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@GFRESH2DEF: Any tips on dancing in such situation? I'm horrible at dancing and she was just swaying from side to side and that's it. Even if i lead her to dancing, how and when would i draw her closer? And then step away and lead her around again?
I'm not going to go too in-depth with this because it takes a bunch of reference experiences to get a good feel for it. I know it did for me, because when i first started doing nightclub game..i didn't really like to dance. But i kinda grew into it, and even then..i just dance if i'm either feeling it or if the situation calls for it (ie..if the girl still wants to stay in the bar or club a little bit longer because she wants to dance for a while). Just remember that dancing with a girl is a good opportunity and excuse for you to get physical with her, and kino her alot! Using dancing as a tool to get physical with a girl, and creating a physical & sexual connection with her that way, should be your primary reason and focus for dancing with her. Don't get caught up in how good you're dancing, how your dancing moves look, or if you look like you don't know how to dance. If you're getting caught up in all that stuff..then you're wasting alot of your time and energy. None of those things should matter anyway, just as long as you self-amuse, get physical with the girl, genuinely enjoy her company, and move to the beat of the music with your hips, shoulders, and feet. If you can do that..then you should be in decent rhythm, no matter if you're good at dancing or not. And that is good enough to get the job done my man. Also..get her to grind on your dick with her booty, while you hold onto her hips. You usually can't go wrong with that tactic if you can't dance..especially if she is down to grind on you anyway. To close that distance and get her to grind on me like i'm talking about..i'll usually just put my hand out in front of her "the hand of god". She usually will just instinctively put her hand into my hand. I'll spin her around, and stop once her back is faced to my chest. I start moving my hips and shoulders to the beat of the music while i'm behind her. Usually she starts mirroring me, immediately followed by her grinding on my dick with her booty. She might even bend over and jiggle her ass on your private area. I don't know if you're ready for all that.
LOl
Dancing with a girl can also easily lead to a makeout (
at least a couple makeouts with her will do..disclaimer - don't get too comfortable making out with her too much. Because too much making out with the girl can seem needy, and that can kill the attraction) and a makeout can buy you enough compliance from the girl to bounce her out of the club or bar to another location, if you spiked her buying temperature up high enough.
-G