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Author:  afcpanda [ Thu Aug 11, 2016 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Crazy Tinder Chick?!

Hey guys, I'm afcpanda, relative newcomer to the forums. I'm most definitely an AFC but I'm looking to get better so expect posts regularly. So I'm in a position rn where I can't really go out, but I'm using Tinder to practice my text/online game. Had a really...interesting convo with a chick last night. Lemme know if I did anything wrong cus shit went from 0-100 rl quick.

Me: Good girls aren't up this late

Her: Oh yea? Who told you that?

M: My mom
She says I should stay out of trouble
...and i can tell your trouble

H: Lol again with these assumptions
What exactly tipped you off that I might be trouble?

M: You said it yourself
You're part of the suicide squad right? (It was in her profile)

H: I didn't even see it honestly. I just happened to dye my hair and I was told I look like I could be in suicide squad haha
(laughing emoji)

M: That's what they all say..

H: So is that bike yours? (I have a picture of me on my motorcycle in my profile)

M: Yea
Well it was

H: Oh no, what happened?

M: Sold it, needed something more exciting

H: Doubt it
Motorcycles are the shit

M: nah man...
JETTAS

H: A volkswagen
-__-

M :I know you're really aroused
But you gotta tone it down a bit

H: Amazing.
Go on
What's so great about your Jetta

M: 2 words

H: What is "a roof"?

M: Lol close
"heated seats"

H: Truee
My dad has a minivan and the front seats have a little button for low and high heat.

M: Gotta keep those buns warm in the winter time
My ass is very precious to me haha

H: Lol where are you from? We don't get much winter in SWFL (southwest florida)

M: Cleveland xP
I know yall floridians are so spoiled with weather
70 degrees is cold? please haha

H: Ohio in the house
And lol i'm not a floridian

M: Oh?

H: 70 is cold for here but i've been in much colder weather (skull emoji)
Yea, take a wild guess

M: ooo, skull emoji, this must be serious
Using my psychci powers here (could clearly see she was from NY in her profile)
I see, i see tall skycrapers...

H: Maybe a few hours a way haha (smiling emoji)

M: New york tho right?

H: Yup. that's where I was born
Valhalla NY

M: BOOM
PSYCHIC

H: Uh huh. Or you were a smart cookie and read my profile
You, on the otehr hand, have nothing
Too hard to write a littel something about yourself?

M: Idk, always found it hard
Never knew exactly what to put on there
What do you wanna know?

H: I feel the same. I kinda just copy what other people write and then tailor it to myself
And we could start with teh basics, what's your full name?

M: Oooo plagiarism, sorry but i'm gonna have to report you to the dean
......(yada yada random bullshit)

H: Got a facebook?

M: Why, planning on stalking me?
I promise I'm not a murderer...anymore
I put that past behind me

H: That's exacltly what I'd like to do
I'm looking for my next victim
Coicidentally

M: I was right, good girls never stay up thisi late

H: Serious, answer the fuckign question tho. Do you have Facebook and how can I find you
And I resent that
:)

M: Aight I gotta catch my beauty rest
I'll send you my fbook late
What's your phone #

H: Dude if I can't look at your facebook right now, unmatch me. Because it's really a simple thing I'm asking for and if you don't have anything to hide then it shouldn't be a problem telling me your name. I'd just like to know what I'm getting into. I appreciate your cooperation in this.
:)

This is the part that caught me WAY off guard. Feel like my game went to shit after that lol

M: Aight aight, gimme a sec
And then I'm goin to sleep dammit lol

I send her a link to my facebook, mainly cus I wanted to got to sleep, then go in for the number close. She tells me we still need to get to know each other a bit more. We say goodnight

Alright, I know I'm a bit of a chode and I've got lots of work to do. But, don't go easy on me. Like really lemme have it; I need to know what I did wrong so I can get better. Thanks guys, much appreciated.

Author:  Dragula [ Thu Aug 11, 2016 3:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

You did so well!! but you must learn to stop breaking rapport so much and just be normal when you 'had her'. She was gaming YOU! Let her do that...You could have even let her ask you for your number.

Being too mysterious pisses them off, let her take a look at your Facebook, she is investing into you. She was more into than you were with her till you pissed her off.

Ask her 'Do you break the typical {location] mould?' and watch her just spill her beans all over the place seeking your approval.

Author:  galist [ Thu Aug 11, 2016 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

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You did so well!! but you must learn to stop breaking rapport so much and just be normal when you 'had her'. She was gaming YOU! Let her do that...You could have even let her ask you for your number.

Being too mysterious pisses them off, let her take a look at your Facebook, she is investing into you. She was more into than you were with her till you pissed her off.

