I would like to ask you advice, I'm a real beginner with girls and just started my very first relationship. I don't want to ruin it at all.
I'm 40 and couldn't manage to have a gf before. Actually I have university degree, I'm nice and intelligent, have my own flat and car, whatever could be attractive for a girls, but I've been always quite shy and unlucky with girls.
Now a girl of 45 has picked me via online dating site, she wanted to meet me at once. She finds me very attractive and she shows it clearly. Our second date was 8 hours long of walking and talking and kissing and at the end we finished off in my bed. That night it was only petting and next morning we had sex.
Now we are planning our third date tomorrow. We have declared a relationship. She is really nuts about me, telling me she is thinking about me all the day. I like her so much as well and I want to keep her and not to ruin this. Although this situation is totally new for me, sometimes I can't really believe that this is happening to me.
I need your advice in a very important question.
Shall I confess her that actually she is my first relationship?
I'm really afraid this information would frighten her away, but I don't want to lie her as well.
She already asked me about my previous relationships multiple times but so far I've been telling her it's too early to discuss about this topic.
Anyhow I can't keep this as a secret for a long time, since many of my friends and relatives know well I never had a girlfriend and once I introduce her to them it will not be a secret anymore.
What do you suggest me to do? Shall I share this information with her? If yes, when and how shall I do it?