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So basically, i have this girl friend of mine. We've known each other for 2 years but we've never been something more than friends. Two weeks ago, she broke up with her bf cause she found out he cheated on her with his ex. He was her "first", so she really became heart broken. A guy saw her on the street while she was crying and he "comforted" her. But turned out, another "i just want your meat wallet" douche. Finally, her ex texted her to go out for a drink to talk. Guess what, he started mumbling that she would be happy if she hadnt broken up with him ("too jealous" she had described him) . So, i was thinking about telling to her that i like her. It may not be the best time to do that, but I can't see her depressed. I don't want to give her the impression that i just want to fuck her like the other dudes, now that she is emotionally vulnerable.
P.S. I liked her even before what happened to her, but I saw her being happy with her bf so I didn't want to be the bitch that tries to get them to break up
The entire post is trivial beyond trying to elucidate as to why you'd waited 2 years to reveal your true feelings for her. So, why?
And while we can speculate as to the 'why' I'd sooner the answer to this question come from you.
In another vein, this girl is likely grieving the loss of an attachment and as such isn't in any sort of a headspace to contemplate beginning a new relationship. You may be one of the few people she trusts, and provides a sense of safety for her - do you really want to chime in with the "I like you do you like me" thing now?