Ask her 'Do you break the typical {location] mould?' and watch her just spill her beans all over the place seeking your approval.
there's a school of PUA that say there're are step individual steps from introduction to close and if you mix up what your supposed to do in each steps you'll fail: when get to comfort, stop trying to build attraction. you will fail

Author:  afcpanda [ Thu Aug 11, 2016 6:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

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there's a school of PUA that say there're are step individual steps from introduction to close and if you mix up what your supposed to do in each steps you'll fail: when get to comfort, stop trying to build attraction. you will fail
What do you mean "school of PUA"? Also, is there like a blueprint or outline that shows the steps in order? Ex. intro -> attraction -> rapport, etc.

Could really use an outline like that, it would help my game tons. Thanks

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Aug 11, 2016 7:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

Never Stop Teasing, be bold, flirty, and a little naughty.

But don't forget some comfort. She was trying to get that with your Facebook, you just weren't taking the hint.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Aug 11, 2016 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

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You did so well!! but you must learn to stop breaking rapport so much and just be normal when you 'had her'. She was gaming YOU! Let her do that...You could have even let her ask you for your number.

Being too mysterious pisses them off, let her take a look at your Facebook, she is investing into you. She was more into than you were with her till you pissed her off.

Ask her 'Do you break the typical {location] mould?' and watch her just spill her beans all over the place seeking your approval.

I don't know, sounds like the type of game I run.


It usually has the girl chasing me for awhile (of course too much isn't good) but this is just the beginning. I think he did fine on breaking rapport. He gave her the Facebook when she got aggressive so now she is in the role of chasing officially. Now he can comfort build and do all that jazz.

Right now he is on top. She will be hitting him up more if he keeps up his verbal wordplay. OP just keep it up and she will be puddy in your hands. Now you can qualify her and get her to dig her claws into you a bit more. Use what Dragula said about the Do you break the typical mold? This is also where you share a bit about yourself which will have her digging you more. It's fun to watch when you watch them chase to be honest. :twisted:


So far so good.

Author:  afcpanda [ Fri Aug 12, 2016 2:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

Great advice, thanks a lot guys.

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Aug 12, 2016 2:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

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there's a school of PUA that say there're are step individual steps from introduction to close and if you mix up what your supposed to do in each steps you'll fail: when get to comfort, stop trying to build attraction. you will fail

What do you mean "school of PUA"? Also, is there like a blueprint or outline that shows the steps in order? Ex. intro -> attraction -> rapport, etc.

Could really use an outline like that, it would help my game tons. Thanks
Nobody understands Galist...ignore

A simple structure would be to

Open>tease/funny/qualify>If good response, request drink arrangement>number close and set up a date

Author:  galist [ Fri Aug 12, 2016 6:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

Quote:
Quote:
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there's a school of PUA that say there're are step individual steps from introduction to close and if you mix up what your supposed to do in each steps you'll fail: when get to comfort, stop trying to build attraction. you will fail
What do you mean "school of PUA"? Also, is there like a blueprint or outline that shows the steps in order? Ex. intro -> attraction -> rapport, etc.

Could really use an outline like that, it would help my game tons. Thanks
its a different group, i dont lnow if i could mention them here

Author:  brandnew2 [ Sun Aug 14, 2016 5:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

Just out of curiosity, what happened after she got to scope out your Facebook?

In my experience , when girls demand your Facebook/Instagram it's because they have some interest but they're skeptical. They think you might be a fraudster.

And I'm not saying "fraudster" as in being secretly an old man or something, but as in not having the social/physical value that they require for their own self-worth.

So they'll comb through your pictures and wall posts to see just how attractive you are in the photos that aren't tailored for Tinder and also check out how socially active you are and how often you have friends tagging you and posting on your wall, etc.

I don't have the most active of social media accounts and this has cost me a few chicks in the past, so I'm curious as to whether or not you passed.

Author:  Dragula [ Sun Aug 14, 2016 5:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

As long as you have activity, more than 50 friends and don't have a picture of someone else's dog wearing sunglasses, then you should be fine

I do agree though, these days, not having a Facebook is now somewhat 'creepy' ha. Some girls put in the due dilligence

Author:  brandnew2 [ Sun Aug 14, 2016 10:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

I think the content of the Profile really matters a lot more than we give it credit for. If the majority of your pictures are selfies taken at home or there are large time gaps between uploads, it may subconsciously plant the seed that you don't have a lot of social value.

Again, this is only if the chick is on the fence about you that she'll go digging for reassurance.

Author:  sandy2488 [ Fri May 19, 2017 8:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

Hi fellows,

sandy here, from cleveland, CSU looking foa company to do pickups, please replay to this post if u are interested.

Author:  JackZero [ Fri May 19, 2017 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

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Hi fellows,

sandy here, from cleveland, CSU looking foa company to do pickups, please replay to this post if u are interested.
Best thread hijack ever

Author:  Elphias [ Tue May 23, 2017 12:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Crazy Tinder Chick?!

thanks for the thread! i experienced similar issues, not being able to take the que on when to build attraction/comfort :)

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