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I'm really sorry about your friend who doesn't want to be your friend anymore. I can tell you that friends throughout your life come and go, just like girls do. Certain people come into your life at a certain point and time in your life. They may very well be gone from your life, when that particular chapter of your life is finished, then you will start a new chapter of your life.
thanks. But I understand its not huge deal. I was even surrpised that he was first to add me on contacts SPAM, especially when I saw that he looks cool and from his talk I believe he is much better with girls. Often guys like this do not talk with nerds like me
so if I am not as good, then I am not as good to be his friends. I think I have tried hard. Only that I did not not believe everything he says blindly. But some good things I learned from him.
It is weird that I talk same way, but one guy is my friend even longer and it is easier to talk with him, and another guy requires me to talk much more carefully, I have to hide often what I am thinking to not make him angry, and still I am not able to be his friend.
Actually I am comparing 2 SPAM friends, which I had never met. One of them never even seen on video. But we are SPAM friends for like 8 years and have fun chatting about various topics and I do not remember him being angry at me. It would be good to meet him in reality maybe some day but I am afraid that he will see how bad socially I am and he might not be my friend anymore
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As far as motivation to do pickup goes..If i told you that it's very possible for you to leave your house right now, and go out and approach a cute or hot girl..and within maybe an hour or so..you can take that cute or hot girl back to your house and fuck her? You would be like "FUCK YEAH, LET'S DO IT!!!!!" You would be all about it. But then i also tell you that..to acquire this skill..you will have to practice approaching girls 4 days a week, for a minimum of 1 hour 20 minutes per each of those 4 days. And that's not all!!! You also have to approach 1 to 2 girls on your off days (per each of the remaining 3 days of the week). Now all of a sudden..you'll change your tune and say "Fuck That!!!", because you don't want want to put in all that time and do all that work to acquire this skill. But guys who say "Fuck That!!!" to what i said..don't understand that's what it takes to acquire this particular skill. At least for me it did. Dude..i don't know about you, but it hurts my soul knowing that i could be pulling a cute or hot chick (that is not a prostitute) off the street..back to my house..and getting some good ass pussy..but instead i'm choosing to bullshit around at home doing absolutely nothing. If you're not getting laid, it is your fault. You have nobody to blame but yourself. Real Talk!! And it should hurt your soul too brother. There is so much ass that you could be getting right now, it's fucking ridiculous. And i'm serious about this!! For the love of me..i can't understand why guys give this shit up, or why they don't practice enough. They have no clue what they're missing out on.
I think that does not motivate me enough to take random girl at street and fuck her. Because that means she is fucking lot of guys. She might be just fucked other guy hour before.
Yea, I guess if the girl is hot and looks clean, maybe she would make her fuck.
I remember there was one date I had. It was first date with her. I did not even clean my room, it was left terrible mess because I had never brought girl on first date at home, so I did not clean it.
But that time she herself invited to her, but since she said there are people using drugs in her neighbourhood, I did not feel safe, that area was unknown to me and I did not want trouble, so I said - maybe lets go to my place, but it is not clean.
She said, ok, thats not a problem.
Actually when we came to my place it was very funny to look at her reaction. She was like "of fuck, I knew it was not clean, but this is complete mess, how can a guy invite girl to such a mess"
And we were decided to make pizza. So I was cleaning my room while she was making pizza.
And I gave her massage, we kissed. And she made a hand job for me.
I felt like if I just want, I can fuck her. But I did not because, I was thinking she is such a slut, who knows how much time before another guy dick was in her pussy. Plus STDs.
If she had put a condom on my dick and just sit on it, then probably I would have fucked. But she was not doing so, and I was also not trying to fuck her. I enjoyed hand job. Only lacked some oil, but since I was very horny, even without oil it did not hurt and was good and I finished.
It was so easy date. I did not even need to buy expensive food. It would be good fuck body. I believe she would suck dick also at some point easily. What a man need more. And I need to be sure I am the only fuck body.
