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Everything that we do . . . we do it because we can.
Not sure where you are currently residing but if you have any friends who practice law there, I'd ask for some advice from them. Think of all the consequences . . .
I've asked around about these kinds of situations and come to the following conclusions:
- She can't really even sign me as the child's father until I do a DNA test. The question is if I will ever even do it considering that she wants no contact with me.
- Even if I do get a DNA test and it's proven that I am the father - I'm not forced to pay alimony unless I got a stable job and income, which I will not have for another few years considering that 'working as a director' doesn't really count as having a stable job.
- If everything above goes to hell (I am the father + have to pay alimony), I can give the mother full custody, not having to pay alimony - but therefore she can reject me from letting me see the child.
Not sure if the above things are 100 % accurate though until I actually ask a working lawyer about them. But they just seem to make sense right now.
What do you mean by 'everything that we do, we do because we can'? I didn't do this on purpose if that's what you meant.