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| Author: | ArkaneIndia [ Sat Jun 04, 2016 7:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Guys, outta the girls I've asked out, I've noticed a pattern. Many tell me that they're boring and ask me why I would ask them out. I'm a pretty fun-loving and crazy guy always cracking jokes and making em laugh. After I do some more gaming with them, they usually respond with "sure let's give it a shot" This sounds a bit flaky to me, though none have flaked until after first date. So is this pattern them showing their insecurities or an attempt by them to discourage me from asking them out and politely declining? If it's insecurities I can use it. If it's not, I can understand where I'm going wrong with gaming. So need your advice on this people.. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sat Jun 04, 2016 7:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
This is a very good question and a situation I oftentimes find myself in as well. If it's a simple matter of them trying to disqualify themselves as an indirect rejection, it would have a very different vibe to it. And it's unlikely if they've already been laughing and blushing and stuff. However, it may be a bit of a stretch to say that this is about insecurities. That may be the case sometimes, but it's likely that they really do just have boring lives. They see that you have a lot to offer in terms of fun energy and they know they can't offer the same in return. More confident and outgoing girls won't tell you, "I'm boring," of course (unless they really were trying to indirectly reject you), but I've noticed that some of the more "innocent" girls will tend to say that when they meet an actually fun seducer (me). In terms of using it, though, I either ignore it or show even more excitement about getting to know more about them in order to neutralize it because it's essentially a type of objection. |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Thu Jan 05, 2017 3:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Sounds like a shit test Or maybe your too much of a funny guy and they don't take you serious when you make a move. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Jan 05, 2017 9:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: Sounds like a shit test
Please explain how that is a shit test.
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Thu Jan 05, 2017 2:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: Quote: Sounds like a shit test
Please explain how that is a shit test. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Jan 05, 2017 2:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote:
Women's existence is a shit test nowadays.
Pretty much.
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Jan 05, 2017 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Its a polite decline man. No girl would be questioning why you would even ask them out unless they see you as a "nice guy" or someone they're just not all that interested in. Anytime you notice a pattern of things that consistently happen from girl to girl you have to conclude that its not the girls, its you. The psychology is for you to continue approaching and developing your game so girls start asking you " Why haven't you asked me out yet? " |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Sun Jan 08, 2017 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: Quote: Sounds like a shit test
Please explain how that is a shit test.So sounds like she's testing to see if she qualifies. He's a comedian, she's a boring girl. Her insecurities make her doubt he's interested in her. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jan 09, 2017 9:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: So sounds like she's testing to see if she qualifies.
Testing what? He asked her out. One would assume she qualifies.
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| Author: | Darkie [ Mon Jan 09, 2017 3:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: Quote: So sounds like she's testing to see if she qualifies.
Testing what? He asked her out. One would assume she qualifies.insecure women will question the guy's interest (is he asking me out because he's genuinely interested or is he just trying to get some ass) |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jan 09, 2017 4:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: insecure women will question the guy's interest (is he asking me out because he's genuinely interested or is he just trying to get some ass)
And saying she's boring is supposed to help her figure that out?
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| Author: | Darkie [ Mon Jan 09, 2017 7:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: Quote: insecure women will question the guy's interest (is he asking me out because he's genuinely interested or is he just trying to get some ass)
And saying she's boring is supposed to help her figure that out?In this situation, an insecure girl wouldnt bring up she's boring to tell the guy fuck off if ahe likes him. She uses she's boring to qualify that the guy is still interested even after being a boring girl. Think push pull, think of how girls play hard to get. A more confident girl would say she's boring just to see if the guy would try harder or buckle at that point |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jan 09, 2017 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
I disagree. |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Mon Jan 09, 2017 11:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Psychology behind "I'm a boring girl" |
Quote: I disagree.
Of course you would. Its obvious pur experiences with women are different
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