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When we were dating she told me she has this guy best friend who she has for years, i told her at that time i don't believe in guys and girls being best friends because there is always 1 of the 2 who secretly wants more.... hows your personal view on this thought?
Personally, I dont care about this type of thing because all that matters is whether I think my girl is the one who secretly wants more. What does it matter if he does? For eg, in college, my gf had a male friend. Now, guy was a typical "nice guy" and hung out with her and her other female friends like one of the girls but wasnt gay. I hung out with him a few times, he was cool, but I could tell from the way he checked my gf out he liked her romantically. Now, I didnt care because I'd be more surprised if my gf at the time could ever have feelings for him, just from the type of guy he was. One day, he tells her he loves her and has for years,she tells him he's a friend, and they werent friends anymore. That's not something for me to worry about whether HE likes her, if it comes out all that matters is how SHE feels. So if I trust my gf, why care about whether he's secretly in love with her?
Yeah, there's a lack of trust or insecurity on your side. If this guy DOES want your gf..
how does that affect you? There are so many guys here begging for ways out of the friendzone, this guy could very well be one of them, as opposed to the guy who knew your gf for 10 years, and somehow withing THESE 3 MONTHS, he's gonna finally fuck her. Think of those odds...guy knows your gf for YEARS, somehow in these 3 months, thats when he's gonna get the game to fuck her?
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Out of respect for my relationship i would invite her along to meet her first and not sent snapchats showing me and her having drinks.
Damn Jack, took my words outta my head with his response.
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The issue, however, is between you and your girlfriend.
If you have issue with your gf not inviting you, and sending snaps first...thats an issue with HER...not HIM. Dont be a punk and go blame the guy for your gfs actions. Personally, I wont care...but if you take disrespect from this, its your gf who hit send on those snaps.