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Cut it out eric.
And let me just keep it real with you from my own personal life experience. Almost every single girl I know in america that decided to go to the marines or the army has been highly sexually promiscuous, emotionally unstable, and usually unfit for a relationship. I asked my male friends who were in the army to confirm what I was noticing and they all laughed and said something to the degree of " Yeah man.. All the girls in the army are hoes". So thats something you may want to keep in mind.
Here in my country everyone has to be in the army, males 18-21 years old and females 18-20, I'm in the army myself(not everyone really doing something serious, I for example just going to the basement for some hours and coming back home). So this isn't something special here.
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When you say " She lied to me!" so you stayed mad.. I woman doesn't want to be able to dictate her mans emotions with the things she does. If she can do something that'll easily make you emotional it with reflect that she has power over you and her attraction for you will slowly but surely fade. Take action or accept what she does and shut up. If you're still going to talk to her don't make her suffer with your cold emotional behavior. Do something about it or move on with your life. Anything else and her respect for you goes out the window and a woman can only love a man that she respects.
I say contacting her anymore would be a big mistake.
I'm not mad and her anymore, never really was, just disappointed. I never was that kind of man who disrespect his girl or bear a grudge, even when I found out about her lie I really tried to get things back like they were before, I guess I'm really that type of old fashion "gentleman" male(for good and for bad). I have to admit that if I will ever have the chance to get back to her it will be after a conversetion about how she behaved, not for reproaching her but to check what she has to say about it, and be sure I'm not gonna get hurt again.
The cold emotional behavior this time wasn't because of the lie, it came because I just... cant let her think she can do whatever she wants with me. In the relationship she did some serious mistakes of disrespecting me such as the lie and things that were about that, and I don't think I can just be so friendly with her when she feel a bit lonely or missing...
This girl REALLY important for me, I wish I could know what's going on with her, how she's doing on her course...
I even feel a bit bad about the message I sent her. I don't want her to think she isn't important for me or I won't be at her side she will ever need any help, but I just don't think I can be just a friend of her... And I don't know what she tried to achieve from her messages.
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I wrote a piece in the PUA lounge section of these forums called " Act Like A Man, Think Like A Woman" I think you should check it out.
Thanks, I would like to read that