having our 10th date soon, I was thinking about bringing a single rose. would give it to her in a cheeky casual manor, nothing too romantic.

too much?

Lame. It's 2017. Women want to catch a buzz, and have killer orgasms.

Perfectly fine. Only the chodes above would overthink something like this like it were some grand gesture.

Go with your gut.

Flowers should be saved for special occasions. A 10th date is not one. Where do you go from here?

Personally think Flowers for no reason are cheesy and over played. They are a gift yes but the 'Romantic' essence of them can come across as too much for just a simple date.

But if you want to surprise her with flowers then go for it. Only issue I see is the need to ask if you should meaning you personally think it's too much or you want it to be received in a certain way. Trust me she is more than likely to pick up on that when you give them to her. Nothing worse then giving a gift while seeking a sort of validation from her.

You guys have to learn how to carry yourselves. Even the OP knows that they can be presented as cheeky and he's the one asking the question. If you treat it as a grand gesture than it's going to be looked at in that way.

If you're using flowers to communicate your intent instead of your actions then it's a loser move. If you do it and she can tell your intentions already (kind of like taking her on a tenth date), then it only puts an exclamation point on them.

Hench why i said what is in bold.

Flowers aren't special. You can get them at the same place that you can get your gas or groceries. The way you should look at gifts of any kind is that you are giving them because you want to and not because it's expected because of occasion or you think you'll win someone over.