This is not the right forum to post that, but i'll give you some advice.
I had a relationship that was somewhat like yours. The girl was pretty popular and she seemed to have to many guy friends. And although I kept it cool, it messed with my head.
1. First tip, build confidence. You need more confidence in yourself, and in your relationship. This is built when you realize, you got options. This is not your last girl, she's not the only one, try talking to more girls, flirt with them, don't go cheating, just prove to yourself that you can do what you want with any girl.
2. Accept your fear, you are afraid someone takes her away from you. Guess what? She probably isn't afraid as you are. She feels that you are safe to her, so you need to shake that feeling of her. I'd try to spice things in bed. Try new things, watch tutorials, learn, if you can make a girl addicted to have sex only with you, she'll never look at other men.
3. Don't be a wuss. Be authoritative, be her boss. Take decisions, make plans yourself. Ask her opinion in a way just to make her feel you are thinking about her. But always be decisive. That gives you confidence. Ex. You go to the movie theater, and ask her, what movie would you like to see? she says, I dunno, which one do you want?, DONT SAY "Whichever you want.", Say "I want to watch ....!"
Be a man, grow up, mature, build confidence in yourself. You can do all this and still have fun, and love your girl too. Good Luck! _________________ ~Everyday learning something new~
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