Tinder match tries to disqualify herself

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2019 3:54 pm 
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I matched yesterday with a fairly hot girl on Tinder, and I've really enjoyed our chat so far. I put in my description that I'm looking for someone a bit crazy and a bit dangerous, and she's been even a bit desperate to find out what that means. I turned it around and asked if she thought she was crazy and dangerous.

Then she started trying to disqualify herself by saying how she's one big mess psychologically, describing all her flaws and bad behaviour, and asking if that helped turn me off. I said "Not really" "Dammit" "In fact that sounds like every other woman I have ever known. You all have issues." "Are you calling me average?" "Yep"

I thought that should work, but now that I've suggested meeting up, she's started saying stuff such as that because of massive daddy issues she can only date assholes twice her age (she's 22, I'm 31 so not quite there, and not too strong on the asshole game either, because I'm by nature a fairly kind person).

Also, the interaction started out really fun and upbeat, and extremely witty (my strongest card is my wit), but once it began to be a bit more dragged out with longer pauses between replies, I ended it with "it was fun chatting with you, maybe i'll write you again tomorrow".

I'm unsure how to proceed. My text game is not very strong, and I don't know how to deal with that kind of self-disqualifying without the non-verbal side.

PostPosted: Thu Feb 07, 2019 8:24 pm 
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When she says she only dates guys twice her age, she's qualifying dating a guy 9 years older than her to herself. You had her. If she's losing interest, it's because you didn't escalate fast enough. My recommendation is to initiate again, keep it fun, short, and sweet. You're open x night, would like to meet her and see if there's anything more there than just a random conversation online. If she agrees, zero contact until you meet.

PostPosted: Thu Feb 07, 2019 9:34 pm 
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Why Tinder, Badoo and other date apps suck?
In my opinion i dated 3 girls from tinder and i have terrible experience with that.
If you start a conversation with simple hay and how are you, or what are you doing? There are tone of starters and many men start a conversation like this. Women will usually not answer these question unless she is really interested in you. But then you are really lucky. On the other hand, if you start a conversation with some unusual starter it is possible that it will be weird or not depends from case to case. I would advise you to start with a compliment on her latest pictures and avoid talking about physical appearance. Be creative but do not be too creative because as it happens in our case they will not get it.

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2019 10:45 am 
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2019 12:26 am 
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It depends on the girl, man. Some girls prefer "asshole game" while others prefer you be a good guy who takes her out on dates, values her, etc. (not in a chode way, but just being a good human being). Admittedly, these girls are a lot more rare nowadays, but most girls like someone in the middle.

If you want to learn how to be an asshole, the main thing to focus on is being 100% who YOU are, unapologetically.

Far too many guys focus on being someone else, appeasing other people, and bowing down to social pressures, but a true "asshole" is really just an "alpha male." Learning how to be an alpha male will take some time, and a lot of practice, but obviously you can do anything if you set your mind to it.

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