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Author: | seXplorer [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 6:03 pm ] |
Post subject: | Loneliness is killing me |
Hi. I always been a lonely guy but now that I am in mid fourthies it's playing a bigger and nasty role in my life. I spend my four weeks vacation almost alone except a few days. I dont have a lots of friends and female friends are less abundant. What should I do to improve my social life and enlarge my social circle? Thanks for your help. |
Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 6:11 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Hi. I always been a lonely guy but now that I am in mid fourthies it's playing a bigger and nasty role in my life. I spend my four weeks vacation almost alone except a few days. I dont have a lots of friends and female friends are less abundant. Not much to go on with you here. First question...why don't you have lots of friends? Describe yourself. What type of shape are you in? Are you considered relatively attractive? Do you dress well? There are a lot of improvements that you can make to yourself that will cause you to be more attractive to women, but you have to have a starting point.
What should I do to improve my social life and enlarge my social circle? Thanks for your help. |
Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 6:26 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Quote: Hi. I always been a lonely guy but now that I am in mid fourthies it's playing a bigger and nasty role in my life. I spend my four weeks vacation almost alone except a few days. I dont have a lots of friends and female friends are less abundant. Not much to go on with you here. First question...why don't you have lots of friends? Describe yourself. What type of shape are you in? Are you considered relatively attractive? Do you dress well? There are a lot of improvements that you can make to yourself that will cause you to be more attractive to women, but you have to have a starting point.What should I do to improve my social life and enlarge my social circle? Thanks for your help. |
Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 6:32 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Hi. I always been a lonely guy but now that I am in mid fourthies it's playing a bigger and nasty role in my life. I spend my four weeks vacation almost alone except a few days. I dont have a lots of friends and female friends are less abundant.
GO....TO....THE...GYM
What should I do to improve my social life and enlarge my social circle? Thanks for your help. |
Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 6:37 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Quote: Quote: Hi. I always been a lonely guy but now that I am in mid fourthies it's playing a bigger and nasty role in my life. I spend my four weeks vacation almost alone except a few days. I dont have a lots of friends and female friends are less abundant. Not much to go on with you here. First question...why don't you have lots of friends? Describe yourself. What type of shape are you in? Are you considered relatively attractive? Do you dress well? There are a lot of improvements that you can make to yourself that will cause you to be more attractive to women, but you have to have a starting point.What should I do to improve my social life and enlarge my social circle? Thanks for your help. |
Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 6:53 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
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He's on a pickup forum asking for advice in the section for building an attractive lifestyle. You want to know how a guy can make lots of other guy friends? It's the ability to attract women.
Things like common interests (aka joining a sports team) just don't matter. Maybe you're hanging out with the wrong group of friends if they value you based on how well you attract women. I can think of so many male acquaintances that are friends with other males on a few common interests, like sports and gym. Sure, guys talk about women. Same as women talk about men. But that's not what got me a bunch of friends. Maybe on this forum. Your friends should value you for more than your ability to attract women. |
Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 7:26 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Quote:
He's on a pickup forum asking for advice in the section for building an attractive lifestyle. You want to know how a guy can make lots of other guy friends? It's the ability to attract women.
Things like common interests (aka joining a sports team) just don't matter. Maybe you're hanging out with the wrong group of friends if they value you based on how well you attract women. I can think of so many male acquaintances that are friends with other males on a few common interests, like sports and gym. Sure, guys talk about women. Same as women talk about men. But that's not what got me a bunch of friends. Maybe on this forum. Your friends should value you for more than your ability to attract women. The thing here is that he's on a pickup forum. Someone is going to recommend a book on how to make friends and influence people. He may make some friends...but inevitably come back to the pickup forum and say that he can't attract women. Two birds, one stone. Thanks for telling me how men friendships should work, fella. |
Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 7:38 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
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He's on a pickup forum asking for advice in the section for building an attractive lifestyle. You want to know how a guy can make lots of other guy friends? It's the ability to attract women. Now, imagine if I would have typed that, the responses would overflow with how illogical I am, etc. |
Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 7:46 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Quote: Quote:
He's on a pickup forum asking for advice in the section for building an attractive lifestyle. You want to know how a guy can make lots of other guy friends? It's the ability to attract women. Now, imagine if I would have typed that, the responses would overflow with how illogical I am, etc. |
Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 7:53 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
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He's on a pickup forum asking for advice in the section for building an attractive lifestyle. You want to know how a guy can make lots of other guy friends? It's the ability to attract women. [/quote]............................................................................. Where did I say ultimate? You're reading more than I wrote. If you would have typed it, guys would probably be shocked that you'd finally come up with something good.[/quote] Now, if I would have typed, "You want to know how a guy can make lots of girlfriends? It's if he's in great shape." See how that sounds. As if it's an ultimate. |
Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 8:00 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Quote:
He's on a pickup forum asking for advice in the section for building an attractive lifestyle. You want to know how a guy can make lots of other guy friends? It's the ability to attract women. Where did I say ultimate? You're reading more than I wrote. If you would have typed it, guys would probably be shocked that you'd finally come up with something good.[/quote] Now, if I would have typed, "You want to know how a guy can make lots of girlfriends? It's if he's in great shape." See how that sounds. As if it's an ultimate.[/quote]No, I don't see how that sounds like an ultimate. If I were to type, "You know how a guy can make lots of money? Get into real estate." That doesn't mean that it's the ultimate way of making money. It means that it's a way of making lots of money. A suggestion of a path to take. Are you here to offer the OP advice or are you here to tell me what I mean? |
Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 8:02 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Buddy, join a sports team. Join a gym. Try a meetup group. |
Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 8:03 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Loneliness is killing me |
Quote: Buddy, join a sports team. Join a gym. Try a meetup group. There you go! Now you're adding value.
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