I started college this past September and came in with guns blazing, opening every girl I saw and having a lot of fun in general. I met one girl who I really liked and we started dating. Physical stuff started to escalate and then all of a sudden she started acting completely different (this was after about 2 or 3 weeks of dating). I could tell something was wrong so I asked her and she talked about how she felt we didn't really even know each other and that she had already gone further in our relationship than she had ever gone before (she is very religious). She then said that we should get to know each other as friends better before dating again...

Well, that pissed me off and I havent really hung out with her since...
Problem is, lately she has been texting me and talking to me more and i've been thinking about her a lot which is sort of affecting my social/academic life right now...

I just feel like we are two completely different people but at the same time I can't stop thinking about her lately?

SHIT what should I do...

Thanks guys.

Duke

I have said it before! Hands off my girl!

It seems like there are many people out there with this problem. I believe that there is no other way to deal with it than treating this like extreme LMR. I say freezeouts and show a willingness to walk away. And in between show some affection. Push pull!