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Sup guys, so I stumbled onto the community after reading the game which I found fascinating and thought I would share some stuff to do with picking up chicks.
Prior to reading the game I was already pretty good with women, but hey there is always room for improvement and there was many things mentioned in PUA that I had never even been aware of. eg the openers and neg. I found that PUAs adopt a completely different strategy to picking up than what I had been doing.
My usual mindset when it comes to chicks is never chase, let them come to you.
What I would do when I go to parties is make direct eye contact with every girl that walked by smile or make a quick comment eg. you look familiar and then turn away and ignore them after that. I would spend the rest of the time hanging with friends and pretty soon I'd notice the girls in my area trying to get attention and just make a move from there.
After reading some stuff here I found that you guys are adopting this "alpha" mindset to pick up girls. I never really knew what an "alpha" male was until I read it here and I thought hey I got alot of these things described here under the heading "alpha", which got me thinking. How did I come to have these "alpha" attributes and how can yo guys get them as well.
So apparently being alpha is to be dominant. I dont think you can really be dominant by only adopting a dominant mindset, because then you are only pretending to be dominant and when it comes down to the crunch how are you going to live up to it?
To truly be dominant you have to know that no one can fuck with you. This is learnt through experience like anything else. I went to a all boys high school and the reason why I was more dominate than any of the other boys there was because me and my mate stumbled across going to the gym earlier than anyone else in our grade. We became stronger than the other boys and when other guys picked fights with us we would win. Over and over again until everyone learnt not to mess with us. When you gain this status and hold it everyone responds to you differently and that is when you are truly dominate.
Not saying you guys should go out and fight because as you get older we all learn that fighting is not the way to go about, but that how is I gained dominance. That is why whenever another guy gives me or any of my friends shit, we just smile at them and say get the fuck outa here. you dont want to start us.
If you want to be dominant YOU need to KNOW that no one can fuck with you. Be willing to take anyone up on a challenge.
So ontop of adopting this mindset actually do something that gives you an edge over the regular guy. Go to the gym and learn a martial art. know that you are a fucking beast and then go talk to women.
Dude your mindset is one I kind of hate.I really hate people that are being so over dominant , and think they are the greatest (yes you went to the gym , picked up fights blablabla) , but do you think girls like that ? Not really,I think your definition of being dominant , is very diferent from what the PUAs want for us to learn.
Your definition of alpha,like you said means , that , no one can fuck with you , and I can tell , it will get you in very much trouble,especially when you are an adult ,and think that you are on top of others.
The definition that PUAs want for us to know , about being alpha,is about being dominant over the girl we want to love/respect/attract/pickup.
You have a very wrong mindset , but I have to admit ,that guys like you can get the chicks,but not all PUAs are like you,and there are many arround here that get much more pussy than you.