She herself told during date that her father calls her a slut
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Again..you're overthinking shit, and i can assure you that it's probably fucking with your game. I used to be just like you. Get out of your head dude.
it reduces motivation as I understand. I feel like gay if I eat other penis, or even my penis touches other penis through vagina.
I mean thats like sayign I enjoyed sucking penis after I ate pussy which had dick recently and did not get clean.
No guy would want to suck penis, unless he is gay. Or that penis is their own.
Or I have to be little gay to be able to fuck any girl and not worry about penis been in her pussy.
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.That includes female co-workers, neighbors, and any of my friends' girlfriends.
Why I want female coworker - is because I can know her much better in the environment where are lot of dicks waiting to fuck her. I see during parties which girl could potentially fuck other guys while having boyfriend and which not. And that hot coworker and I not see she is dancing even during chirtmass party. While other girl (HB6) was dancing like wild and I believe she has husband, but she dance with anothter cool guy and I would not be surprised he could fuck her.
And that girl is not dancing with guys is much more attractive to me. Guys know that with her they need to act more carefully.
Of course, maybe she make her image in the office party, but you never know what is she really thinking and how she would act in environment where nobody knows her and next day she will not meet somebody at work.
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Now should you decide to fuck her anyway..do not pursue her. Let her pursue you, because that gives you "Plausible Deniability" should she tell her boyfriend that you and her fucked, or should you get caught in the act by her boyfriend. You can tell your boy that she begged for your dick, and hold onto her texts messages, sext pics, and voice messages to you, as proof to show your boy that she was pursuing you and not the other way around. Then i can assure you that he will be on your side, and better yet..you won't lose a good friend from it.
yea, I understand. First if I really would like to fuck her, I would have much easier time to find similar girl. Becuase if I fuck her, then I accept the fact that other guy penis could have easily been day before in her pussy. So for that reason I could have fucked that girl which I brought to my messy room.
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On a side note..most time girls need "Plausible Deniability" for them to allow you to pull them. "Plausible Deniability" is basically what a girl uses as a good logical reason why she allowed you to take her back to your house. A good example of a "Plausible Deniability" line that you can use to pull a girl back to your house is; "Come chill at my house, we're only going to watch a quick tv show (or movie) on Neflix (or OnDemand if you have cable) while we talk..and nothing more, just because we are really good friends right?" She'll probably say "yes", and you just say "Okay let's go" and lead the way back to your house. If she resists..just keep plowing the whole "We're just going to watch a quick movie (or tv show), and talk, and nothing more. And then i will take you home afterwards" speech until she is bought in and says "Okay"
I had a a fuck buddy and was telling that we are friends. And I hated to hear her saying that we are just friends, we are doing too much or smth like that.
Btw - actually if you would say - I could find a girl on street and after hour enjoy her doing hand job, I would really like this
I am just not sure if that is often possible without licking pussy. But some girls showed that it is possible.
I kind of could have done this with that girl who I had invided to my messy room. But I was afraid that next time she would just sit on my dick, maybe even without condom after fucking another guy. And so we did not met next time and did not become fuck friends.
Oh plus cool thing about her would have been that she had a car, so there was chance that she would come to my home and I would not have to do anytning, just clean my room.
And it would be cool to have fuck buddy from neighbourhood also. how much time would be saved
you just fuck, then each go do what you want then after few hours fuck again. Or next day, depending on how horny oyu are.
What was demotiwating me when I had fuck buddu or girlfriend is that lot of time is wasted with doing stuff which I do not want to do at the moment. Needed to do something what girl is interested. It was not like I am completely hating, but I would really like to do my own things and just have 1 hour for fucking instead of spending almost whole day. And with last gf not even having hand job for months.
Oh, rememebered also from yesterday walking. When walking and remember job problems, that I might be fired, then I am worried and probably not looking confident.
I remember when was going good with job, my salary was rising and rising, I felt like I am ruling the world, that probably made more confident.
Then I switched job, and was fired, then I am at this job and still thinking I might be fired and so I guess this might affect my success with girls because of worries.