not going as i planned, this girl is very good looking, intense brown eyes, long hair, model face and a really good body, she has master degree and it's only 25 years old. We have talked like for 2 weeks by now, actually the conversations always goes good, she sends many IOIs, and pay attention to what i say and also answer my questions in a good manner, i have kino her, i touch her hair, in a ocassion i gave her a relaxing massage at lunch time (there was nobody else in that moment). But here is the thing, i have invited her 2 times by now, something like this: First time: - Me : Hey what are you doing today ? - She : Nothing at all, i think im gonna sleep the whole day. - Me : Do you want to go out for a dinner ? - She : I will think about it . . . Second time: - She : What are you going to do today. - Me : Im going to a party this night. - She: I see . . - Me : Do you want to come ? im going with my friends . - She : I will think about it . . .(I was like wtf. . .) Okay guys i was like wtf for real . . . And today she has been asking the whole day details of my saturday night, also she told me that she went to bed at 8:00 pm that's why she did not go to the party. . . I have not ask her for her phone, but we have chat on instagram a few times. I really need some advice, what can i do ? . . . or should i quit . . PD: She had a 7 years boyfriend, but she told me he has a newgirlfriend now (like 3 months of rupture by now) . . . |
Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 7:52 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
Quote: Greetings mates,
So i've been triying to engage with a girl in my work. . .Why is your dating pool so small you need to pull girls from work? but things are not going as i planned, this girl is very good looking, intense brown eyes, long hair, model face and a really good body, she has master degree and it's only 25 years old. We have talked like for 2 weeks by now, actually the conversations always goes good, she sends many IOIs, and pay attention to what i say and also answer my questions in a good manner, i have kino her, i touch her hair, in a ocassion i gave her a relaxing massage at lunch time (there was nobody else in that moment). But here is the thing, i have invited her 2 times by now, something like this: First time: - Me : Hey what are you doing today ? - She : Nothing at all, i think im gonna sleep the whole day. Right here is your opportunity to flirt sexually = fail. - Me : Do you want to go out for a dinner ? -"You are joining me for dinner, it's casual, but wear something sexy" - She : I will think about it . . . Second time: - She : What are you going to do today. - Me : Im going to a party this night. "Showing you a whirlwind day, ending in a whirlwind night in my bed!" - She: I see . . - Me : Do you want to come ? im going with my friends . - She : I will think about it . . .(I was like wtf. . .) Okay guys i was like wtf for real . . . And today she has been asking the whole day details of my saturday night, also she told me that she went to bed at 8:00 pm that's why she did not go to the party. . . I have not ask her for her phone, but we have chat on instagram a few times. I really need some advice, what can i do ? . . . or should i quit . . PD: She had a 7 years boyfriend, but she told me he has a newgirlfriend now (like 3 months of rupture by now) . . . |
Author: | Daygame Australia [ Tue Mar 21, 2017 1:08 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
Pick 2 or 3 other cute girls from your work, and invite them all out. Preferably so this girl can hear. You won't have any vested interest in success with these girls, so it will come across as entirely natural. This'll build your social proof, and show your target that she isn't a special unicorn, and that if she says no, she is genuinely missing out on a fun time. Regards, Daygame Australia .Com |
Author: | NextStep [ Tue Mar 21, 2017 2:11 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
Quote: Pick 2 or 3 other cute girls from your work, and invite them all out.
Im going to try this, but im kinda popular in my office . . .i just don't want to scre it up.
Preferably so this girl can hear. You won't have any vested interest in success with these girls, so it will come across as entirely natural. This'll build your social proof, and show your target that she isn't a special unicorn, and that if she says no, she is genuinely missing out on a fun time. Regards, Daygame Australia .Com |
Author: | ManInTheMiddle [ Sun Mar 26, 2017 6:37 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
I have read that it is bad to make this kind of relationships at work Probably because if the relationship does not go well, then it might be awkward |
Author: | oceanx [ Sun Mar 26, 2017 7:59 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
Meet women out in the world. This one isn't down because she senses you haven't been meeting women out in the world. Do so, and watch her demeanor toward you change and watch her start approaching you. |
Author: | NextStep [ Tue Apr 04, 2017 9:12 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
Well i did try to invite her again to go out, and she did a clear refuse, things were like this: Scenario: We were at office alone, some good music out . . . She: hey how have you been. Me: Fine doing things and you? She: Good i think (with a nice smile on her face). Me: Good to know, im going to the beach to night with my friends, wanna join us ? She: I have plans for to night, so i will pass. . . . . Me: I was like . . . . . . Im like wtf for real, she looks at me like she wants something else but when i try to invite her or to make a time together she changes completely so i will just give up . . . I felt like dissapointed to the point i did not go to the beach, i just stood in my room watching movies or doing wathever . . . . Thanks for the tips tho ! |
Author: | oceanx [ Wed Apr 05, 2017 7:55 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
You gave it a shot. That's more than most men do. Most of them can only look - they don't even interact. Next up for you: Embrace abundance. |
Author: | NextStep [ Wed Apr 05, 2017 2:29 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: HB9 at Work |
Quote: You gave it a shot. That's more than most men do. Most of them can only look - they don't even interact.
Next up for you: Embrace abundance. Will do !!! Thanks for the replies |
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