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Author:  CESARE [ Sun Jul 09, 2017 8:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

Hey guys, I've been together in an exclusive relationship with this girl for around 3 years now and today we were talking about future things we should do in bed. Among other things, I proposed to have a threesome and she looked quite worried. We talked about it and it seems that she is worried that bringing another woman in bed with us would break our relationship (as it happened to a friend of hers with her boyfriend) and that she isn't comfortable to show herself naked to someone else, even if that is a girl.
I'm sure there were other posts like these on this forum before, but I couldn't find them. I'd like to hear from people that had threesomes with their gfs before and especially those that had the same problem. How did they convince their GFs? Did the threesome break you up?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 10, 2017 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

One thing I've learned time and time again when dealing with women is to not introduce them to anything that you wouldn't be comfortable with them taking to the extreme. You give them a foot onto something and they have a good time and they'll take you a mile. In this case that could lead to her potentially getting with girls on her own without you around. Wondering if she's been "bi" this whole time. Now that may sound "cool" now, depending on what you're into, but you may not always feel that way. Just something to consider.

Anythings possible however, you just want to make sure you currently have the level of experience with women to handle this situation if it was to get out of control.

Why is it that you want to have a threesome with your current girlfriend? What if she just allowed you to have one without her? Just to satisfy your fantasy if thats what it is.

Author:  CESARE [ Mon Jul 10, 2017 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

I personally am comfortable to take this forward, but my gf really sees it as a taboo, I feel. And I am aware of the issues that may arise, although I do not see them as a threat knowing my girl.
The reason for wanting a threesome is that I want to see her with another girl in bed. That's it, really. And if I want to have a chance at having the threesome she will have to be in it. I don't believe she would mind sharing me for one night, but leaving me with two other girls is probably completely out of question.

Author:  JackZero [ Mon Jul 10, 2017 4:41 pm ]
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If you want a threesome with a girl, you need to have a girl that desires them. Threesomes are more about the woman than they are the man.

Author:  masterm1ne [ Mon Jul 10, 2017 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

I actually ruined a "relationship" by just saying the word threesome.

I fantasized about having one, I think most men do. After I actually had one, I was dissappointed, probably because I wasn't into the other woman. Like Jack said, I think each party has to be into the other, not just the girls. I will probably never have another unless it's proposed by the woman, and I'm into both of them and they are into me. You can only put your thing in 1 hole at a time anyway...

Sounds like your girl is not really interested in the idea though, in which case I woudln't do it.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Mon Jul 10, 2017 10:59 pm ]
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Date bisexual women, OP if you're into threesomes. They'll put themselves in situations where it can happen, and you just give the green light.

I only date bisexual women, because they've always just been more adventurous and open minded, IMHO. Conservative women bore me to death. The gf and I have a threesome every two months or so.

Author:  SonarPulse [ Tue Jul 11, 2017 3:09 am ]
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Date bisexual women, OP
So date literally any attractive woman :lol:

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Jul 11, 2017 5:25 am ]
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:lol:

Author:  R.C [ Tue Jul 11, 2017 6:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

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If you want a threesome with a girl, you need to have a girl that desires them. Threesomes are more about the woman than they are the man.
I wouldn't go as far as using the word desire, but at least curious.

Also OP, a threesome should to be an idea that is introduced prior to the relationship even being exclusive. You can't date someone for 2 years having never touched the subject, and then abruptly bring it up.
If you do that she'll not see it as you being you, but rather as an excuse to fuck other women. She might even be theoretically somewhat interested, but the timing will put her off and make her question your motives.

That said this isn't something you "convince" your girlfriend to do. Either it's brought up early on and she knows it's something to look forward to and/or she's interested and open about the subject herself. Your girlfriend is neither.

Author:  CESARE [ Tue Jul 11, 2017 10:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

Thank you for all your answers and more than valid points. Really helped a lot!

Author:  puaninja [ Thu Jul 13, 2017 1:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

In my experience about half of all women have bisexual tendencies. That seems like a good percentage unless you are with any of the millions of women who much like you, have ZERO bisexual tendencies.

My gf could never convince me to suck a guys dick while she watched, so why should I expect her to do the equivalent?

Author:  R.C [ Thu Jul 13, 2017 6:13 am ]
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My gf could never convince me to suck a guys dick while she watched, so why should I expect her to do the equivalent?
It's not really the same thing.

Author:  SonarPulse [ Fri Jul 14, 2017 8:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

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My gf could never convince me to suck a guys dick while she watched, so why should I expect her to do the equivalent?
If you were attracted to other men, and had frequently fantasized about sucking other men's dicks, would it really be such a stretch?

Author:  SKEITH [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to convince gf to have a threesome

That's probably a bit selfish. How would you feel if she said she wanted to have a threesome with you and another guy?

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