So the journey starts on Oct 25, 16. I have a few potentials that I am working with but I need to take action and also be more aggressive and direct in my approach. I have a few girls that I am talking to but nothing seems to be coming to fruition.
C - I work with C, and have known for almost a year. A few months ago we used to talk and got a bit closer, but ever since I found out that she might have a bf, I have not really been pursuing her. Also the fact that she is a bit young, she is 20, sort of puts a brake on my advances. Another thing that sort of hinders me is that I only talk to her if I specifically go talk to her otherwise I don't have a reason to talk to her, which sucks because if we had some projects we were working on together, it would be easy to just talk, but this requires extra effort. I will also ask my friend S to find out if she in fact has a bf.
L - L used to at my job, but after a year she left. We hardly spoke during that time, but ever since she quite we got connected over fb. I have been trying to get her to come out, but she had to travel for a week. When she came back she told her trip was great, and after making a joke I asked her to come out again, she did not respond.
A - I met A at a seminar she was giving. She is pretty and outgoing and from the first time we talk I felt there was something there. we got connected on facebook and then texting. I got her to come out once, and we had a good time. At least I think so. When I messaged she told me that she will be busy for a few weeks for an exam. I did not bother her for a few weeks, texting here and there. I messaged her to wish her luck on her exam, her exam was on the sunday and she didnt message me. I will message her maybe in a few days again. I feel like with her, I should have pushed more during the date and should have been more funny and should have teased her more.
M - I have been out with M a few times, and she is into brown guys, and have joked about having sex with me a few times. Problem is that she is extremely aggressive and masculine and it turns me off. She started talking about other guys she is banging and I think she sees me as a guy to talk to her and chill with. If I am to make anything out of this, I really need to bring my A game and use extensive teasing.
F - F is a friend of a friend who I think is into me. I have met her a couple of times and have talked on the phone and she likes me. The problem is that I am not into her too much physically and she is kind of religious so she is looking at me more of a long tern bf or even like marriage. I will keep her on the side for a long term relationship if and when I want one.
K - I met K through meetup a few weeks. she is got a killer body, and we seem to get a long. She has a healing energy so have to connect with her deeply. I find that when I try to connect with her deeply it does not lead to attraction. Last time I took her to a comedy show and she had fun but we hardly talked so I was not feeling connected with her. Afterwords even though it was a friday night, we did not go for a drink and she just went home. I will try to get her to come out sat evening, and we will just go for drinks. I will tease and be funny and see if I can crack that shell.
so this is what I am dealing with right now. I have a few events lined up for next few days, will update as soon as I can.
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