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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 1:18 pm 
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idk whats up with me lately.. when we first started dating i was going at it for 7-15 min even 20 sometimes.. as of lately i cant pass the 3 minute mark? idk what im doing wrong wondering what you guys are doing to last longer in bed?


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you may know this already, but I will recap the basics

-Anxiety

-Stress

-Tension in the middle of your body

-Not enough sex

-Masturbating too quickly

-Too much porn or sexual fantasy

-Not being in the present moment during sex

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 11:15 pm 
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If you ejaculate too fast from intercourse, have you considered taking breaks or extending foreplay stuff? Maybe switch positions to have her on top and let her pace it -- that's how it's worked for me in the past, at least.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 2:50 am 
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-Don't focus on sex so hard
-Relax
-And if you feel you're about too cum switch positions or slow down
-Learn how too hold your orgasm, practice when you masturbate too porn


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2011 5:16 am 
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it's all about kegels. used to have PE now i can fuck all night. just do kegel exercises and after like 1 month of doing it, you will notice big difference


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Baseball. May sound dumb but I was with an HB who is really tight, which felt great, but it was tough to not blow too soon. I would try to remember the starting line-up of the 2004 Red Sox and that distracted me enough to help me last. Baseball is good because there's nothing sexy about it, no cheerleaders.


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give her like two or three really awesome orgasms first (orally or otherwise) until she is swollen and oozing and just slap it in and enjoy the best two minutes of your life.

problem solved.


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fuck today i hit like 1 minute flat even less... this is terrible ruining my relationship i can tell shes kinda like mad sorta cause shes not getting any... i mean we where in a rush so it was a quicky, quicky indeed... so i havnt had time to do other shit she had to go... thing is i was not like that in the start i was hitting 15 minutes and such now im like at 1 minute? i sicken myself.. i even used a condom to try to make it last longer didnt help..


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you better fake a medical condition and track her down and munch her muff real good or she is gonna ditch you!

one minute, unacceptable!

i usually eat them out for at least twenty-thirty minutes before even getting in it.

dude. FOREPLAY (WITH ORGASMS FOR HER)


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Look up kegel exercises and DO THEM. They help enormously.

Look up techniques for giving her clitoral, g-spot, deep spot orgasms and practice them on her. If you give her at least one before penetration, the pressure is off you to "perform" and you can relax. The foreplay from kissing, taking clothes off, and giving her an orgasm first, should be AT LEAST 30 minutes to an HOUR.

When you start, start off really slowly. Like, really shallow, really really really slow strokes, whilst you caress her and kiss her. You can build up incredible amounts of anticipation, and with the right dirty talk where you tell her how beautiful she is to you, and then ask her how much she wants you to fuck her, and so forth, you can build it up until she's BEGGING to be fucked by you. Then, if you just start nice and slow you can build up your pace. Try and visualise your arousal level, where 0 is totally flaccid, and 10 is you're ejaculating. You want to start off nice and slow around 5 and 6, so you're hard and experiencing some sensation, but in no danger of blowing. You want to focus on maintaining about a 7, whatever pace and depth that requires. If you start feeling like you're veering towards 8 or 9, just slow down or even stop, kiss her a bit, and then continue. Positions in which your body has the minimum amount of tension are the best, because you can relax your muscles (especially your PC muscle) and are less likely to go too far. Deep breathing also helps relax everything. A simple set of positions would be

Missionary to start - you can control the really slow initial thrusting, and with good eye contact you can kiss her neck, whisper in her ear, and build anticipation. Dirty talk at this point would be along the lines of how sexy she is, how you can't wait to be inside her, how does she like your hard cock in her tight little pussy, how badly does she want to be fucked by you, etc.

Her on top - this one, you're completely relaxed and she's doing a lot of the work. She can set a pace and if it gets to much, you can just pull out or grab her shoulders and neck, pull her towards you, and tell her your gonna fuck her HARDER (what you actually do is SLOW DOWN the pace but thrust a bit harder, meaning you can get back down to that 7 mark, but engage her mind and make her believe it's getting MORE intense). Dirty talk at this stage is more aggressive, how she's a naughty girl tell her to ride your cock harder, slap her ass a bit, etc.

Doggy to finish - women LOVE doggy for all kinds of reasons. The main one is that, with you coming from an angle above her, it can stimulate either the g-spot or the deep spot almost perfectly. Coupled with more aggressive dirty talk (how she loves to get fucked like an animal, how she's your dirty little bitch, how she wants to cum like a fucking slut all over your hard cock, etc.), slapping her ass, pulling her hair, it's a very dominant position, which most women enjoy, and it's a good one to get her to have a vaginal orgasm whilst you're inside her.

If you last about 5-10 minutes in each position, that's 30 minutes of penetration before you cum, and she's definitely gotten one before and hopefully one more to finish, and you've gotten a good hour to 1:30 of total sexytime in there. :-)

*NOTE* Why did I emphasise dirty talk so much? Because it's REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT. The female orgasm is almost entirely mental. The mechanics help her get there, but the wrong mentality can totally block it, and the right mentality coupled with the right words and get her there more quickly, more easily, and multiply her sensation by 10 or even 100 times.

At the beginning, telling her how sexy she is TO YOU is really important because women love to know that they're wanted and desired by you. It turns them on to know that you are turned on by THEM.

As you start, you can use leading language to heighten the experience for her. The sexual state is a trance state, and thus hypnotic language patterns, suggestive language, etc. will work to create images in her mind, and sensations in her body. If you tell her "every time I touch your body you feel more and more aroused" she WILL become more aroused as you touch her, just by the virtue of having said it.

When she's having an orgasm, being able to read the signs that it's coming, building the anticipation, and then TELLING HER to cum for you, is immensely powerful, especially if you tell her to cum as hard as she can for you like a good girl. This also anchors your words to her pleasure and builds massive amounts of trust in you and what you say - to the point where you can even tell her to cum on command without even touching her!

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*NOTE* Why did I emphasise dirty talk so much? Because it's REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT. The female orgasm is almost entirely mental. The mechanics help her get there, but the wrong mentality can totally block it, and the right mentality coupled with the right words and get her there more quickly, more easily, and multiply her sensation by 10 or even 100 times.
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@ Ryan Oceros aka blondguy...Great advice....

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also a good idea to incorporate some spanking, hair pulling, and other random mild acts of violence such as the occasional pimp smack.


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Try Different position. Some position get you off quick and some position let you do more, but feel less = Last longer


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Try to get a prescription for paxil. It's an anti-anxiety drug with a side effect of curing PE. You have to take it for a few weeks before you notice a difference. Worked great for me!


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I suggest that you think of something else, something that gives you a hard time remembering. For example:

The Team who won the 1991 NBA championships or the equivalent of cosine 90 degrees.

It will really help you last longer in bed

Give it a try, Good Luck!

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