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bonin321 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 10:18 am | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Apr 07, 2015 4:18 am Posts: 63 | my very first pick up experience where at this point my AA was almost zero after a series of approaching and
that 3 seconds rule was amazing!!!
i saw her sitting on the table alone look like shes waiting for someone she was cute and i literally went back and fort my way whether approach or not and i counted to 3 and the magic happened like someone forced me to talk
i sat down beside her with my legs away
ME: excuse me but is enrollment going on on this building?
CG: yes you can start the line there
ME: okay, but wait a second i just noticed you have a vibe a positive vibe there like an artistic aura whats your hobby? do you paint?
CG: no i dont have a hobby hehe
ME: ahh, it looks like your waiting for someone is it your boyfriend?
CG: no just a friend lol
so those were my opener and after that i was guessing what her course was and it just magically pop into my head to touch her shoulders while doing a chant after how many hours of rehearsing in my room
i talked about the news, asked her if she likes pet and saw some IOI and she interacted well but after like 5 min i ran out of things to say there were long silence. she was looking at her phone and i ask stupid questions that can be answered by yes or no although i didnt feel discomfort on the silence its just i failed to connect with her
the goodthing is i asked her facebook before ejecting and probobly ask her a date after a day
what i notice the girls i approached today i cant mention it all but if there are silence and the fire or conversation is dying their mobile phone comes out. and like texting doing someting i dont know.
today ill be learning magic tricks and conversation techniques that will enhance my social skills im a non alpha, quiet type of person but i believe i can change my self.
umm please help me or share me some links on some things i should learn about conversation it would be a big help thanks!.
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Dragula | PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 12:24 pm | |
Offline | English Muffin | | Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 5:40 pm Posts: 5689 | Good for you. You're obviously enjoying the process as opposed to the majority people that see it as a battle.
I don't want to give you advice, just continue as you are doing and you will self correct along the way. _________________ USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS
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bonin321 | PostPosted: Thu Apr 09, 2015 12:16 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Apr 07, 2015 4:18 am Posts: 63 | Okay i just want to release this emotion i feel
Like something died inside of me when she no longer replied
To my chat i was talking about food and if she liked jap delicacies
It was a sign that i failed connecting to her and she treats me a stranger
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Dragula | PostPosted: Thu Apr 09, 2015 12:23 pm | |
Offline | English Muffin | | Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 5:40 pm Posts: 5689 | If she is interested she will reply unless are being needy and creepy
Just ask her out for a drink and find out the truth
There will always be flakes though. Try not to get butt hurt. There will be a LOT _________________ USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS
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