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| Author: | Arthua [ Mon Jun 19, 2017 9:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
So, I've been dating this girl for last 4 months and if I could describe her that would be perfect girl for me. She isn't really hot (9,10) but she is very cute. Also she really understands me even though not many people can do that. For the past month I've had some problems in university and she was by my side every day (we are in the same university, so she can actually help). Now that the problem is over I whenever I see her I don't get as exited as I use to. So is it natural for me to feel like this or am I just not into her anymore? P.s. we have sex on a weekly level, we see each other almost every day, she is really into me and this is my first relationship that lasted this long (so i don't know if its natural to feel like this at some point). Thanks in advance |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jun 19, 2017 1:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
You see each other every day because you have the same classes, or you see each other every day outside of classes? If it's the latter, you're overdoing it. |
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| Author: | Arthua [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 12:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
we have same classes and now we have same assignments, but i get what you say Also if we don't see each other that much in future should everything go back to normal? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 12:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
Maybe. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
Quote: She isn't really hot but she is very cute.
You're not satisfied with what you're looking for, but tolerating it because you already have mediocre pussy, and therefore settling is easier than going after what you really want.
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 6:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
I don't want to say this is completely natural, but it does seem to be normal nowadays. The hottest girl you'll meet is really only "hot" to you for the first 3-6months. Once she fully commits herself and gives into the relationship you won't feel as excited by her as you did when she was more unattainable. You begin getting used to her, the beauty, the cuteness, the sex, and everything else. It's all apart of the dating game though. As you mature you'll learn how to deal with this, because you learn this no real way around it. You girlfriend/wife becomes a business partner as well as a lover. When you're younger, you spend a lot of time running around chasing that hot, looking for the rush and excitement again. Especially when you know you have the potential to attract high quality women. When goes up comes down my friend, and goes back up again. You'll either learn how to ride the storm or you'll keep jumping ships. But storms do come. So it's possible some of the excitement will return in a few months. If she's a good chick, you should be able to communicate this to her and she'll be able to make a few adjustments. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 1:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
Only way to know for sure is to start seeing her less frequently. |
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| Author: | Arthua [ Wed Jun 28, 2017 9:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Me getting colder (Need Advice) |
Thanks for all, and yes it seems we were seeing each other to much when we needed to have time to relax from all the stress (from university). Now that it passed all is good again |
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