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Author:  Suit up [ Thu Feb 26, 2015 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Confidences and mastrubation!

Hey guys,

I am 20 years old and i used to masturbate (if i din't have sex) 2-3 times a week.
Almost 2 weeks ago i have watching a motivation videos for stopping masturbating and watching porn.
The video claim that by stopping masturbating you gain Confidence, Self-esteem, Memory increase and Motivation,

So i decided to take the challenge and guess what?? After one week of no Masturbation (one or 2 times i couldn't resist and i watched porn but i didn't mastubate) i start feeling more sure about me self, motivated, and more sociable. I was able to react correctly in situation that before i wouldn't know what to do. (i guy tries to DLV me and i answer him in a way that i DHV myself)

But the last 2 days, i think i am losing control of my sex drive. It's like a can't control all this energy. I was in a set today and i was doing great in the start (i was playful and excited) but after a while i couldn't lower my feelings. I couldn't change to Comfort phases. Also a friend of mine told me that i acted weird today and that i was rude to another girl. I just said something bad to her and walk away. I was rude and i didn't even realize it until my friend told me. It's like i am a teenagers again, sometimes i am in control and i am great but sometime i am complete unable to control my body.

I am think about masturbate to relax myself, but i really want to stop porn because is a fact that i don't like about my lifestyle. Tomorrow i am going to date a girl that i really like and if i mastrubate i am afraid that i would go out with her and i won't have something to say, but i don't want to act like a kid again.

What do you guys think? Any advice what i should do?

Thanks for your time;p

Author:  CountRedRover [ Thu Feb 26, 2015 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Confidences and mastrubation!

I used to be in the same situation you were in. But then I stumbled on this blog post:

https://web.archive.org/web/20090715120 ... ation.html

What hit me was that if you masturbate a lot, it lowers your testosterone, which basically makes you look like a kid. Also if you masturbate a lot, it lowers your ability to think effectively. Did you ever have times where you just couldn't mentally keep up with things? What was the cause? You had no idea what it was right?! Even after all that studying. It was masturbation...

These motivational videos helped me out with stopping as well as building a better lifestyle:
https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDMotivation

Also. Do not challenge yourself. Do not think "I can just watch porn and not jerk off. Yeah yeah I'll be ok". That is no different then saying you are going to get over your ex, yet you're just sitting there looking at her pictures on facebook. You are setting yourself up. It's going to be an inner battle with yourself. But you can do it.

Set yourself up to win. Right now. Throw away whatever oil or whatever the hell you are using to get off. Block every porno website you visit frequently. Block the word porn in general on your browser. Do it now. And when it gets to the point where you're fighting with yourself...
Just remember:
-your dick will grow if you don't jerk off
-if you keep doing it, your brain will be so unhealthy you will probably become retarded
-if you keep doing it, you will forever look like a kid
-watch one of the videos from RSDMotivation
-If none of the previous things I've listed work. Leave immediately and go out. You can't masturbate while you drive. You have to change yourself, and your body does not like changing. So like I said it's gonna be a battle, but set yourself up to win. You got this. I believe in you.

Author:  Suit up [ Fri Feb 27, 2015 7:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Confidences and mastrubation!

Thanks for the posy, it was really helpful.

But what happen when too much Testosterone can cause you to do stupid things, thinks that you do without thinking and may you seem like an asshole.
Quote:
I used to be in the same situation you were in. But then I stumbled on this blog post:

https://web.archive.org/web/20090715120 ... ation.html

What hit me was that if you masturbate a lot, it lowers your testosterone, which basically makes you look like a kid. Also if you masturbate a lot, it lowers your ability to think effectively. Did you ever have times where you just couldn't mentally keep up with things? What was the cause? You had no idea what it was right?! Even after all that studying. It was masturbation...

These motivational videos helped me out with stopping as well as building a better lifestyle:
https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDMotivation

Also. Do not challenge yourself. Do not think "I can just watch porn and not jerk off. Yeah yeah I'll be ok". That is no different then saying you are going to get over your ex, yet you're just sitting there looking at her pictures on facebook. You are setting yourself up. It's going to be an inner battle with yourself. But you can do it.

Set yourself up to win. Right now. Throw away whatever oil or whatever the hell you are using to get off. Block every porno website you visit frequently. Block the word porn in general on your browser. Do it now. And when it gets to the point where you're fighting with yourself...
Just remember:
-your dick will grow if you don't jerk off
-if you keep doing it, your brain will be so unhealthy you will probably become retarded
-if you keep doing it, you will forever look like a kid
-watch one of the videos from RSDMotivation
-If none of the previous things I've listed work. Leave immediately and go out. You can't masturbate while you drive. You have to change yourself, and your body does not like changing. So like I said it's gonna be a battle, but set yourself up to win. You got this. I believe in you.

Author:  CountRedRover [ Fri Feb 27, 2015 8:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Confidences and mastrubation!

Quote:
Thanks for the posy, it was really helpful.

But what happen when too much Testosterone can cause you to do stupid things, thinks that you do without thinking and may you seem like an asshole.

I am able to control it. But we're all different. If this is the case where you feel like you are becoming a dick, I'd recommend other ways to lower your testosterone, instead of masturbation. I mean there are probably plenty of things you could find with a quick google search. One I found:
Quote:
Shed some pounds. Studies have shown that when your fat intake decreases, so does your testosterone. That includes the "good" fat—polyunsaturated fat—so don't take it to extremes. But by lowering your BMI, you will likely lower your testosterone levels.
I workout and do P90x, this may be why I'm not being a dick, because I'm channeling everything when I am working out. You could do this, which would in turn make you more attractive + awesome ego boost.

or

You could allow yourself to have one day a week to you know jerk it. But that is up to you. Make it a sunday. You know. God's rest day haha. But be very strict on yourself. Because as I said before, you are fighting to change. So boom after you've massacred all your future children into a napkin, and I mean AS SOON AFTER. Close out of the tabs, and hop into the shower. You want to eliminate the chance of you doing it again. After that, wait until next sunday. And remember... if you see boobs online, leaked nudes etc before then, this should be your only reaction:

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