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Hi! I'm posting this just because I suck at texting game, I only approach in person and I'm uncertain about couple of things when it comes to texting.
So I've been dating this girl for more than 3 weeks, we meet quite often, 2-3 times a week, mostly when she texts me. Recently she started to text me just for sake of texting and this made me uncertain if I should text her some days, when she's not texted me yet. I'm interested in her, but I don't know if it's a good idea to text every day. Can you guys help me with this?
I'd rather not get into the semantics of 'do this/don't do that' because it puts constraints on the flow of things.
That said, I'm not suggesting you go unhinged and text her a running commentary of your day.
The struggle most guys encounter is wanting to look like the guy who has things going on in his life rather than idle at home awaiting the next text with baited breath, and showing interest.
Sometimes the conversations will just flow back n' forth. At other times they may feel forced. If its the later checkin with yourself 'am I doing this out of a neediness energy (e.g., feeling anxious about where I stand with her, want validation, etc), or am I doing this because I genuinely want connection out of an abundance energy.
It looks as though you're following her cue as to when its appropriate to text. Why not take the initiative and open a convo with her every now and again? This is a great way to convey interest, used to stoke the connection flame in-between hangouts, and possibly even generate mystery and intrigue for your next date.