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I know that a key part in having a good relationship/ keeping a girl is making her orgasm during sex. But does it matter how?

I've recently been struggling to last long enough to make my girlfriend cum from just penetration but i always make sure to make her cum at least once or twice via oral.

Does this matter or not?

As long as you're giving her orgasms, you're fine.

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Clitoral orgasms are orgasms that she can give herself.

They're cool all, but for most women there is nothing like being able to come while the man is still thrusting inside of them. It's a different kind of orgasm. And its a lot more fulfilling. She can give herself clitoral orgasms without a man all day though.

Clitoral orgasms once learned usually become the focus of men who aren't able to please their women any other way.

You're asking this question because somewhere in you, you feel this. You're not feeling all the way adequate with your performance and looking for someone on a forum to make you feel better about it. You're your own judge. And you know whats what internally.

You gotta want it man. The desire of wanting it usually will empower you with a better focus to make it happen. If you're worried about "coming to quick" you'll come quick. You gotta be all the way in it.. Physically mentally and emotionally. Once you're there, whatever confidence you currently have will shoot through the roof. I've talked to a lot of women, and most of them didn't even know what it meant to be pleased sexually. Some became underwhelmed at the thought of sex after sometime because they just werent getting anything out of it. That all changes when and if they find a man that actually knows what he's doing.

Clitoral orgasm are a consolation prize. But, use what you have until you master being present with yourself during the sexual act and out of your head. Also remember to BREATHE. And don't start breathing during sex.. Start before it starts, during the foreplay, and continue with an consistent breath all the way through sex.

You can get tip after tip online, but until you get out of your head and into your body; none of it will matter.

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