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Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 12:53 am ]
Post subject:  Simple Advice: Eye contact

Chances are that women that are not interested in you are going to shut you down, especially if your approach and attention is unwanted. Additionally, other women either directly notice or indirectly get the feeling that your needy if you go around hitting on every girl in the room.

You are better offer approaching women that are open to being approached or are interested in you. Furthermore, trying to build a connection with women that are interested is immensely easier than those that are not.

Simple Advice: When you go out be alert for women whose eyes are darting around the room looking for attention. Make eye contact with them and maintain eye contact. If they quickly break eye contact, and then return eye contact once more, there's your invitation to approach. Once you get that invitation, do not hesitate, approach immediately.

Just introduce yourself, and express your interest in her. Approach women in this way, and the chances they reciprocate your interest will be much higher.

That's it. Nothing special and no fancy lines.

Author:  rudy94 [ Wed Mar 30, 2016 10:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

If you like a girl and want to talk to her simply go talk to her. Do not wait for her to give you some invitation to go chat with her, just go do it. Rather than sitting around waiting.

OP has good advice though, if you make continual eye contact with a lady, you must absolutely go approach. Approach everyone, at all times, just do it!

Author:  LukasBohr [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

Eye contact can be a two-edged sword because eyes "transmit" a big amount of information about the frame of mind of the person. So my tip would be, instead of making eye contact just for doing it, train the ability to have a good, solid eye contact.A good I contact is one of the most powerful ways of showing your value without open your mouth. :shock:

Body language is something hard to train and dominate, but it is really important to do it, because communications are 7 percent verbal and 93 percent non-verbal. I don't mean that words don't matter, I'm just saying that the rest matters more than you think.

But like the other guy said in the thread, you shouldn't depend on the person looking back for you to approach her, this is what normal people do.

Author:  Johnny Utah [ Sat Apr 23, 2016 7:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

A lot of women often naturally shutdown when they see that you are starting your approuch due to personal shyness or the kind molded in their mind from social conditioning.

I do agree that confident nonverbal and verbal approaches can pull a woman in strong enough for her to ignore possible people watching.

Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Sun Jun 05, 2016 9:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

To clarify, I am not suggesting being passive. If you see a girl you like, move into her field of vision, make eye contact, smile, and then approach.

I just see a lot of guys crash burn because they do not get a woman's attention before they approach.
Some examples would be that the guy seems to pop up out of no where or approach women unexpectedly for behind. I believe that most people not just women get uncomfortable when a stranger suddenly appears in their personal space.

Author:  Refelex [ Wed Jun 29, 2016 3:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

Regarding holding eye contact...

I know there is no one rule....but when holding eye contact, Im never sure if to stay serious, smile, or make a goofy gesture....?

thoughts?

Author:  ColaGuy [ Tue Jul 05, 2016 9:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

Quote:
Regarding holding eye contact...

I know there is no one rule....but when holding eye contact, Im never sure if to stay serious, smile, or make a goofy gesture....?

thoughts?
be smiling before you make eye contact.. dont have a hard serious face.. not many people pull that off well and youll probably make them feel uncomfortable. then just dont keep the eye contact for too long, itll become weird.. turn back to your friends or bar and then shortly put yourself back in a position where you can make eye contact again.. then move in.

to be honest, for people that aren't used to it eye contact can be kinda tricky.. but not thinking about it is the best way to go. as soon as you start thinking about what you are doing and what you should do you'll begin to feel awkward and that will show

Author:  Mjm1014 [ Sat Feb 18, 2017 4:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

Quote:
Quote:
Regarding holding eye contact...

I know there is no one rule....but when holding eye contact, Im never sure if to stay serious, smile, or make a goofy gesture....?

thoughts?
be smiling before you make eye contact.. dont have a hard serious face.. not many people pull that off well and youll probably make them feel uncomfortable. then just dont keep the eye contact for too long, itll become weird.. turn back to your friends or bar and then shortly put yourself back in a position where you can make eye contact again.. then move in.

to be honest, for people that aren't used to it eye contact can be kinda tricky.. but not thinking about it is the best way to go. as soon as you start thinking about what you are doing and what you should do you'll begin to feel awkward and that will show
Hahah reminds me of a girl I went on a date with recently...I'm not the best when it comes to eye contact, but this girl made it so awkward..not even joking her eyes were locked onto mine the entire date, never would look away...creeped me the *** out. Never seen anything like it. All about moderation..she was forcing it and it killed my attraction toward her...I'm guessing she was practicing her eye contact that date

Author:  Khatib_Imron [ Sat Feb 18, 2017 8:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

Quote:
Chances are that women that are not interested in you are going to shut you down, especially if your approach and attention is unwanted. Additionally, other women either directly notice or indirectly get the feeling that your needy if you go around hitting on every girl in the room.

You are better offer approaching women that are open to being approached or are interested in you. Furthermore, trying to build a connection with women that are interested is immensely easier than those that are not.

Simple Advice: When you go out be alert for women whose eyes are darting around the room looking for attention. Make eye contact with them and maintain eye contact. If they quickly break eye contact, and then return eye contact once more, there's your invitation to approach. Once you get that invitation, do not hesitate, approach immediately.

Just introduce yourself, and express your interest in her. Approach women in this way, and the chances they reciprocate your interest will be much higher.

That's it. Nothing special and no fancy lines.
It may or may not work for everyone. Some women may look at you because they have never seen you before in a particular place.

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Author:  JiltedJay [ Fri Mar 29, 2019 9:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Simple Advice: Eye contact

There is a method I read about and I will link a video to this too. It's called The Non-Verbal Hello or Eyebrow Flash.

What you do is, make eye contact (in a café or on a bus, train or something as bars / clubs aren't probably gonna be as good for this as it may be too dark and too much external distraction etc)

You are supposed to look the lady in the eyes for 4 seconds (as this is long enough for her to notice you are definitely making eye contact but not too long to be creepy) and then you look away for 4 seconds again then look back. If she is looking at you when you return looking, you smile (and are supposed to do a very quick eyebrow raise / flash) and if she smiles back, you know she likes you. Then you simply approach her and no gimmicks or cheesy lines, just simply ask, "Do you mind if I join you?". She should say yes as she has shown positive interest.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9D85L1_ZPeM&t=95s

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