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I'd like to try to smoothly escalate with her to the point where I ask her out. How do I do this? She's expecting an email from me with some flat measurements/photos/etc, so this is my excuse to contact her. As I mentioned earlier this is as much about getting the girl as much as experimenting, self-improving, trying to become a better PUA, so I'm happy to try things out. Any good tip/strategy/etc?
Thanks so much in advance!
J
Hot female retailer workers, often get unwelcome advances, potentially even ruining the day, by the sleaziest of guys who hit on anything and are totally dickwads about it, licking their lips and saying something about an amazing body part. But perhaps sometimes also see guys who might not be unwelcome but they don't hit on them because they are socially aware.
Lets assume you'er the later.
You do have her email as a means of communication, but that can just as easily get you blown out. So nah.
So you have to start at square one.
Flirting. That's where it all starts. If you know how to flirt properly you're half way there.
Once you determine she's responded well and flirting back,
stop. Ask her out. Right there. I'd do it after I paid, as I was ready to leave, and after some major flirting that the other person responded to. It's gotta be away from the counter and away from obvious ear shot by the other employees (and especially her boss).
Have a plan slick. Don't go with the 'We should hang out sometime.' More like 'I'm going to bar-x Friday to check out their patio band, you should join me.'
If she politely declines, just a 'Okay that's cool, you have my number if you change your mind.'
If she says I can't I have a boyfriend. Stop. You are done. NEXT.