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I need some advice asap guys.. My gf left me 50 days ago, and ignored my texts after that and even blocked me. So I've gone no contact for 43 days. I want her back though...
Why would you want a woman back who blocked you?
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So when I saw that she has unblocked me on Facebook, I wrote to her today... Actually I was just going to see if she would respond..... Since she totally ignored me for some days before I stopped contacting her and going NC.
On the same day she unblocked you?
Awful timing.
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I said
"Hey there *name*"
And then 1h later I sent "there's something important, can we take a walk on Monday 16:00?"
Me trying to say something that she's too curious to ignore. But it was not smart enough hahah
Right away, you're back to the needy, Debbie Downer overly-serious guy who she dumped.
She dumped you because the fun to negativity ratio was low, and here you are trying to have an "important" talk.
You're fucked. Sorry bro.
If i wasn't able to move on, I'd at least wait a while to message her after the unblocking. And I would message her something fun and light, not serious.
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4h later she said "what's important? I've moved on"
Toast.
1. hit the gym.
2. cut your carbs to under 60grams a day.
3. read literature, turn off the TV.
4. Go do man stuff like hikes, fixing shit, learning new things.
5. Go to a grocery store, book store, cultural event or bar every night.
6. Approach women, ask them out.
7. Show up to the date in the moment, chill, and playful. Escalate.
Rinse, repeat.