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Author:  nitrusx [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 10:51 am ]
Post subject:  One Afternoon to One Night Stand

Hey guys, I'm having a small issue here. I'll be visiting another country on vacation next week and I arranged a Photoshoot with a model (I'm a photographer). We'll be spending one afternoon (and possibly night) together, shooting at abandoned places (let's me play the partner in crime card for building attraction). Thing is, I wanna turn it into a one night stand but there's no blueprint for escalating that quickly without crossing the boundaries on a professional level during the shoot. Here's what I have in mind:
1. Do the shoot as normal, talk and build some rapport
2. Visit a bar after the shoot, run some routines, build comfort, KC
3. Suggest we bounce to a hotel

What tips do you guys have for me? Am I on the right track?

Author:  Chief [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 11:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: One Afternoon to One Night Stand

If you care about your career as a photographer, I'd try extremely hard to keep things strictly professional if I were you. I wouldn't want to build a reputation for anything that would compromise something that is both a real passion and an income source. Photographers have to be especially careful since they work with a lot of models.

"Don't shit where you eat," and "Don't dip your pen in the company ink," as they say.

If you're not serious about it, though, your little blueprint might work out just fine. However, I'd emphasize the sexualization during the actual photoshoot. Make her feel sexy and desired. That probably gets the best photos anyway. I don't know. I'm not a photographer lol

The work you do while doing the shoot gives you a chance to be very emotionally and artistically expressive, which can be, in and of itself, very seductive. Carry that energy with you as you work your magic after the shoot. Just remember that you're not tricking her into anything; you're making her feel as beautiful and desired as she truly is, as she truly can be captured by both the camera and by your own witnessing. You're helping her come to life as the work of art she is meant to be. This is the art of seduction and, I'm guessing, also the art of photography.

This is all for nothing if she has something scheduled for after the shoot, though, so always always always get your logistics right and find out what her plans are and everything.

Seriously ignore all of that if you actually care about your photography career, though.

Author:  Dragula [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 11:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: One Afternoon to One Night Stand

I think you have put the cart before the horse?

Is she even single and sexually available in the 1st place? Maybe her priority is the photoshoot?

You have a better shot than the PUA you approaching her in the street but I get the vibes from you that this is set up just like how the 'Casting Couch' porn movies work, are you going to promise that her pics will get into important hands as long as she proves her compliance? lol.

My advice is to handle your business like a pro photographer should, flirt/game with her and then invite her for drinks after the shoot and take it from there. You should be making threads when you've reached a point with a particular girl, not hypothetically.

I think guys on this forum need to understand that you can not fuck every girl you come across. No matter how much you're alone in an abandoned building with one.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Aug 23, 2016 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: One Afternoon to One Night Stand

Was the shoot booked by you or through an agency?

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